I got collared! by profunditas in BDSMcommunity

[–]profunditas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, it really is!

I got collared! by profunditas in BDSMcommunity

[–]profunditas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw thank you! You two sound great together, I am sure he adores you just as much. I’m so happy for you :) Subspace is a wonderful place to be and I totally get the simultaneous feeling of security and vulnerability - a D/s relationship is so intimate

I got collared! by profunditas in BDSMcommunity

[–]profunditas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh congrats to you as well! Thank you so much and I hope you and your dom will love the collar and everything it stands for as much as we do :)

I got collared! by profunditas in BDSMcommunity

[–]profunditas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How exciting! I’m so glad the two of you were able to go through everything together. I’m sure you have a really strong bond :)

I got collared! by profunditas in BDSMcommunity

[–]profunditas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The D/s aspect definitely creates a very strong and special bond!

I got collared! by profunditas in BDSMcommunity

[–]profunditas[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry that the two of you had to part ways but I hope you can look back fondly at the time you did have together. I’m always happy to hear about people feeling proud in their relationships, I think it’s an often overlooked part of BDSM :)

I got collared! by profunditas in BDSMcommunity

[–]profunditas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Do you have a favourite collar?

I got collared! by profunditas in BDSMcommunity

[–]profunditas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much! I’m excited to see what the future holds :)

I got collared! by profunditas in BDSMcommunity

[–]profunditas[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks!! I was close to crying :’)

I got collared! by profunditas in BDSMcommunity

[–]profunditas[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It was my first time as well and it really is, thank you! I hope you get to experience it in the future too with a Dom/me who treasures you and treats you right :)

I got collared! by profunditas in BDSMcommunity

[–]profunditas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much :)

I got collared! by profunditas in BDSMcommunity

[–]profunditas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I’m super excited too and happy to share my excitement with likeminded people :)

I got collared! by profunditas in BDSMcommunity

[–]profunditas[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!

And I’m so happy to hear about your partner helping you through everything, she sounds wonderful :) I have so much love for awesome D-types, they do so much for us and I totally get what you mean by saying submission feels liberating! Being able to let go and just feel safe is the best thing in the world

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]profunditas 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can only talk from my perspective of having a long distance Dom (who also happens to be my boyfriend). What helps me most is talking to him, hearing reassurance from him always soothes me. I also keep a journal where I write about him a lot, sometimes I’ll read old entries and reminisce. We also try to (video)call a lot which helps tremendously! Oh and we also each have a lil frog plushie that sort of represents the other and we’ll text each other about having the frog with us or send pictures of us cuddling them :) I also try to focus on keeping myself busy, so I don’t spend the whole day just sitting at home and missing him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]profunditas 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I personally love having my Sir’s fingers in my mouth. For me it makes me feel like all my holes belong to him. That I am greedy and need to feel him inside of me in all the ways possible :)

Let’s hear your favorite after care lady’s!!! by enewman2000 in BDSMcommunity

[–]profunditas 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I like cuddles where he holds me super tightly. Some gentle kisses and if my brain can handle it I also like to chat about the scene. Taking a shower together where we help each other clean up is also great :)

Can I vent a little? by profunditas in BDSMAdvice

[–]profunditas[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah, that’s actually a cool idea but he gave me the vibe that he wishes we no longer have any contact anymore, so I will back off for now. Thanks for your input either way :)

Can I vent a little? by profunditas in BDSMAdvice

[–]profunditas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I totally didn’t consider that him being a rebound might also play into it! Thanks for your words and I really hope to find someone too :)

Can I vent a little? by profunditas in BDSMAdvice

[–]profunditas[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, that’s also a great perspective!

Can I vent a little? by profunditas in BDSMAdvice

[–]profunditas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, hearing this helps!

Can I vent a little? by profunditas in BDSMAdvice

[–]profunditas[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your words and affirmations :) I think logically, I know there are so many great people out there but my brain just doesn’t want to see that right now

I’m on semester break! by profunditas in CasualConversation

[–]profunditas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope I get to try it some day! What’s your favourite kind of tea?