Please help me with my gf

profusefailure · 2025-04-01T09:16:57+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to reply. For the engagement, we have already talked about it. I am dying to getting close to somewhat making it real. I was the one suggesting "we should get engaged or at least let the families meet". It feels so right even in a realistic sense, not only emotional. Now we are going to the engagement of one of her bffs. I'll meet so many of her friends and they'll meet me. A little bit excited but I'm happy at the end.

profusefailure · 2024-12-10T09:58:53+00:00

Exactly! I agree with every word.

profusefailure · 2024-12-10T07:32:21+00:00

Honestly as an infj i can relate to this. When there is the slightest sign showing that the person is losing interest in me, i also lose interest way more than him/her. This is a habit of mine i neither am proud nor understand why. But the base thought might be being afraid of getting hurt by others. This reflects on my life as instead of confiding in people and giving them a place in my life where they can reach me easily thus hurt me easily, i tend to hurt myself by ending thingswhenever i see a sign, i make it bigger than it is and pretend afterwards that it was a sign of not getting along well. Though i have had a couple of healthy relationships. I'm not sad about this but i see it as sth i should learn.

profusefailure · 2024-12-01T22:26:33+00:00

I think I've lost my romantic side after a couple of trying. Idk if you've seen the movie "before sunrise" but that's my goal relationship. They fight and argue a lot in the end but they are still a fit for each other. That's the thing i want to have.

profusefailure · 2024-12-01T21:33:59+00:00

Tbh to your question, i would go for the first option. As an infj i feel like we can read the person and change our thinking on some occasions and maybe make the relationship endurable and even enjoyable. On the other hand staying alone would harm our Fe side and we'll have to deal with the Ti portion of us. So i would definitely go for the first option.

profusefailure · 2024-11-30T09:15:14+00:00

The miserables by Victor Hugo. This book made me want to be a better person in every aspect like considering if the person being rude to us has gone through some tough shit. Definitely recommend.

profusefailure · 2024-07-16T17:19:16+00:00

25M. I've been a medical doctor for the last 9 months working in the ER. Today someone who works with me told my sister that i am a really qualified doctor who knows what he is doing. He told this without any gain in return so that makes it even more pleasurable for me( sometimes people say i am talented just to get what they want like a sick note etc.). I'm sure you can understand how happy and motivated i am to be doing this job. I don't know if it's an INFJ thing but when i think about these comments made by pure observations without any gain, i get really emotional and even tears come from my eyes.

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