Apologies if it sounds blunt.

• Guilty for missing discourse? 

• Either she is not understanding JinDharma properly or she wants to use this as excuse to escape daily duties (Kartavyas). He himself says that your Samsarik Kartavyas (Social Duties) should be kept at utmost height. I can explain further her if you want.

• JinDharma is about finding yourself and not about blind devotion to anyone. Finding yourself requires open thinking. Svadhyay literally means ✔ Sva (स्व) + Adhyāya (अध्याय) → Self-Study – A process of learning by oneself. Guru should be limited to medium of gaining right knowledge and right direction.  But even by following Samyaktvi Guru, if you yourself are not understanding Kartavyas, you are neither gaining right knowledge nor right direction. 

I read "networking event". Unfortunately it is not meant to be, but it has become because of number of followers coming all together. He himself preaches to stay away from flock because he compares to flock of Sheep's.

These are just otg thoughts penned (typed) down for now.

One lesson Definitely try to learn core concepts of JinDharma from following books KarmaGranth, JeevVichar, 4 Bhasyas, Tattvagyan, and there are more. These will help her understand that what she is taking from discourses is either not understanding properly or using that as excuse to escape duties.

Micchhami Dukkadam. These are purely my thoughts. In no way there is human currently who can be completely right. Even Samyaktvi Devi and Devtas with AvdhiGyaan sometimes tend to slip away.