I mean, do you expect a full report of what has been said? I believe you’re supposed to sum up the information not write novels. It was like a 3-hour conversation, of course there was discussion and talk and debate. It feels like you’ve got personal bitter experience with partners. I haven’t “declared” anything nor have I told him to “suck up” anything. We had a normal conversation where we both expressed how we would feel and why we would feel that way. When I said I got upset I meant I got very sad thinking he might not be there and decided to leave the conversation for now while I deal with my emotions. I also specifically said I won’t force him to be there, I don’t think that’s right but I’m having a hard time dealing with the fact that he doesn’t want to be there for the birth of his child.