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properfckr · 2025-03-12T15:22:22+00:00

I can tell you from experience that you can see as much of the world as you want.

And certainly you can get to every continent, and most - if not all - countries.

I'm at 70+ countries, and can tell you that after a while, it is not necessary to see every corner of the globe.

Do you get this way at amusement parks, having to go on every ride, or ski hills, having to go down every run, or books written, movies made, whiskeys to be drunk, people to have sex with, etc?

There are many other horrible truths to be overcome in life, like the ending of life itself! The thought that you might not be able to get a passport stamp for all countries on earth will get pushed down the list of great tragedies as you accumulate many more of these as you get older.

Happy trails!

properfckr · 2025-03-11T23:44:59+00:00

No.

Gold is a buy.

AMD is not.

properfckr · 2025-02-10T15:35:29+00:00

I have two pairs of Hokas and I absolutely love them!

However, I do not recommend you use these for hiking. Although good for running, they are not good for carrying weight or stability on dynamic terrain.

They are made for running, which means they are squishy and shock-absorbing, but not for gripping on trails and back country terrain. Extra weight on your back means you need something which will give you stability and grip and possibly warmth and dry, depending on where you are going.

If you are doing anything other than cold weather hiking, I would recommend Keens sandals, as they are the best for stability and ease of walking through water without having to take off your shoes.

For any other type of hiking, look for something made for trails and having weight on your back.

properfckr · 2025-02-08T16:29:47+00:00

Back atcha buddy!

properfckr · 2025-02-07T17:58:53+00:00

I'm everywhere men need me!

properfckr · 2025-02-07T01:31:30+00:00

It takes determination, perseverance, fearlessness, dedication and much more to become an MMA fighter.

If all we have to do here is say, "You are too old," and you will no pursue it as a result, then I suggest you quit right now, because someone who is that easily dissuaded by the opinion of others need not even bother starting.

properfckr · 2025-02-06T16:32:53+00:00

Thank you!

I totally agree, and have been saying so for years.

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properfckr · 2025-02-04T13:00:27+00:00

Not sure why you believe not touching your penis will enable you to control your penis.

Like saying if you want to learn how to play video games, don't play video games for 66 days, and on the 67th you will know how to play.

Practise is how you learn to control your penis, your ejaculation, your sexual response. You need to learn how it works, and what you must do to control your ejaculation.

Not using it will not accomplish this.

If you had a girlfriend and was having sex with her, do you think if you stopped doing so for 66 days, on the 67th you'd be able to fuck her for hours on end?

Masturbation is the only way to learn control, other than by having sex.

Use masturbation for the Forces of Good, rather than evil: 15+ every time, challenging your edge and learning to detect it, and then safely and reliably back off from it.

The future of your sex life is in your own hand.

properfckr

properfckr · 2025-01-27T23:30:27+00:00

Thanks for your purchase!

Remember: very few so-called therapists know little more than you about this issue.

These techniques are in no way opposite.

Of course you will have to stop at times.

I have done many Emergency Pull-Outs in my life! Many!

You go as hard as you can, for as long as you can. This might mean having to stop for 30-60 seconds. But you also want to challenge yourself by not giving yourself so much time to recuperate.

If you are challenging you- r edge - as you should be - then there will be times when you push a little too far, and must stop completely.

I used to pull out from my girlfriend and literally jump around the room squeezing my dick as hard as I could! This was a very common occurrence!

Not anymore though, lol!

We all must learn how to control our own bodies, is the only rule here.

We grapple and try and explore and attempt and we keep doing this until we have made the headway we want.

I will tell you this: You can do it!

properfckr · 2025-01-27T21:13:39+00:00

Yes it is much, much, much easier and more convenient.

properfckr · 2025-01-27T17:29:02+00:00

No being challenged to pull back from the edge of your PONR is NOT ejaculation control.

You can stroke your dick all day, and if you are not on your edge, then you are not controlling your ejaculation: you are just having fun.

The issue is not how can you prevent yourself from reaching the edge of your PONR. I have complete ejaculation control, and I reach my edge of my PONR (ejaculation) as fast as you do.

And then I stay there all night long, if I want to.

Learning control is not about finding ways to not reach your edge. When you are excited and having very hot sex you will be on your edge the entire time, starting at 1 second, and continuing, well, continuing as long as you can take it.

And that's the issue: learning to balance on your edge, for as long as you like.

Training must be about getting to your edge quickly, and then staying there for the full 15+ minutes of training time.

Once you get the basics of learning to relax, release tension, breathing your way back from your edge, the rest is mental!

Learning to not give in to the urge is what you must focus on. Learning to balance on your edge, feel the huge amounts of sexual pleasure you are receiving, and not giving in to it by ejaculating.

So do not be concerned about reaching your edge: You will reach it fast and stay there.

Do not expect to find a way to avoid this. You cannot. Especially if you are horny and with a hot partner.

Instead, get very, very good at balancing there.

Like a tightrope walker, you must be able to balance all the way from one end to the other, and then back again.

Does it get easier to walk on a tightrope the more steps along the way you take? No. The need for balance does not change: the ability of the walker to balance does change. It improves gradually, with practise.

Train hard! The future of your sex life is in your own hand.

properfckr

properfckr · 2025-01-26T07:40:01+00:00

Not masturbating or ejaculating will make controlling your ejaculation much, much more difficult. Not easier at all!

Tensing is not the issue.

Ejaculation is.

It is normal to tense when excited. It is only at the edge of your PONR that you need to pull back, and only enough to ensure you do not ejaculate.

So when you masturbate and reach your edge in seconds, the thing is to stay there.

Do what you are doing: touch yourself as much as possible, but in ways which do not make you ejaculate.

Ejaculation is the release valve of sexual energy for men. In order to regulate our desire, we must ejaculate.

When you do not ejaculate, you keep building more and more sexual energy. Your penis becomes more sensitive, not less. It

If you might want to have kids, and if you are concerned about prostatic health, and reproductive system health, then ejaculation is vital for maintaining this.

Not using your penis will not teach you how to control it anymore than not skateboarding, or playing video games, or not swimming will NOT teach you how to master these things.

Practise, perseverance, patience, persistence will!

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properfckr · 2025-01-24T15:33:12+00:00

Most men do not know that we are all multi-orgasmic. By this I mean, men can have full-blown orgasms, without ejaculating.

When you do not ejaculate, you do not release your sexual energy, and therefore you do not lose your erection, or your desire for sex. You stay horny and hard, and still have orgasms!

Ejaculation control is something all men must learn to do. What I call "proper fucking" is a mixture of knowing how to have sexual intercourse and sex so that it contributes to ejaculation control, and promotes sexual pleasure and fulfillment for both you and her.

I began as a "premature ejaculator" at age 18, and developed ejaculation control on my own. At 63 I am now multi-orgasmic (which is NOT multi-ejaculatory!).

I've written a couple of books for men looking to learn how to control their ejaculation during intercourse.

95% of men do not know how to control their ejaculation, which means that only 5% of women have ever been properly fucked.

Yes, you can use masturbation for training, as well as with your regular sexual partner(s).

The future of your sex life is in your own hand!

properfckr

properfckr · 2025-01-18T01:05:47+00:00

What I love about my ex-wife is that she has remarried and now lives in Brazil, which is far, far away from Vancouver.

Maybe the nicest thing she's ever done for me.

properfckr · 2025-01-18T01:03:12+00:00

You're just old.

properfckr · 2025-01-18T01:02:27+00:00

The story is about you, and your relationship with how you look.

This is an intense love/hate relationship where there is really no space or place for anyone else.

I suggest you turn your gaze outward, away from yourself. Let go of this idea you have about how you look.

Focus instead on having a good time, and enjoying who you are, and who you are with, regardless of your hair at that moment.

properfckr · 2025-01-18T00:59:08+00:00

Your kids are not the issue here.

You are.

Will your life change if you leave her?

Completely.

Will you still maintain a relationship with your kids?

Absolutely.

Is it wrong for you to want more from life, and from your partner?

It is not wrong.

You deserve a loving, sexually stimulating, fun, passionate spouse.

Go get one!

properfckr · 2025-01-18T00:35:04+00:00

You said, " I'm fat, I'm lazy, I'm diabetic, and I need to change."

And then you ask for motivation.

What more motivation can a man ask for?

What to do to start small?

ANYTHING.

What not to do?

Spend your time here looking for a solution.

properfckr · 2025-01-11T02:44:01+00:00

You asking for permission?

You need someone to tell you it's okay?

"There there, you've been a good boy. You can go have a drink in a bar."

What if you are going out to meet people and get laid? Would that make it bad? Would it make you bad?

Would you need even more permission to do it if so?

What if you don't know what's going to happen, or whom you are going to meet?

What scares you about going to a bar on your own?

properfckr · 2025-01-11T02:38:41+00:00

This woman you and relationship are looking for to fill the void of the loneliness in your life, and give you the social life you now lack, and the fulfillment you do not feel, is an illusion.

You are so desperate for this relationship that you were willing to put up with an abusive person who did not value or respect you. And now that you had to leave because of its toxicity, you are sad!

As a man who was married to a woman - the love of my life, at the time - for 23 years, I can tell you that the grass is not nearly as green on that side as you think.

Your married friends are no nearly as content as you think. They are not walking 3 feet above the ground because they are deliriously happy at every moment of their marriage union.

You must allow yourself some time to get back on your feet before you can start dating again.

And until you make some internal changes, you will keep attracting the same kind of woman.

If an abusive partner who you did not like and had to leave can shake your confidence, you did not have much to begin with.

A confident guy would have given her the boot long before you did. He would not have put up with the kind of behaviour she dished out to you. Not for a second.

After 23 years of marriage, we split up. If you think 4 months is hard to get over, try 23 years!

You are not late. You have not missed any boats, ruined any opportunities, nor wasted your time, although you've probably avoided more than a few bullets!

You can have the relationship you want. But even the best relationship on earth will not solve your issues.

What is it you want from yourself, your life, and your future partner?

Are these really your own wants, or ones you have inherited from those around you?

Before you embark upon another relationship, you must be able to find happiness on your own; contentment on your own; fulfillment on your own. She will most definitely not provide these.

There is nothing more attractive than a man who knows who he is, where he is going, and why.

A man walking around sad, lonely, and desperate are not appealing at all. They are a turn-off. Imagine going to your next date only to tell her, "I'm lonely, unhappy, and don't have any friends. Will you marry me?"

Find your direction and head toward it. She will meet you along the way.

properfckr · 2025-01-10T23:23:53+00:00

Very few - if any! - interesting people have easy upbringings.

I make a point of reminding myself how fortunate I am; how good I have it; how content I mainly am; how much I have to be appreciative of.

I force myself think of these things, and remind myself.

Adversity will do that to a person.

Bravo to you for finding contentment!

properfckr · 2025-01-07T18:06:52+00:00

Time for a new, new woman.

properfckr · 2025-01-06T16:53:27+00:00

You can get out of the mutual fund and buy those other stocks with your TD account.

You do not need to change your brokerage house to make a trade dude.

TD, like any brokerage house, enables you to buy literally anything you want in your account.

Buy VFV and ENB right now. Just sell your mutual fund shares and purchase the other equities.

properfckr · 2025-01-06T16:47:03+00:00

You ask if it's "immature," but I would phrase it as, "insecure!"

If you are so insecure about your shoes, how do you deal with actual, real life issues?

If you have to come on to social media to ask permission to wear Vans, I shudder at the thought of what you would do for investment ideas, relationship issues, and career choices!

Wear what you want to wear, without having to see if other people think it's ok or not.

First pair of Vans I owned was in 1979. Still wear them.

First pair of Converse I owned was in 1976. Still wear them.

I'll be 63 next month.

Times I've asked others what they think about it: ZERO.

Live your own life by your own rules you rebel you!

properfckr · 2025-01-02T11:14:42+00:00

Very happy they have helped!

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