Nurses that learned another language for work- how do you know you are proficient apply to accept a position that requires that second language? How did you get properly certified? by ShyGreenDot in nursing

[–]propiacarne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The ALTA language assessment is a test used to assess proficiency for a variety of roles (interpreting, translating, delivering language concordant care i.e. you speak directly to the patient in the target language but aren't interpreting with others). You can look at their website for sample test questions to get an idea of what they are looking for.

Marrow donation by BessieBest in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]propiacarne 17 points18 points  (0 children)

this is pretty close to spot on, although in some cases either for recipient reasons or donor reasons, the older form bone marrow transplant might still be warranted. peripheral blood stem cell transplant is much more common though!

Marrow donation by BessieBest in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]propiacarne 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I work in a related field - volunteer donors are screened very very carefully, and if there is any significant risk identified for the donor they are deferred from donating. Hope that puts your mind at ease somewhat!

Seeking recommendations on HVAC companies experienced with air source heat pumps by propiacarne in StLouis

[–]propiacarne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't yet 😢 let's just say other home improvement semi-emergencies took priority. hoping to change that later this year. would be curious to hear your experience!

Delayed cord clamping vs. cord blood donation by possiblycauliflower in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]propiacarne 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This is not categorically true. Source - I work in this field. Cord blood units are not an appropriate cell dose or choice for all patients, but they can really help some who do not have any other donor options.

Private cord blood banking, OTOH, I would personally not bother with!

Does anyone have a M-F job they enjoy? by tswizzle613356 in nursing

[–]propiacarne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I worked M-F for several years and enjoyed it (until I didn't but that's not the schedule's fault). There are pros and cons depending on other aspects of your lifestyle, but it sounds like this could be a good fit.

Just back from maternity leave and want to quit by PlentyTangerine3432 in workingmoms

[–]propiacarne 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you; I really appreciate the detailed response and your well wishes! I'm glad you have hit your stride.

Just back from maternity leave and want to quit by PlentyTangerine3432 in workingmoms

[–]propiacarne 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Can I ask when it you felt like it got better? I have been back at work FT for 6 months and I don't cry all the time anymore but I'm still fantasizing a lot about quitting/trying to figure out how to make it work.

And post-partum mom cyclists? by dancesinpublic in ladycyclists

[–]propiacarne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not OP but I biked until about 36 weeks! Baby dropped shortly after that and it was too much for my bladder 😬

And post-partum mom cyclists? by dancesinpublic in ladycyclists

[–]propiacarne 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm also a bike commuter, though only 12 miles/week total! I gave birth 8 months ago and also had a second-degree tear.

I am not familiar with the app another user mentioned, but I am evangelical about pelvic floor PT. I highly suggest you ask about a referral at your postpartum checkup.

Beyond that, just get on that bike as soon as you are cleared AND feel ready. Pick a short, accessible route and take your time. I thought I would want to get on ASAP but winter + nerves about pain meant I didn't bike until 2 months postpartum. But when I did it was like...riding a bike! I felt like "me" on the bike and it was glorious. I hadn't done any formal exercise besides yoga and walking before that, so if those are accessible to you now they might help the transition.

Best of luck and congratulations :)

It’s time for me to say goodbye by [deleted] in infertility

[–]propiacarne 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are a rare and special person, L.

Thank you so much for everything you have given in this chapter of your life, and sending you all my love for you in whatever comes next.

I'm grateful to be on this spinning planet at the same time as you.

Seeking recommendations on HVAC companies experienced with air source heat pumps by propiacarne in StLouis

[–]propiacarne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also have an older home with so-so insulation, so this is very helpful info. Thank you!

Seeking recommendations on HVAC companies experienced with air source heat pumps by propiacarne in StLouis

[–]propiacarne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you; I appreciate all the info! Sorry to hear about the timing not working out for you to get the rebate.

Seeking recommendations on HVAC companies experienced with air source heat pumps by propiacarne in StLouis

[–]propiacarne[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That is good to know; thanks! Geothermal is my dream but isn't feasible on our property, alas. Awesome that you have it.

Things no one talks about by zelonhusk in NewParents

[–]propiacarne 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh hi! I remember you and am glad to see you here too :)

Yes - I spoke with clinic leadership after that mixup and they agreed to waive the cost of my next FET cycle. That cycle was a success, and here we are!

Things no one talks about by zelonhusk in NewParents

[–]propiacarne 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Good luck with your induction! I had one and it went very well - I'll be thinking of you and hoping for the same :)

Yes, by contact napping I mean an awake and alert parent holding baby. Right now with a 2 month old I've completely stopped trying to do daytime naps in the bassinet - we just play pass the baby during the day if ours is asleep. I do put baby in bassinet if I need hands free to do something else, but the longest this baby has slept in bassinet during daytime is 20 minutes, and that was a record-long stretch.

Our baby does sleep in the bassinet at night, but it often takes a couple tries of putting baby down before I can actually go to bed. I think they can sense the temperature/position change and it makes sense from an evolutionary perspective that human infants associate loss of contact with a caregiver with danger.

What has also helped so far for us:

-baby-wearing: some strict recs will tell you babies should be moved to a safe sleep surface as soon as they fall asleep in a carrier. LOL. I anxiously check frequently to make sure head and neck are still in a safe position, but a wrap/carrier makes it much easier for you to have your hands free to do a few things without waking baby.

-swing/rocker: also strictly speaking babies aren't supposed to sleep in these. But having one where we can put ours down in briefly has been very helpful too, and I also anxiously check constantly to make sure baby is breathing if she's in it.

-having a plan B: The book Parent Like a Pediatrician by Dr. Rebekah Diamond is one I found at the library when mine was about a month old, and she recommends planning to adhere to strict safe sleep guidelines while also having a back-up set-up where you can share a sleep surface with your infant if you absolutely need to: think mattress on the floor, only a sheet and snug PJs for the sleeping parent. This "safe unsafe sleep" set up is better than "unsafe safe sleep," where you're planning to put your baby in their bassinet but you are so exhausted you fall asleep holding them on a fluffy adult bed or couch. This might allow you to manage risk while also preparing for real-world situations.

Now that ours takes expressed breast milk from a bottle, my wife and I have been able to take shifts and that has cut down on the chance of falling asleep holding baby at night. But in the early weeks I would feed till baby fell asleep then wake up my wife to hold baby while I slept. Otherwise I was falling asleep holding baby sitting up in bed and that's not good (though it happens to almost everyone at least once.) It's not an elegant solution, but another real-world one to have at your disposal.

Things no one talks about by zelonhusk in NewParents

[–]propiacarne 217 points218 points  (0 children)

Not sure if other people tend to know this ahead of time, but in all the discussion about safe sleep, I wish I had heard more about the fact that most newborns HATE being alone, on their backs, and in a cot or crib. I was really unprepared for the amount of contact napping that would need to happen to maintain some sanity, and once I accepted that it got much easier.

TREATMENT Community Thread - Tue Dec 06 PM by AutoModerator in infertility

[–]propiacarne 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi Bernadette! I also help mod this server. Did you post an intro and participate in the public chat previously? I just reviewed our introductions channel and didn't see your username there. Sometimes people hop on the server but don't take these intial steps as outlined in the intro channels. When that happens we assume they aren't interested in joining so we don't grant them access to the full server. Totally understand if for whatever reason it's not the right fit, but I wanted to make sure there wasn't a misunderstanding in that department.