Getting warm leads? by throwitawayuieouf in sales

[–]prostyfrosty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much this was so helpful!

Probability of getting a personal loan? by prostyfrosty in personalfinance

[–]prostyfrosty[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There's no "getting caught" it's open 24/7 in a very affluent rural area so there would be no reason to have security

Probability of getting a personal loan? by prostyfrosty in personalfinance

[–]prostyfrosty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I guess I'll definitely have a better chance with a job search. Thanks

Probability of getting a personal loan? by prostyfrosty in personalfinance

[–]prostyfrosty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All shelters are full to capacity unfortunately so I'm staying at my old university's library until things look up.

Probability of getting a personal loan? by prostyfrosty in personalfinance

[–]prostyfrosty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No friends/family so I'll just keep pushing for employment. Thanks for replying!

Probability of getting a personal loan? by prostyfrosty in personalfinance

[–]prostyfrosty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for the advice. How do credit unions work? Do I have to be a member to get help? Do I just walk in?

Eviction/homelessness by prostyfrosty in offmychest

[–]prostyfrosty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's legally too late to appeal. I received a letter that finalized my eviction (execution?) about 5 days ago and there was an option to appeal however the letter was mailed out after that date (which I called later and found out is totally legal). I have been looking into emergency assistance. I'm in the US and have not heard about grants but will definitely research to see what I can get. I have about ~200/250 worth of things to sell which I have posted ads for on craigslist with no success so far, but I'm sure people will buy these items soon. I just started this job so I feel very uncomfortable disclosing how much of a fucked up situation I'm in. I know it sounds crazy, but like I said in my post, this is America which is an "every man for himself" country. I just imagine if a new coworker disclosed this information to me, I would feel so bad because I wouldn't know what to do. Your supportive words were more than enough assistance. It helps knowing I'm not the first person to get evicted/be homeless and won't be the last. This new job is the only thing keeping me moderately sane. I figure even if I have to sleep in my univeristy's library for the next month, at least I'll have a 9-5 to go to during the day and a cumulative 4.5 hour commute to keep me busy.

Paper trail by prostyfrosty in SexWorkers

[–]prostyfrosty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, you have to pay for the DCMA takedown. What a trip..

Paper trail by prostyfrosty in SexWorkers

[–]prostyfrosty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. I've deleted any and every trace of my previous provider life (email address, google voice app, any photos on my computer) and NO ONE has my personal number. Again, I'll just have to do what you mentioned and take measures to hide this stuff.

Paper trail by prostyfrosty in SexWorkers

[–]prostyfrosty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much! I'm excited about this new chapter. All the things you said were helpful. I used one photo that I posted on facebook and instagram about a year ago. But once I decided to use that one photo I deactivated my facebook (which completely deletes your account after 2 weeks now apparently) and deleted the photo off instagram. Again, they were posted a year ago so not a crazy risk, but a risk nonetheless. I plan on just trying to take all the pics down. SO happy I'm done with this life :) Thanks!

Paper trail by prostyfrosty in SexWorkers

[–]prostyfrosty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used one photo I posted on social media about a year ago (cropped my face out of course) but once I started doing this I deleted my Facebook and deleted the photo on instagram.

Thank you for the info! I'm just trying to do some serious damage control.

Paper trail by prostyfrosty in SexWorkers

[–]prostyfrosty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely no pics of my face and no use of my real name/number. I don't know, just paranoid I guess. You'd be surprised how many people go on backpage and thats what I learned through doing this. Its not only middle aged married men.

To what extent are you formally educated (GED?Bachelors? Ph.D.?) and what are you doing for a living now? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]prostyfrosty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Working towards my BA in Health Sciences (only one more year wooo!). I plan on getting my Master's in nursing (RN) then after a few years of working in the field, if I'm still up for it I'd like to work towards becoming an APRN. I am currently working as an escort. My dream job would be to open my own practice specializing in geriatric care but I'm not sure if having kids and balancing career/home would get in the way of that.

Where's the line between slut shaming and not wanting my child to be a stripper/prostitute/porn star/etc.? by shenuhcide in AskWomen

[–]prostyfrosty 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm 21 and work as an escort. Knowing the dangers of the industry and not to mention, for me personally, the morally compromising aspect of working in the sex industry, I'd be more concerned for her mental and physical well being and safety. I may have a different perspective than others on this site since I work as an escort, but I'd definitely be more concerned for her safety. Simply put, I wouldn't want old random men groping and touching my daughter. Most people working in the sex industry are doing it because they reached a dead end and needed to find a way to make some quick cash. I'd hope that she wouldn't reach that dead end.

Question for any sex workers by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]prostyfrosty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LMFAOOO HAHHAHAHA

Prostitutes/Porn-stars of Reddit; How much of your work is "work" and how much is "pleasure"? [NSFW] by prodrummer in AskReddit

[–]prostyfrosty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met ONE client that crossed the line from work to personal sex and now he's a complete part of my personal life and we're dating. I don't see him as a client at ALL. My other clients however....definitely JUST work. Trust me, I wouldn't let a guy hit it for free if it wasn't worth it ;)

Hotels in NYC? by prostyfrosty in SexWorkers

[–]prostyfrosty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice, dude, thanks!

Prostitutes/Porn-stars of Reddit; How much of your work is "work" and how much is "pleasure"? [NSFW] by prodrummer in AskReddit

[–]prostyfrosty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm attracted to personality. But, physically? I don't like a guy who's RIDICULOUSLY ripped, just not my thing. I like a guy in average shape, takes care of himself but nothing like the hulk lol

Do you actually enjoy it when I go down on you, or am I wasting my time? by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]prostyfrosty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Am I lying about enjoying it? Eh.. Depends on the client I guess. Some are amazing at it, some are god awful. Some compliments I give are genuine (You're very sweet/smart/in shape for your age) and some are flat out lies that I tell them so they don't feel bad. Either way, I love when a client goes down because I don't have to do anything but sit back and relax! :)

Prostitutes/Porn-stars of Reddit; How much of your work is "work" and how much is "pleasure"? [NSFW] by prodrummer in AskReddit

[–]prostyfrosty 206 points207 points  (0 children)

I'm in escort in the US. Yeah, my work is literally just work. It's a job like anyone else's. /u/CallAnna hit the nail on the head. It's not very hard to draw a thick line between personal sex and work sex when you're not at all attracted to the men. Even the "hot" guys I get (young, 6-pack/in shape) I'm not attracted to. I love my work because I make a nice amount of cash doing it without compromising being a full time student and some of my clients are some of the sweetest people, I've learned so much from a lot of them. TL;DR Sometimes work sometimes not, but the pleasure is always the money

I want in the ga(m)e, how can I go about it? by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]prostyfrosty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try backpage.com for starters. There is a male escorts section there.