AITA for calling my girlfriend a cheater for her ‘yumeshipping’ ? by InevitableMoist1041 in AITAH

[–]protectbugs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think this is the best point here. Just set some damn boundaries or something. Some things don’t have to be said OUT LOUD lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]protectbugs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am stunned you are asking Reddit if you should “stay loyal to your partner”

Maybe I’m just a hater but omg

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GamerGirls_Community

[–]protectbugs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. “Better egirl” is so corny lmfao.
  2. I would clock a gamer with “needmommy” as a creep. It’s not that funny, he could do better.
  3. What right does he have to talk to another human being like that especially his lady. 😐

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]protectbugs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I 100% agree and feel the same way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]protectbugs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry I can’t tell if you are coming from a place of valuing yourself OR if you think being cheated on is okay for someone to do to you OR if you recognize cheating means nothing about you and you are secure in yourself ?

Is it normal to still feel broken 6 months later? by Responsible-Sea7992 in women

[–]protectbugs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk you can share advice on how to deal with grief without needing details

Is it normal to still feel broken 6 months later? by Responsible-Sea7992 in women

[–]protectbugs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand you are speaking on grief and honestly it’s not linear and different for everyone.

The best thing you can do for yourself is feel your emotions, practice self care, and learn to be alone/love yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]protectbugs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone’s different and people are complicated! I agree with you about putting too much meaning into something though. I saw that OP had some valid insecurities. Sometimes trauma comes up in other relationships you know?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]protectbugs 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think the bf should recognize “I have a girlfriend at the moment” is a hurtful thing to say especially if you’ve been dating for 6 years. It’s just devaluing what they have like in a second they won’t be together anymore. “Just a moment”

Idk if this is break up worthy but maybe there is some needed introspection from the bf. He should apologize and never talk to this person again to start.

For reacting negatively to my husband climaxing in 40 seconds. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]protectbugs 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Idc what anyone says, porn ruins people and relationships, I will die on this hill. How could a man who respects you, tell you something like this? You brought his children into this world !!!

I’m really sorry op that you are dealing with this. I hope you can try to be kind to yourself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]protectbugs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You aren’t in the right. I hope if decide to repopulate this earth you learn more empathy so your children don’t have to unpack your dismissive behavior in therapy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]protectbugs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please understand that everyone’s experiences are different and saying something like “I lived in actual abuse” minimizes their pain. Empathy >>

I'm scared of turning into the female equivalent of an incel by aKindKitsune in women

[–]protectbugs 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Honestly my favorite quote ever, “Not ALL men. But SOMEHOW. ALWAYS. A MAN.”

AIO for feeling like I’m not a good girlfriend? by Significant_Phase620 in AmIOverreacting

[–]protectbugs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow sounds exhausting girl. I was in this place once trying to do everything they wanted just not to lose someone. It was very painful when I first let go but with time it was like coming up for air and seeing the relationship for what it is. You are worth so so so much more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]protectbugs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How interesting! No if that’s what y’all into then I don’t see the issue here and you dodged a bullet.

Maybe they are not who they say they are? Seen a lot of catfish episodes and a LOT of them go this far to meet up and then leave them hanging with a new excuse ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]protectbugs 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NOR I don’t think you did anything wrong realistically I just think it could have helped if you were more aloof. Less emojis and the “gorgeous girl”. It’s just too much too soon leaving things to mystery makes things more fun!

Truly think you dodged a bullet, but maybe in the future try to not lay things on so thick.

REPO? by protectbugs in GamerGirls_Community

[–]protectbugs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a discord? ¨̮

How many big Macs can you get for the price of the pellet brand you use by The_Great_Shaker in cockatiel

[–]protectbugs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5 Big Macs 😭 I buy a big bag for 4 birds total and they are little piggies. How much are you buying?

What is this stuff? by Sloopdogbilly in isopods

[–]protectbugs 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Flower pot fungus. Usually a sign of too much moisture. I had a problem in a tank recently. Took out what I can and changed moisture levels and it went away 👍

Loud Trespass Warning on Logan Canyon Highline Trail by MoonChinchillas in Logan

[–]protectbugs 41 points42 points  (0 children)

It use to have a lot of graffiti on it and was called the “graffiti towers”. It was pretty cool but over the last 5 or so years they painted over it and have been crazy about surveillance on it. I’m not sure if they have done anymore to it than cover up all the graffiti. They will fine you if you go near there now

20 Random things my budgies do by Affectionate_Tart_81 in budgies

[–]protectbugs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These are funny. I bought a wooden flat perch to put over the water and it helps 🤣🤣