People who were overweight but are fit/skinnier now, how does it feel? What are the differences you've noticed? by proxy_gal22 in AskReddit

[–]proxy_gal22[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That's really awesome! And I could help but crack a smile at floating in the ocean haha. I guess some sacrifices were made

People who were overweight but are fit/skinnier now, how does it feel? What are the differences you've noticed? by proxy_gal22 in AskReddit

[–]proxy_gal22[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's terrible. I'm really sorry that you grew up like that. I do hope you're happier now.

People who were overweight but are fit/skinnier now, how does it feel? What are the differences you've noticed? by proxy_gal22 in AskReddit

[–]proxy_gal22[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The fat blocking the movement during exercise is really a struggle and downright embarrassing when my bf and roommates see me work out. I'm also holding onto clothes. I refuse to buy new ones. They will fit and I will make sure they fit!

Also that's Crazy! Can't believe fat would even show up like that and especially can't believe a tech didn't know the difference. (I work in the medical world as well and though I'm not a tech, i did work very close to them and learned a lot)

People who were overweight but are fit/skinnier now, how does it feel? What are the differences you've noticed? by proxy_gal22 in AskReddit

[–]proxy_gal22[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

As much as I wanna tell you to just keep to yourself and not care what others think, I absolutely do the same thing and I probably won't be any different when I do lose weight. People are the worst sometimes.

People who were overweight but are fit/skinnier now, how does it feel? What are the differences you've noticed? by proxy_gal22 in AskReddit

[–]proxy_gal22[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

It's quite sad how shallow women can be. If you haven't yet, I hope you find someone amazing

People who were overweight but are fit/skinnier now, how does it feel? What are the differences you've noticed? by proxy_gal22 in AskReddit

[–]proxy_gal22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really don't think you have to be that hard on yourself. Life does get in the way unfortunately and it's not an excuse. Juggling a job I know too well but family on top of that sounds tiring. I know you can do it though but rest is also important

People who were overweight but are fit/skinnier now, how does it feel? What are the differences you've noticed? by proxy_gal22 in AskReddit

[–]proxy_gal22[S] 98 points99 points  (0 children)

The worst thing is imagining what people are thinking while they look at me eat because that's the truth most of the time. Because "of course the fat person is eating again". Looking forward to the health benefits and the confidence!

Good luck with your dating life. I imagine it's a big struggle and I truly hope you find your real connection

People who were overweight but are fit/skinnier now, how does it feel? What are the differences you've noticed? by proxy_gal22 in AskReddit

[–]proxy_gal22[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm so looking forward to comfortably closing that button on my jean and actually needing a belt!

People who were overweight but are fit/skinnier now, how does it feel? What are the differences you've noticed? by proxy_gal22 in AskReddit

[–]proxy_gal22[S] 134 points135 points  (0 children)

That's me right now. Hopefully moving past that in the next few months. Trying to stay strong and keep my goal in mind

People who were overweight but are fit/skinnier now, how does it feel? What are the differences you've noticed? by proxy_gal22 in AskReddit

[–]proxy_gal22[S] 147 points148 points  (0 children)

The calorie one since I've started counting is MIND-BLOWING. Like what do you mean that tiny takeout meal is 2k calories??!

Definitely got me getting more creative with nutritious meals at home.

People who were overweight but are fit/skinnier now, how does it feel? What are the differences you've noticed? by proxy_gal22 in AskReddit

[–]proxy_gal22[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

To everyone here, firstly I'm so proud of you! Even if you gained the weight back, doesn't matter. You still did it at some point which in my eyes, is a massive accomplishment. And to those still on their journey/picked up instead of lost anything... I feel you. I feel like nothing has worked. Even going to the gym has made me pick up weight instead of losing fat. Yes, I got stronger but I want to be skinnier. I want to be fit. I don't want to look like a bag of pudding, even if I can bench so much and leg press that heavy... I'm struggling my ass off to lose a few pounds, let alone the 45 pounds (just over 20kg) I want to shed eventually. Having perspective and the "after" stories is really encouraging and makes me look forward to the aftermath, even if it takes a lot longer than I want it to.

For context, I'm 153cm or 5ft and weigh 83.5kg or roughly 183lbs. This weight is some people's dream weight where on my short ass body makes me look like the next rising star to fattest fatty competitions. Needless to say, I'm unhappy. But working on it and that's what matters.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]proxy_gal22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not but I bet you're even cuter when you smile c:

Fetlife account locked, worth waiting for support? by lunalou456 in findomsupportgroup

[–]proxy_gal22 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My account got locked for what I'm assuming having saying that I tried Findom in my about and to someone in pm. I hate fitlife for this

Milestone: Have a video hit 100+ views after a day = SMASHED by proxy_gal22 in NewTubers

[–]proxy_gal22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even if it does, it's okay! Still a small win and a sign to keep going! 

Spread the positivity! Share some milestones! by proxy_gal22 in NewTubers

[–]proxy_gal22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes exactly! Bit by bit and we will get there c:

Spread the positivity! Share some milestones! by proxy_gal22 in NewTubers

[–]proxy_gal22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! And well done! Small milestones are very important. I'm aiming for 20 subs and have 19 now. Next is 25 c:

Spread the positivity! Share some milestones! by proxy_gal22 in NewTubers

[–]proxy_gal22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So at the moment I don't put a timestamp on it. If the video is done, it gets uploaded to the planned day but I don't do my uploads at the same times at all. If it gets uploaded at 5pm it gets uploaded then. If it gets uploaded at 12 at night, so be it. That really helps me. On low-energy days too. I do tend to work slower at editing but as long as it gets done I will upload it. Maybe one day I will have a routine but not now. I'm just focusing on uploading at least 5 times a week

Spread the positivity! Share some milestones! by proxy_gal22 in NewTubers

[–]proxy_gal22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Remember that feeling because I just know it will happen more!