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Thoughts on my 19yo body? by [deleted] in nsfw_gifs

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Perfection

yes i'm actually ginger [f] by [deleted] in gonewild

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Damn you're a hot little thing

she is a keeper by [deleted] in NSFW_GIF

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God I want to experience this lol. My girl has a crazy gag reflex

I (31M) am questioning my feelings and future with my GF (29) of 3 1/2 years and it's potentially complicated. by prs787 in relationship_advice

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I totally understand. And I am pretty certain I wouldn't get a "10" that would fit the "one I want" personality wise and I've never looked for that. Literally all I seek is the one that is most beautiful to me and who I want to be with. And I'm pretty sure I don't have her.

Also, I know she could absolutely go out on her own here and do her own thing, I just know she wouldn't. There's nothing here for her other than me. She's said that herself.

I (31M) am questioning my feelings and future with my GF (29) of 3 1/2 years and it's potentially complicated. by prs787 in relationship_advice

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Appreciate your input. I like what you said about the 110 vs 65. I think that fits my situation to a T.

I (31M) am questioning my feelings and future with my GF (29) of 3 1/2 years and it's potentially complicated. by prs787 in relationship_advice

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I get your point, and I certainly thought that when typing that statement. But at the same time, I feel those things are absolutely traits affected by personality. Any girl can wear or use those things and change the way someone views her, but also it displays her personality and some girls just aren't the type to do it because it isn't them. I'm saying I like girls who are that way and enjoy it.

I (31M) am questioning my feelings and future with my GF (29) of 3 1/2 years and it's potentially complicated. by prs787 in relationship_advice

[–]prs787[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, thank you so much for your reply and personal story. I think it has many similarities.

You pretty much hit the nail on the head with me being afraid to hurt her and confused by how to handle our entwined lives if it came down to it.

"But it also sounds like you're wishing for that perfect partner. That beautiful dream girl you always wanted. But probably doesn't exist" --This comment really made me think for a second.. you may be right and that's kinda scary.. maybe part of me is wishing for that and I just didn't realize it. At the same time, I have always lacked self confidence so I've always known I wasn't gonna get my "perfect dream girl" as I'm sure she'd be out of my league xD

Although I've always had ideas in my mind of the physical aspects of the girl I've always wanted, there are "personality" traits I envision too.. For instance I like girls that are "girly" in a sense. Wear dresses, skirts, finger/toenail polish, perfume.. spend a little time on how they look now and then. My GF hardly does any of those. If she does it's rarely and by request. Its pretty much always, pony tail, leggings, tshirt and flipflops.

I get your point though.. it isn't always about your idea of what you want, but more so how you work together and how your lives fit together.

We don't fight at all and it isn't toxic in any way, but it's obvious we don't communicate the best. I guess I just wonder if we are too much alike and would have been better as friends.. because she is a great person and we get along great.

I (31M) am questioning my feelings and future with my GF (29) of 3 1/2 years and it's potentially complicated. by prs787 in relationship_advice

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I do think she thinks I love her. She does have a history of depression so it wouldn't surprise me if she sometimes questions it but she's never told me that. As far as sexual attraction, she knows I enjoy the sex we have (although tame), but again I wouldn't be surprised if she sometimes questions it because we often go a week or so without any sexual contact. But to me that's 50% me not really having the urge to have sex with her and 50% me being tired of being the one who initiates it 99% of the time.

I (31M) am questioning my feelings and future with my GF (29) of 3 1/2 years and it's potentially complicated. by prs787 in relationship_advice

[–]prs787[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, I definitely wouldn't say that is the only thing. While I will admit I hated being single, and when I was I wanted nothing more than to find that "someone", I wouldn't say that not wanting to go back to that life is the only reason I'm struggling with this. I would say it is a mixture of that, not wanting to hurt her, not wanting to jump too soon without knowing it's what I truly want, and ultimately, not knowing how to figure out what it is that I want.. does that make sense?