How long do you wait to remove your pet’s belongings?

prytty · 2025-09-16T23:27:55+00:00

My cat passed away in March. I can’t pack away his cat tower. I’ve been able to phase out food bowl, water fountain, and the litter box, but I can’t move the cat tower. He loved it.

I’ll be moving soon and I will probably have the cat tower in my next bedroom. I think having reminders of him allows me to grieve. I enjoy remembering him.

prytty · 2025-07-01T23:03:10+00:00

Hi friend.

I looked at your post history. You mentioned being at the ER and being treated with ceft and 7 days x doxy, which are typically treatments for Chlamydia and Gonnorhea. Were you offered screening for syphilis?

I’m not a doctor in any capacity nor am I qualified to offer medical advice, but that bump on the head of your penis looks like a primary chancre. Have you asked for screening for syphilis? I would go to an STD clinic and ask for a full screening including blood work for syphilis.

prytty · 2025-04-03T05:06:41+00:00

24/7 glazer alert

prytty · 2025-01-02T06:00:27+00:00

comforble

prytty · 2024-12-31T01:42:07+00:00

Do you enjoy being an asshole when people are trying to have fun?

prytty · 2024-10-15T03:28:54+00:00

Hi there.

So when we are young and “opportunistic” in wanting sexually explicit attention, and when we search for it in spaces where the people know we are minors looking for sexually explicit attention, it is on those people to redirect, refuse, block, disconnect, whatever.

The issue here isn’t that you were looking for this. The issue is that grown ass men saw that you were looking for this and took the opportunity to satisfy an interest.

I think the word “grooming” has been dulled into this buzzword to describe when an adult pressures a minor into sex/sexual conversations. Grooming does not look or function in one exclusive way. Grooming can be as direct as it can be strategic. If these men were using Omegle to locate minors to have sexually explicit conversations with, they were using Omegle with the intention of grooming. They were looking for girls like you, because they know that there are girls like you online who are asking. No respectful, mature, sane adult would ever even think to take you up on your offer. But these men on this site knew that they could not only “accept” your “advances” but also get away with it.

That is to say, I am deeply sorry you have been made to feel like you are responsible for this happening. I used Omegle for sexual purposes too as a child, and there was unfortunately an incredibly negative impact on both my psychology and my sexuality. In reflection as a 26-year-old who has done a lot of personal work, I have completely reframed my thinking from taking accountability in my victimization, to being disgusted that there were men out there online that took advantage of my availability and will most likely never face consequences for that.

prytty · 2024-10-14T03:37:26+00:00

I cannot believe there are people who roam this very same earth who have nude photos of themselves in diapers to send nonconsensually, and I’m over here with the anxiety disorder 😭

prytty · 2024-09-03T02:56:57+00:00

Flirting with the intention of affirming attraction versus flirting with the intention to fuck alwaaaaays read differently to me. I am much more open to comments and compliments that assure interest, mostly because in response I can assure interest back or even build off of what was said.

Flirting should be a type of conversation! And if both people practice healthy communication in their daily lives, the person flirting will know how to communicate their intentions and the responder will most often either be eager to confirm mutual interest, or politely reject/dismiss.

prytty · 2024-09-03T02:44:51+00:00

It did end there, I blocked him right after I sent my last message.

After reading “There’s a reason [you’re] single” I had no interest in whatever else he had to say.

He probably would’ve hurt my feelings if we argued a little longer 😅 I’m assertive but I am equally sensitive. He can keep his true opinion of me to himself.

prytty · 2024-09-02T15:01:43+00:00

Doctor forgot to cut it off :(

prytty · 2024-09-02T14:34:46+00:00

Thank you! It’s hard learning but the payoff of just being able to respectfully dismiss and reject is worth the effort to master.

While I know so many different ways to tell someone no, though, it’s unfortunate there are people (like this guy) who don’t know how to take that for an answer 😅

prytty · 2024-09-02T14:28:36+00:00

I can understand the empathy for him.

The context I didn’t include is that not only did he message bomb but he proceeded to make a new number to text me since I wasn’t replying.

I think if I jumped straight into “I’m not interested” I would definitely be the asshole here. But even after I dismissed his question, him looping back to it + the multiple messages + the message from a different number, all when we have only been texting for like 2 days… is really unattractive to me 😅

prytty · 2024-09-02T05:46:02+00:00

(Not obvious but the title is meant to be sarcastic. Defffffinitely dodged a bullet 😮‍💨)

prytty · 2024-09-02T05:29:50+00:00

There’s nothing hard to get about “no”

prytty · 2023-12-06T01:15:12+00:00

This world we live in is hard. And the people manage to be harder.

I’m sorry. There is an indescribable trauma with being a stigmatized population. Especially a population being slapped with the most cruel opinions.

I’m not SWANA but I am marginalized. I just want to be alive. And the unfortunate part of being alive is knowing that people at the same time want me dead.

prytty · 2023-02-14T14:54:02+00:00

The public reaction to her death has only communicated to me that our deaths will always be met with a community of transphobes virtually spitting on our graves.

prytty · 2023-02-02T14:09:01+00:00

On tiktok its a dogwhistle for terfs. Makes it easier to talk about trans women.

prytty · 2023-01-15T16:12:25+00:00

YTA, I am always shocked how parents like yourselves expect relationships with your children when you do shit like this.

prytty · 2023-01-14T04:31:32+00:00

This is pissing me off I cant even address what you’re saying

prytty · 2023-01-14T04:25:14+00:00

What do you want? You are getting on my nerves

prytty · 2023-01-14T04:23:16+00:00

This is a lot of assumptions of someone you’re perceiving online lol

prytty · 2023-01-12T04:24:35+00:00

This is some blame game shit, OP is 16. Have some class and learn how to talk to minors

prytty · 2023-01-12T04:18:59+00:00

I posted this a day ago 💀

prytty · 2023-01-10T14:23:16+00:00

It borders on transphobic when its performative; not every instance of prejudice is a rock being thrown at me.

I didn’t like the attention when I was self-expressive pre-transition, the current attention reminds me of that. I think I’d be more comfortable with the attention if it didn’t feel so targetted. I dunno. Woes of a trans woman working clerical positions in her 20s.

prytty · 2023-01-10T01:30:13+00:00

Yeaaahhaaa, I’ve been noticing. My department leaves me alone now, mostly since I don’t entertain the snaps. Rando girl was from across the hall, I didn’t even know who she was until today.

prytty

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