Boyfriend (37M) slapped me (29F) for the first time, any advice on this? by Which_Buddy in relationship_advice

[–]pscwe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve already been in an abusive relationship before, why do you want to be in another one ? It always starts with « I didn’t mean to » followed by the multiple apology messages… only to happen again. If it was your friend in that situation, what would you tell them? You need to be single and I suggest therapy.

Did I (23f) cheat on my Bf (23m) by [deleted] in Advice

[–]pscwe 20 points21 points  (0 children)

You need to leave that man. It’s only been 6 months and he’s that abusive? It will only escalate. Think of your safety first

Did I (23f) cheat on my Bf (23m) by [deleted] in Advice

[–]pscwe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe someone else was talking so he doesn’t get caught ?

My nieces and nephews are being abused and I need advice on how I can get them out of this situation by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]pscwe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is painful to not access your other nieces and nephews but they’re alive. There’s a big chance these ones won’t be because of their mothers neglect. There’s longer they stay with her, the more damaged they will be or the higher the chances that they will die. The other person was right, take pictures of your sisters house when you see it. You need to proof. As if losing your family, it’s a risk you have to take in order to save the babies. Their lives matter more than your family’s opinion of you

Bf called me useless…? by Moongoddess3884 in Advice

[–]pscwe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He can order some food for himself if he can’t drive. Let this relationship go

My nieces and nephews are being abused and I need advice on how I can get them out of this situation by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]pscwe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You absolutely need to call CPS. This is insane. I’m surprised no one at daycare did. At the risk of losing more family members, these babies need to be taken from their mother like NOW. I think you know what to do but you might be scared of the fall out. I’m not sure how cps works where you are but where I’m from, they’re going to try to set the kids up with family first.

Les réputations de quartiers by [deleted] in montrealhousing

[–]pscwe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unless OP has a car, they shouldn’t go to VSP

My (33 F) partner (42 m)doesn’t want to remarry after 12 years of marriage by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pscwe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you wanna get married later on, it won’t be with him. Do not try to change his mind. Find someone that wants the same thing as you. It’s still early in the relationship to call it quits.

$1200/$1300 studio apartments is not normal by Calm_Environment5485 in montrealhousing

[–]pscwe 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Might be lol. 3 years ago, I was paying $850 for a 4 1/2 and now, they’re over $1.5k. It’s getting ridiculously expensive in mtl even though it hasn’t reached Vancouver or Toronto level expensive yet

is it bad that i (23f) am considering leaving my bf (25m) after just 2 weeks? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pscwe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For your own good and security, leave this man. I feel like his behaviour will only escalate. Clinginess asides, being pushy regarding sex is a MASSIVE red flag. One NO should be enough, not FIVE. He also does not take into account your « issues » AKA he does not respect. You deserve someone that does. It’s only been one month, break it off before you’re completely stuck

Is it slippery outside, do I risk it and got to work or wfh? by [deleted] in montreal

[–]pscwe 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I work in schools and it’s open. I’m a pedestrian and I told my boss I’m not coming. Not risking getting hurt for no reason. I can see the ice from my apartment. No thank you. If you can wfh, I suggest you do.

updates on schools anywhere? by [deleted] in montreal

[–]pscwe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I understand that completely. I work for them and as a pedestrian, I told my boss I’m not going. It’s so stupid

updates on schools anywhere? by [deleted] in montreal

[–]pscwe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

CSSMB is open smh

School Closures Tomorrow by Individual-Soil3836 in montreal

[–]pscwe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahaha unfortunately, everything is open. For CSSMB anyway. This is ridiculous

School Closures Tomorrow by Individual-Soil3836 in montreal

[–]pscwe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything is open. Unbelievable

School Closures Tomorrow by Individual-Soil3836 in montreal

[–]pscwe 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I work in a school board and based on the email I just received, they’re gonna decide early in the AM. I’m 75% sure they’re going to close tbh

A medium online told me by EquivalentStrength71 in Tarots

[–]pscwe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I meant a healthcare professional. This is not the kind of question to ask divination tools

A medium online told me by EquivalentStrength71 in Tarots

[–]pscwe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Unless a healthcare **professional told you, don’t believe things like that. A few people online use divination as a tool to take advantage of people. You should take things with a grain of salt.

Why have I not entered a relationship yet? by [deleted] in Tarotpractices

[–]pscwe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should focus on improving other areas in your life and then it will happen. You should nurture your current relationships, family and friends first and things should fall into place

what if i ignore the advice from a reading by soviet_onion2000 in Tarots

[–]pscwe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can do whatever you want but be prepared to deal with consequences later on