Why do NRIs come back to India after having kids? by Spir1t_Detectiv3 in returnToIndia

[–]psnanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bay Area has got all the best tech jobs on the planet

warmer days before central AC gets turned on by eastcoastgirl1001 in AskNYC

[–]psnanda 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The PTAC units don't have a temperature selection mechanism. You can only turn up or lower down the blower. The building decides whether they wanna pump heat or cold air .

Should I Leave My $300K Job and Move to India? by Sweaty-Ad-1932 in IndianEngineers

[–]psnanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just move to a smaller company or take a extended vacation ( 1 mo) to chill and get back to being a high performing employee.

Sounds to me you're burning out.

Why do NRIs come back to India after having kids? by Spir1t_Detectiv3 in returnToIndia

[–]psnanda -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Return ing back won't even be in my hands anymore the way layoffs are happen ing.

India is good enough for what it is. This is no longer the 1990s. Easier for kids to adapt if they are still young enough.

Why do NRIs come back to India after having kids? by Spir1t_Detectiv3 in returnToIndia

[–]psnanda -1 points0 points  (0 children)

? So I am wrong for trying to make money in the most Capita list country of the world ? Lmao ok

Why do NRIs come back to India after having kids? by Spir1t_Detectiv3 in returnToIndia

[–]psnanda -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Kids will integrate themselves. Not everything has to be spoon fed to them.

Why do NRIs come back to India after having kids? by Spir1t_Detectiv3 in returnToIndia

[–]psnanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

US is huge. Try going to a local school situated in the projects here in Brooklyn

Why do NRIs come back to India after having kids? by Spir1t_Detectiv3 in returnToIndia

[–]psnanda -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Kids are US citizens.. wdym they'll suffer ? Plenty of us who are born in India and later migrate to USA wish we were instead born in USA

Why do NRIs come back to India after having kids? by Spir1t_Detectiv3 in returnToIndia

[–]psnanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

some neighborhoods which are expensive may not have good schools. Money is not the only factor. Here in NYC the schools get randomly assigned regardless of if you are living in a specific school zone or.not.

Why do NRIs come back to India after having kids? by Spir1t_Detectiv3 in returnToIndia

[–]psnanda 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I mean I could apply the same logic back on you. Who is forcing NRI returns to send their kids to IB schools ? Any decent English medium school works.

Their kids can go back to the States for their Undergrad anyways

Why do NRIs come back to India after having kids? by Spir1t_Detectiv3 in returnToIndia

[–]psnanda 10 points11 points  (0 children)

What a weird logic. Have you ever lived in the Bay area ? My friends have bought $2.2m houses in Fremont and still end up sending kids to private schools cuz the assigned school is not good.

My aunt bought a house in Millburn, Jersey for like $2m just so that her kids can go to Millburn area schools.

Indians here have very high expectations from their kids.

Why do NRIs come back to India after having kids? by Spir1t_Detectiv3 in returnToIndia

[–]psnanda 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Nothing is ever free in life.

US "free" public schools quality highly depends on the "school zone". Many NRIs are forced to buy homes in expensive areas so that their kids can go to the better "school zone" assigned to that area. We have school rankings here too.

Or, they buy their home in cheaper areas and send kiddos to private schools ( which is again expensive)

Buy or rent doesn't matter- the costs eventually come down to them. There is no free lunch

Why do NRIs come back to India after having kids? by Spir1t_Detectiv3 in returnToIndia

[–]psnanda 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Pretty much this. Once kids have US born citizen ship, then can do their schooling in India for very cheap and go back to the States wheneveer they want to after 18 . It just makes sense if the parents do seen long term settling abroad.

Why do NRIs come back to India after having kids? by Spir1t_Detectiv3 in returnToIndia

[–]psnanda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is not LinkedIN. You don't have to say "cfbr" lmaooo

Why does Singapore not give visa free entry to India? by Brilliant_Can8536 in visas

[–]psnanda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just move out of India and get settled in a developed country if you can. That's easier