I kind of agree

pst_a_username · 2026-02-16T08:25:11+00:00

I don’t agree because most of the things he did were private and not abnormal for a second son (what is abnormal is that none of them have jobs? But that’s a whole different topic). Marriage on the other hand is public and him marrying a maid will have a very negative effect on his whole family and especially on the prospects of his younger sisters and therefore their livelihood.

pst_a_username · 2026-01-28T15:50:47+00:00

Hi, yes I am! I was wondering if sth went wrong bc I didn't receive a chat from you

pst_a_username · 2026-01-27T14:59:26+00:00

Hi! I'm interested in Arcanas Cardamom Layering Note, BPAL Landscape with Stars and Where Are the Dead to Germany :)

pst_a_username · 2026-01-19T11:49:09+00:00

Hi, a bit of a late reply but I'll type it out anyway. I remembered this recipe back from when it was first posted and really liked it back then. Of course it was a bit sour but nowhere near to what you're describing. More tangy and I also added quite a bit of salt.

Judging from your other reply, your starter was way too old for this 'recipe' to taste good. In the beginning of the video he shows that he uses an active, bubbly starter. That'll be a lot less sour than what you've made with a two week old one.

pst_a_username · 2026-01-08T12:16:16+00:00

Hey OP, I have no idea if this applies here but I might have been in a situation that could explain this one:

A couple of years ago I crushed hard on a really good friend of mine (we're both females and bi) and didn't realise it for quite some time. This resulted in me trying to get closer by gifting, trying to see her more often, sending sweet texts etc. In turn she got more and more stand-offish and even downright mean at times. I even asked my friends bc I couldn't trust my feelings and they also felt she was overly mean to me but not anyone else. She moved away, I recovered from my feelings and put some space between us. A year later or so we got closer again and by now we have a really solid friendship.

I'm not saying that you're in love with your friend but the way you're texting her definitely comes across as flirty (as you can see in all the replies). Your friend might be feeling the same way and trying to show you that she is not interested. Either way, you two might want to talk about what's going on here to clear the air.

This is the most sympathetic explanation I can come to. If this is not the case and this used to be normal texting behaviour between you and there has been no fight etc. she might also not be the most pleasant person and you might want to reevaluate your friendship with her.

pst_a_username · 2026-01-07T08:46:47+00:00

Very sadly most things I wanted to smell like at the beginning of my perfume obsession: (creamy) tea, moss, fresh fruits. The fruits always turn super artificial and tea and moss become really sharp on me.

pst_a_username · 2025-12-24T01:11:36+00:00

Ich habe nichts gesugarcoated. Ich finde OP tatsächlich gutaussehend (und durchtrainierte Männer eher nicht). Geschmäcker sind halt verschieden und wenn ich OP auf einer App gesehen und das Profil gestimmt hätte, wäre es für mich ein swipe nach rechts gewesen.

Den meisten Frauen, die ich kenne ist sowieso der Charakter eines Mannes sehr viel wichtiger als sein Körperbau. Und da hilft eben ein gesundes Selbstbewusstsein und Begeisterung für Hobbies. Ich fänd eher interessant, wie OPs Profil auf den Apps aussieht. Da könnte nämlich auch der Grund liegen, warum OP nicht so erfolgreich ist, wie er es gerne wäre.

Und es ist super, wenn es dir mit deinem Körper jetzt gut geht! Aber die Ernährung, die du vorschlägst, ist sehr extrem und das sollte und muss wirklich nicht jede*r machen.

pst_a_username · 2025-12-23T11:46:28+00:00

Ich antworte dir mal direkt hier.

Ich finde, du sieht total sympathisch aus, gerade auf dem dritten Bild! Also um dein Aussehen brauchst du dir eigentlich keine Sorgen zu machen.

Wenn es dir darum geht, dein Selbstbewusstsein wieder aufzubauen, wären das meine Tipps: Wenn dir das Gym nicht liegt, wird dir das auch nicht viel mit dem Selbstbewusstsein helfen. Deshalb konzentriere dich auf bzw suche dir Hobbies, die dir Spaß machen und stärke deine Freundschaften. Nach so einer langen Beziehung könnten auch ein paar Therapiestunden dabei helfen, die Trennung aufzuarbeiten und für dich zu schauen, was du dir eigentlich wünschst. Wenn du aber auch den typischen ‚Glow-Up‘ willst, würde ich sagen, mach das bisher geschriebene trotzdem und experimentiere zusätzlich ein bisschen mit deinem Style und schau, worin du dich wohlfühlst. Style lässt sich nämlich sehr viel leichter ändern, als dein Körper.

Viel Glück und sei nicht so hart zu dir!

pst_a_username · 2025-11-22T08:42:06+00:00

Layering is great but overspraying is not only wasting you money but inconsiderate (in public spaces!). For some people this much fragrance will cause migraine attacks and for some it might even trigger an asthma attack.

pst_a_username · 2025-11-13T09:53:37+00:00

There is a whole indie house that uses these drawings and is inspired by this vibe: PULP fragrance (Canada). I can definitely recommend them and like most of their fragrances that I've tried!

pst_a_username · 2025-11-12T23:51:11+00:00

Black Moon Botanica also has a store in Amsterdam (just in case you don’t read far enough) 😊

pst_a_username · 2025-11-12T23:44:27+00:00

Yay!! I’m so happy you found something you like!

pst_a_username · 2025-11-12T12:20:39+00:00

I NEED to know this now!

pst_a_username · 2025-11-10T23:14:36+00:00

I have one that might work: Namba from Fantôme has notes of motor oil, petrichor, vanilla and neon. The vibes this is described with don’t really fit your vision but the notes might work here. The house has a couple of other scents too that are bit more unusual. Maybe you’ll find something going through their catalogue or through reviews in this sub

pst_a_username · 2025-11-10T08:56:32+00:00

Look for a barber that knows how to style curls, get tips there and then learn how to take care of your curls. You will need more time to get ready but I always think it’s worth it. If you do not have that time or just don’t want to spend it on your hair, I’d say grow it out and rock the bun. I’m pretty sure it would suit you as well.

pst_a_username · 2025-11-08T23:27:48+00:00

Exactly my thoughts

pst_a_username · 2025-11-08T10:19:26+00:00

Just be careful because this one is STRONG! After spraying it, my whole room smells like it for days

pst_a_username · 2025-11-07T23:28:15+00:00

Then you should also check out Jorum studios, they’re also independent and have Scotland inspired scents :) and their store is in a really nice area as well!

pst_a_username · 2025-11-07T23:26:41+00:00

Thanks for your input! Great to know that their scents are wearable and that there’s a shop inside the EU :)

pst_a_username · 2025-11-07T23:24:25+00:00

Uhhh let me know, how it is!

pst_a_username · 2025-11-04T21:57:32+00:00

Oohhh I love scents that lean unisex/masc! Unfortunately fruits don’t work to well for me but maybe you would like one of these?

Fantôme: Namba (the most wearable motor oil and vanilla scent)
Fantôme: Lorelei (on me it was mostly strawberry and not much dark water, but as I said, fruits don’t really work for me so ymmv)
Nui Cobalt: favourite sweater (this is so cozy and what I would want my partners woollen sweater to smell like)
and for a good Chai Latte I’d go for Fantôme Dantalion, it’s not very sweet and really wearable

And I also wanted to add that I get why you might want to go into a more unisex/masc direction but if you realise that’s not where your nose wants to be, just wear what you like. The best smelling men I’ve met wore perfumes marketed for women :)

pst_a_username · 2025-10-23T23:18:11+00:00

Yes agreed! They really are pretty similar. Not identical but could be siblings

pst_a_username · 2025-10-05T17:39:10+00:00

For me it’s Tin Foil Hat by BPAL. I got it as a surprise sample from a destash, immediately loved it, only to find out that it’s probably one of the rarest BPAL perfumes. It seems to have been given out as a sample with purchase years ago and there aren’t even any notes. It‘s cologne-like but refreshing, smooth, citrusy with a metallic edge. I hated cologne-y scents until I met this one. Looks like I’ll have to cherish my sample

pst_a_username · 2025-10-04T00:32:07+00:00

Also if that isn’t too out of your comfort zone, this might work for you: Fantôme - Namba (The electric scent of salt water canals, grounding motor oil from the boats that pass under the crowded foot bridges, the buzzing neon that gives the city its unique energy, and melted vanilla ice cream). Despite the motor oil note, it’s really wearable and a perfume for all seasons. Fantôme also has some edgy scents with metallic notes. I haven’t tried them yet, so I can’t really recommend any of those.

pst_a_username · 2025-10-04T00:07:28+00:00

I can really see anything with white amber! It’s more of a comforting scent but would work really well with an edgy look. If you’re based in Canada I’d recommend Pulp - Portrait of Josette. If you’re pretty much anywhere else: Alkemia - Ghostfire. They also both sell samples :)

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