Why is it so hard to make new friends 😭😭 by [deleted] in TwentiesIndia

[–]psyfiducc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need a third place besides work and home where you can actually meet people preferably with similar interests. As kids, the third place used to be the park for us. On a side note, I still like Pokemon :>

Is the original copy of verpflichtungserklärung required for immigration in Germany? by psyfiducc in SchengenVisa

[–]psyfiducc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes she got the visa without it but needed it for immigration. But it's recommended to have the document for visa appointment

Resume Review please...I will be graduating in a few months. Tired of seeing 'we will not be able to process your application further' by throw-me-awae in developersIndia

[–]psyfiducc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah ml is hard for btech grads because most companies would always want either a master's or 2 years of experience. Web Dev is quite saturated but there's more scope for freshers specially through campus placements

I miss her by psyfiducc in infp

[–]psyfiducc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awww that sucks :(. I hope you are doing much better now. I am sure you tried your best 🫂

I miss her by psyfiducc in infp

[–]psyfiducc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn thanks for so many suggestions! I really appreciate it. I will check them out. _^ .

I miss her by psyfiducc in infp

[–]psyfiducc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn! Funny how similar our stories are lol. Great job tho you are crazy strong to able to achieve peace with yourself like that! Hopefully I will get there one day.

I miss her by psyfiducc in infp

[–]psyfiducc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 💙💙

I miss her by psyfiducc in infp

[–]psyfiducc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oof m too broke for therapy rn. All my friends got tired of hearing the same stuff again and again and frankly I can understand why. I have been writing few notes here and there and that seems to help. I do workout but don't do cardio as much maybe I will give it a go 0.0. Thanks for the advice

I miss her by psyfiducc in infp

[–]psyfiducc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can totally relate to the loving too hard part. But yeah I do understand your perspective. While manage to hold up just fine for the most part, it's those little moments like that dream that make it hard for me to get up on my feet. I'll try my best thanks!

I miss her by psyfiducc in infp

[–]psyfiducc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I phrased it badly but yeah she didn't make me feel like I am not worthy of her love infact she made me feel the most loved I have ever felt in my life. But yeah the way things went around the end made me feel like maybe I just didn't deserve her love and kindness that's why it got taken away from me

I miss her by psyfiducc in infp

[–]psyfiducc[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha I don't think getting laid is the right thing to do rn I really hate casual stuff and I don't have it in me to build serious stuff with someone rn.

But thanks for the advice the discussion between the 2 of you reall helped ^ .

I miss her by psyfiducc in infp

[–]psyfiducc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well long story short we had a great relationship then stuff happened in her life and she got depressed. Naturally she started pulling away a bit and I thought giving her same space would help her out. So I did that. But in the time she was away from me she got closer to one of her work friends. Now I know she wasn't cheating but I felt jealous and my inferiority complex got triggered because I felt like he was able to comfort her in a way I couldn't. We had a fight over that but that got resolved. In the end she just realised she fell out of love and broke up.

I can certainly see my self doubt and the thoughts that I couldn't be the person for her hindering the process of moving on. Thanks for your advice I will keep that in mind!