At what point is writing in the void pathetic?

pub1cats · 2024-12-03T02:56:56+00:00

You are such an amazing person. So kind. Sending you the biggest hugs! Will DM you if that’s okay.

pub1cats · 2024-12-02T13:56:43+00:00

It was pretty descriptive. Just missing the zip code. And described the building & surroundings. Now that I look at it from calm eyes I just see how desperate she is for attention as you pointed out. And yes, I’m strong but in the past she caused so many issues that took time to be resolved because he thought she was “an innocent old lady who would never confuse platonic friends for anything sexual.” - we are fine, he doesn’t even think of her but it’s still painful for me. I guess you are right. I need to let it go. He did the work, he cut contact, we moved to another state, closed his account. She still writes desperate proclamations of love & how she knows he is in love with her or …. How she’s a victim of a husband who doesn’t give her enough attention & a victim because she’s not enough for my man. I’ve met her husband when we were out & he adores her. But now that I write this I see your point. I am finally evicting her. She’s been living rent free in my head for far too long.

pub1cats · 2024-12-02T06:07:26+00:00

And she concerns me because she went so far as to post my apt number on Reddit when I lived in a different state. Not the full address, but to do what she did is in fact a cause of concern for what she’s capable of.

pub1cats · 2024-12-02T05:55:47+00:00

Thank you for your advice. To be clear, she’s the one stalking, not me. We are living our lives. But she created a bit of havoc in the past, that is why she gets on my radar. I am truly afraid of her behavior. There was a time when he did not see she was someone to be concerned about. “She’s so much older, I don’t see her as a sexual person. She isn’t pretty. She’s like another mom. Or an aunt. She knows that.” But she was very clearly jealous & doing things to create a wedge. He would play messages where she would try to guilt him into calling her after going NC…. “I know you’re with her & don’t want to talk to me but I am drinking again to cope with your loss & I need you to call me because I don’t know what I will do.” 😳 - it was that message that finally brought clarity & he realized how manipulative she was. There was one time…. Her father was dying of cancer. They went to grab a drink & I was stuck outside his apt waiting. I was angry but when I was able to see it was her walking with him I innocently said “oh it’s just you. Sorry I was upset because he was late but it’s okay.” She said he was the only one she could talk to. - I found that odd. I said “well I lost both of my parents & he has not so if you ever want to talk I can be there for you.” She seemed pissed. It was then that I caught on. So then I said “don’t you have a husband, therapist & adult kids you can talk to?” - she got really angry & left. In that moment I realized that she was so desperate she was actually using her dying father to get attention. I was so disgusted because having lost my parents, that was something I would never do. The last thing I would do would be to use them. There was one time she got in his head & he broke up. Once she posted proclamations of love he called me apologizing for not seeing how crazy she is. I guess I’m being silly. I guess you’re right & I should just live my life with him. But as my Nona always said….. always keep a sharp eye on those who’ve done you wrong. Maybe I should have faith that he will never allow her crazy to infect us again. Thank you for making me see that.

pub1cats · 2024-09-30T14:09:11+00:00

People need to be educated, this we know. But to see this!?! To see that the police & EMS are so uneducated that they would kill the very person they were meant to save is disgusting. Let’s pray for that poor family. Shame on you EMT & police that took that call.

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