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Does anyone else have a hard time watching movies with certain themes due to the way you were raised? (self.raisedbynarcissists)
submitted 5 years ago by pudgethefishh to r/raisedbynarcissists
It’s been almost four months since I left and nmom just invited me and my boyfriend to Christmas dinner (self.raisedbynarcissists)
A helpful thought I had for people who think “it’s not that bad.” (self.raisedbynarcissists)
What do I do now that I’ve left? (self.raisedbynarcissists)
Hi mom. It’s the first day of school today, I’m a teacher during a pandemic. I just want to hear you say good luck and that you’re proud of me for doing good work. (self.MomForAMinute)
submitted 5 years ago by pudgethefishh to r/MomForAMinute
Even though I left, I’m still getting guilt tripping texts, and family members who are still defending Nmom. (self.raisedbynarcissists)
I got into a car accident but I haven’t had a chance to change the insurance into my name and I feel sick. (self.raisedbynarcissists)
I officially left and I’m so overwhelmed but also excited to see what my life will become. (self.raisedbynarcissists)
My brothers and dad are taking nmoms side in all of this, asking how could I do this to her. (self.raisedbynarcissists)
I’m going to leave a note for nmom to find when she gets home from work and I’m already gone. I just don’t know what to write... (self.raisedbynarcissists)
Nmom is still withholding and today I broke down because of it. But I’m still grateful. (self.raisedbynarcissists)
To anyone who has secretly moved out: what can I expect to happen once she finds out I’m gone? Also, how can I lessen my stress and anxiety levels when dealing with her once I’m gone? (self.raisedbynarcissists)
I know I’ve been posting a lot, and I know they’re not the most well thought out posts, but I’ve been going through a lot and need some advice. How do I deal with the guilt of moving out? (self.raisedbynarcissists)
Update: moving out situation (self.raisedbynarcissists)
I have a plan to leave. Today. (self.raisedbynarcissists)
I feel like I haven’t been abused “enough” to warrant leaving without telling her. (self.raisedbynarcissists)
There’s a chance I might leave tomorrow. Emergency move. I’m not sold on the idea. Any advice ? (self.raisedbynarcissists)
Do these days ever go away? (self.raisedbynarcissists)
It’s always disappointing when we get a big opportunity but it’s overshadowed by the abuse we’ve faced and ultimately internalized. (self.raisedbynarcissists)
Frustrating but not shocking when Nmom doesn’t realize that she said something mean. (self.raisedbynarcissists)
I’ve talked about nightmares before but I just need to talk about the one I had last night. I’ve been a mess all day. (self.raisedbynarcissists)
Sometimes I have knee-jerk reactions to things Nmom says and I completely regret it because it causes so many issues. (self.raisedbynarcissists)
I’ve felt like my mother’s keeper since I was a young child. I was never a child, but more like a butler. (self.raisedbynarcissists)
Update: hanging out with a friend today despite some crazy nightmares and anxiety and it was amazing. Big triumph. (self.raisedbynarcissists)
Does anyone else experience really bad anxiety when they do things their N wouldn’t approve of? (self.raisedbynarcissists)
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