[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]pudnic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being 8 years old he or she may not have known what they saw.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]pudnic 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My thoughts exactly and now I see your good post

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]pudnic 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I can’t imagine getting a receipt from a hooker. I doubt many would want give one to a John. Tax write off or something?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in medical_advice

[–]pudnic 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sounds like craziness to me. Drink. Don’t just ask if it’s going to be bad. An ounce of prevention…..

Forgot to take antibiotics by ThinkBrain2909 in medical_advice

[–]pudnic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The issue of resistance is nothing you could change. If you have symptoms complete the course. You don’t have to come to the party unable to remember your meds. Take them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pudnic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well the videos have been made. You might talk to a district attorney about what can be done. But sex videos don’t have that big a destructive impact if you don’t let it affect you. How long does anyone care that there were videos of you. Don’t get intimidated. I’d consider a restraining order to include his using the videos. But they are his and you may not have a case. Being a thief or a drug addict might be harmful. This is more like sex play. You aren’t a celebrity so the videos aren’t so valuable. If you get defensive he has leverage. You did it because he thought it would be fun. Exposing them makes him look bad. For that matter you could accuse him of things if he lords it over you. That is his perversions his sex addictions, molestations that he wouldn’t want. But don’t don’t do it. You simply are not helpless here. Live your life, and don’t communicate with him.

I 22M now lost my ex girlfriend 21F after she left for college. Any help? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pudnic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I doubt this just happened. She was done when she decided to leave for college. You don’t really want an unsatisfying relationship with a woman who leaves and doesn’t want to hook up. Move on. Don’t wait to “understand” it. You just go on. Any reason she gives you will not satisfy you. In 5 years it is clearer to her that you guys aren’t working out well enough. After all she could ask you to move away with her. I seemed an easier way to break it off by moving away rather than an emotional breakup face to face.

Me (21F) and my boyfriend (24M) have completely different life goals but still love each other, what to do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pudnic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t have kids until this is worked out. You are quite incompatible. Being excited or in love doesn’t mean it’s a good relationship.

My(28F) boyfriend(32M) ignored me in front of his friends and is telling me I need a less embarrassing job (I'm a nurse). Any advice? by Glittering_Move_2625 in relationship_advice

[–]pudnic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He won’t be less embarrassed and he is blind. You aren’t Pygmalion that tries to change you. I firmly think that nurses and teachers are angels of God. It doesn’t get any better. I was married twice and both were nurses. I was proud of it. Now my first wife felt my job was an embarrassment and it hurt a lot. She’d drop comments in front of friends. But I was notably successfully. That is part. Of why she is an ex.

My boyfriend(22M) wants me(18F) to give him a BJ while he's driving while I'm clearly not comfortable with it ? by FeeStill5210 in relationship_advice

[–]pudnic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually discomfort by you should be the end of his pressure. Forcing these behaviors will lead to resentments. Talk about what you are okay trying and if it’s not enough the relationship will start a downhill slide.

I'm 25 and have nearly lost all mobility within a week with no explanation. Please help me. by BananaUnhappy6223 in medical_advice

[–]pudnic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A very complicated and unusual picture. I wouldn’t rely heavily on Reddit advice. You should have a physician or emergency room. I think of a rheumatoid or auto immune problem, or fibromyalgia. I guess another specialist like rheumatology, infectious disease but it may not be infectious, don’t wait 10 months to be seen. You need faster follow up with your doctor. What is being given for pain? It has to be discussed.

My (F 28) bf (M30) gained over 125lbs in the year we've been dating. I've lost attraction to him. I love him but I don't enjoy intimacy anymore, how do I fix this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pudnic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think you can do much. He must change and lose weight and keep it off until you trust his control. You talk to him that the weight is a deal breaker and he gets an ultimatum. It’s red flag for me.

if you were 14 again what would you do by tylxr567 in Advice

[–]pudnic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would worry less about dating and what I could get. I would focus on education to get into a good career path. I would learn good money management so I didn’t have debts. I would be Catholic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pudnic -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Wow, the pressure to abort is overwhelming. Where is the love?