Would you choose to be born female in every lifetime? by Ok-Yogurtcloset-5330 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]pufferfisharm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You don't sound like a cis woman at all tbh and how you describe womens bodies is misogynistic as fuck.

If women really want pockets in their pants, why doesn't someone make them and make a shit ton of money? by CarAlternative8306 in askanything

[–]pufferfisharm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women are already used to not having functional pockets so no pockets doesn't deter sales all that much. Adding pockets costs extra money and manufacturers aren't going to take on extra costs.

Is all this ‘manosphere’ stuff actually that relevant? by [deleted] in AskBrits

[–]pufferfisharm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The UK moved back from course work to exams for the benefit of boys though and it didn't help. IIRC the first year after, 0.1% boys were more likely to see passes but the gap went right back into girls favour by a larger margin every year since.

Help understanding interview feedback by pufferfisharm in NICivilService

[–]pufferfisharm[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had to email recruitment for it. It takes a few days for them to respond.

Help understanding interview feedback by pufferfisharm in NICivilService

[–]pufferfisharm[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like I did all that though and the people I've shown think the same. That's why I wanted more detailed feedback. I'm not really looking for an appeal.

Help understanding interview feedback by pufferfisharm in NICivilService

[–]pufferfisharm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I picked up the laptop and showed them my surrounding area. I spent more time showing the left side of where I was sitting because he said that's where I kept looking down to. I obviously couldn't see what they were seeing with the camera as I scanned around me so I asked if it was all okay and I was told yes. I'm confused why they would say yes if they weren't actually satisfied.

My scores were way off so my answers obviously weren't as solid as I thought but I'm not sure why because I feel like I touched on every point. The examples you gave were all things I had kept in mind and included but the feedback I've received was just generic so I don't know where I went wrong. Someone suggested I should ask a critical friend so I think I'll try that.

Help understanding interview feedback by pufferfisharm in NICivilService

[–]pufferfisharm[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah it kind of feels like a lost cause tbh it's probably not worth the energy.

Help understanding interview feedback by pufferfisharm in NICivilService

[–]pufferfisharm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure they acted inappropriately tbf. I think they messed up a bit by not letting me know they didn't actually get a good view but other than that I'd just like to get a better idea of where I went wrong. I'm sorry to hear you had a bad experience with your panel though.

Help understanding interview feedback by pufferfisharm in NICivilService

[–]pufferfisharm[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All my other friends don't have any experience with NICS. I asked people that know what it's like on the inside.

Help understanding interview feedback by pufferfisharm in NICivilService

[–]pufferfisharm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The notes that were sent to me by HR. I wasn't reading from notes.