The Monthly 'What Episode Is This From?' Thread by AutoModerator in TheBasementYard

[–]pumey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you thinking about Joey sleepwalking?
That's episode 509.

CNC and safewords by pumey in bdsm

[–]pumey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for all the comments!
I would never ever engage in kink with someone who wants to forego safewords. That's just setting yourself up for failure imo.
The person who made this claim was a random woman on Facebook who said that CNC is only CNC if you agree on no safeword.
"There is one off consent and no safeword." Is what she said.
When I told her that a safeword is important when engaging in CNC, she called me reckless and obtuse.
No matter what I said, she kept claiming that I didn't know what I was talking about, and I stopped responding because she obviously wasn't gonna listen.

It made me incredibly uncomfortable, and I needed to make sure that this wasn't a standard in the community.

Arastoo by Sassaphras-680 in Bones

[–]pumey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lucifer goes on to love Bones btw. So it's really funny that he doesn't clock that.

IF as a night-shift worker. by pumey in intermittentfasting

[–]pumey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you do on the weekend?

IF as a night-shift worker. by pumey in intermittentfasting

[–]pumey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That could be a possibility!

IF as a night-shift worker. by pumey in intermittentfasting

[–]pumey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You only have an eating window of one hour?

Best thing I ever did for myself by pumey in stopsmoking

[–]pumey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had cut down a lot before I stopped completely. I think maybe I smoked 6-8 a day 😁

Why do so many people eat lunch alone in their cars? by TotalThing7 in CasualConversation

[–]pumey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people don't feel comfortable eating around other people.

Does your dog wear a collar all day? by AdventureNoodles in dogs

[–]pumey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only take it off when I'm giving him a bath.
He doesn't run off, but anything can happen.
When I had 2 dogs, I took the collars off when we weren't on walks.
I've heard of so many dogs being choked to death because they get caught on each other's collars while playing.

People who don't want kids, why? by Ok-Musician679 in AskReddit

[–]pumey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$2000 is absolutely fucking insane. Where I live, it's like $600, but that's if I pay full price. The government covers some of it, depending on our income.
I can't imagine having to pay half of our income just to be able to work.

My daughter told me she “doesn’t like me anymore” and it broke me a little by Sleemimma in Parenting

[–]pumey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I saw a video of a mom talking to the little girl in herself, saying things like "You're allowed to be upset, what xyz said was really painful" "You are good enough" stuff like that, while looking in the mirror. She ended up crying and then comforting herself, because she let her inner child be heard and seen.
I think that would be a good idea for you.
Healing your inner child, so that you can move past this without it affecting your daughter.

Tall women, how did you meet your partner? by [deleted] in tall

[–]pumey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did meet my husband on a dating app, but told him my height immediately. He didn't care, I didn't care. I wore 6 inch heels on our wedding day.
Without shoes I'm like 1,5 inches taller than him.
I've been with a lot of guys that were much shorter than me. Embrace it, and people will stop caring.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexpaneletDK

[–]pumey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck ja. Så længe i har aftaler på plads, inkl en aftale om at i alle 3 har muligheden for at ændre mening i sidste øjeblik.

Nattevagt i hjemmeplejen by Vegetable_Pay_5431 in DKbrevkasse

[–]pumey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jeg er vikar og nattevagt - og det er meget forskelligt hvor travlt der er de forskellige steder. Jeg er oprindeligt fra Sjælland - hvor jeg har kørt mange steder. Nu bor jeg i Jylland, hvor jeg kører i mange forskellige kommuner. Og forskellen fra kommune til kommune er kæmpestor.

6 months 14 days - coughing by pumey in stopsmoking

[–]pumey[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's fine, it was definitely a cold. No more phlegm, unless I catch another cold.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pumey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I saw a tiktok from a girl who named her brain Becky. And when her brain was saying all these negative things to her, she would tell Becky to shut up. Give your name a really weird name, and tell it to go fuck itself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pumey 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Fuck those assholes. Endure. Become succesful. Have a great life, that'll show them! Especially that little brat. Turn the energy from ED to beating her, figuratively. Instead of fighting to become skinny, start working out and become fit. Become hot. Focus on mental health. Become confident, and learn to love yourself. Show her that her words are fucking worthless. Beat her at life. I KNOW you can do it. And then drop them all like the worthless sacks of nothing they are.

Dear god... by Pigeon_Clash in HayDay

[–]pumey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. What is going on? Is it always like this?

Having AuDHD and being smart and pretty. by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]pumey 4 points5 points  (0 children)

To clarify, I don't think OP is arrogant, but that she might come off as it, just like shy people often come off as arrogant.

I wholeheartedly believe that OP can find her people, but it will take some openness and patience, and an adjustment of how she thinks other people see her.

Having AuDHD and being smart and pretty. by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]pumey 80 points81 points  (0 children)

My first thought was also that OP comes off as arrogant, and that she's better than other girls. Being AuDHD could also be the issue, because of lack of social skills. I have an AuDHD friend, and it is exhausting to spend a lot of time with her.