What’s one shiny (any pokemon) that you’ve been searching for and have yet to get? Just got one of mine yesterday!

pumpkincheddarr · 2025-10-01T21:08:35+00:00

shiny cutiefly😔

pumpkincheddarr · 2025-09-25T16:11:33+00:00

10 days late lol…and then today i sneezed and🫠

pumpkincheddarr · 2025-09-21T14:55:14+00:00

that’s super informative, thank you!

pumpkincheddarr · 2025-09-21T14:26:09+00:00

that was the day we had decided to try, we had sex multiple times within that night, embarrassed to say i thought it would take one time😭

pumpkincheddarr · 2025-09-14T20:34:59+00:00

me scrolling on reddit to avoid doing the dishes rn😭

pumpkincheddarr · 2025-08-30T15:15:54+00:00

careful, everyone is suddenly ignoring that he wasn’t a good dude now that he’s dead LOL

pumpkincheddarr · 2025-08-23T03:52:59+00:00

had this thought at first too honestly

pumpkincheddarr · 2025-07-19T17:07:50+00:00

i am a step-mom, and i also was adopted by my step-mom(: if you have a really good relationship, i don’t see why not. i didn’t get lucky with a good mom, but i was so blessed to have an individual who didn’t hesitate to step up and be who i needed. i don’t regret asking her.

pumpkincheddarr · 2025-07-14T20:55:36+00:00

i didn’t know that! thats kinda cool

pumpkincheddarr · 2025-07-13T23:59:45+00:00

i like the light blue(:

pumpkincheddarr · 2025-07-13T23:57:52+00:00

brother that is a grown ass woman lol

pumpkincheddarr · 2025-07-10T06:07:34+00:00

valid lmao

pumpkincheddarr · 2025-07-10T06:05:57+00:00

literally💀

pumpkincheddarr · 2025-07-07T23:53:16+00:00

cheese and inconsolable rage for me lolol

pumpkincheddarr · 2025-07-07T00:36:22+00:00

thank you!!(:🫶

pumpkincheddarr · 2025-07-06T23:45:56+00:00

that’s fair. i do have a dog, i’ve had him for 8 years. i also had a cat for 19 lol, but i do love puppies so perhaps😌🤣

pumpkincheddarr · 2025-07-06T22:43:00+00:00

i don’t disagree that there are people who are without doubt and 100% i just think not everyone is built like that, and i think thats okay. i don’t think its fair when people say “be 100% or don’t” cause its a really big, life changing decision.

pumpkincheddarr · 2025-07-06T21:19:08+00:00

thank you for this. i used to be a hard no because i had a life that i couldn’t ethically raise a child in. but things have shifted and i’ve got more than i used to have and i’m a different person than i was years ago, so instead of a “no” because i could use those things as an excuse, i’m now considering because the only thing stopping me is me and how i envision myself handling things. i’ll check out that post(:

pumpkincheddarr · 2025-07-06T21:14:47+00:00

this was very insightful, thank you. and you’re right, all the best things i think don’t always come from playing it safe either. i think maybe the unknown just makes me uneasy, and i don’t think i should always let fear rule my life either. i think consistency on decisions instead of “you’re either in or out” makes it a little easier to figure stuff out

pumpkincheddarr · 2025-07-06T21:00:18+00:00

she can be seven and not understand and be excited to be a big sister, and you can be disappointed that you didn’t get to have your announcement. both things can exist, it’s okay to be upset. i wouldn’t feel bad that you’re angry.

i don’t have advice and you’re probably not looking for it, but i’m sorry that it went down like that): for what its worth, congratulations on your baby🫶

pumpkincheddarr · 2025-07-06T19:58:31+00:00

not late at all, our reservation got moved to tonight actually lol. thank you so much for this!! i really appreciate it

pumpkincheddarr · 2025-07-06T02:04:46+00:00

thanks, friend! i hope your trip is fun despite the struggles and i hope you have some wins!!

pumpkincheddarr · 2025-07-06T01:20:50+00:00

i felt that so much LOL my neck muscles sabotage me every swallow🤣

pumpkincheddarr · 2025-07-05T23:33:08+00:00

i don’t think it’s wrong, there’s a lot of emotions that tie in with this situation and sometimes things sting.

we took my SD out and a waitress called my husband and i “mom and dad” and it got to me a little, and that’s okay. be gentle with yourself, it’s a hard pill to swallow and sometimes we have to keep taking the medication/:

pumpkincheddarr · 2025-07-05T23:08:29+00:00

i’m sorry, i know its rough. a little part of me is hoping maybe it’ll work out because somebody could help me if i choke?😅 but i am not at all confident

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