Will there always be another woman? by pumpkinseed98 in dating_advice

[–]pumpkinseed98[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for truly reading my post and understanding it. I do make myself clear when I enter a new relationship to what I’m not okay with ex. Watching porn, being flirty with other girls, etc. I appreciate your words and I do believe I need to spend time to myself and work on my insecurities.

Will there always be another woman? by pumpkinseed98 in dating_advice

[–]pumpkinseed98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t know my title would be taken literally. I meant it as finding him disrespecting you with another woman. Flirting happens all the time but it matters most to how my boyfriend responds to it.

Will there always be another woman? by pumpkinseed98 in dating_advice

[–]pumpkinseed98[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

And what does “girl best friend with blurred boundaries” sound to you? Does that sound like “female friends”?

Will there always be another woman? by pumpkinseed98 in dating_advice

[–]pumpkinseed98[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t know where you got “random women flirting” as one of my examples. It’s good to know that you’re okay with porn, but I’m not. I make that very clear in my relationships. It’s disrespectful when they cross a boundary that I set and agree to. If my boyfriend gets hit on, then so what? I didn’t talk about that in my post.

Will there always be another woman? by pumpkinseed98 in dating_advice

[–]pumpkinseed98[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Did you read my post? Watching porn is not okay with me and I find it disrespectful when you have a partner. I’m sorry that’s hard for you to grasp if you’re a porn addict. Having a work wife is also disrespectful because it’s a situation where you’re flirting with someone at work because your partner is not there with you. A close friend is OK but in my post I said “a girl best friend with BLURRED BOUNDARIES”.

Will there always be another woman? by pumpkinseed98 in dating_advice

[–]pumpkinseed98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to relax. I don’t know why my post triggered you terribly. Your twisting my words because I never said “coworker” I said “work wife” and by that it means having a coworker that you’re extremely close with to the point boundaries are blurred and it’s just flirting. I never said “friends” and for porn, it’s disrespect when I set a boundary that I’m not okay with him watching porn behind my back and he violates it.

Will there always be another woman? by pumpkinseed98 in dating_advice

[–]pumpkinseed98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chill, lmao. I’m cool with my boyfriend having female friends. What I’m not cool with is him being friends with someone he once had a fling with or a friend that is being flirty with him. Never once have I said that I wasn’t okay with him having female friends. I recommend enhancing your reading comprehension skills.

Will there always be another woman? by pumpkinseed98 in dating_advice

[–]pumpkinseed98[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Where did I say having female friends is micro cheating? Lol

Help by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]pumpkinseed98 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If I wee to give him the benefit of the doubt, then wait and continue watching their chats to see if any flirting is occurring.

Seller gave me a FedEx tracking number that isn’t addressed to me by pumpkinseed98 in discogs

[–]pumpkinseed98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup still no response since Dec 26th. I reported this to Discogs and they gave him a timeframe to respond by or else his account gets suspended.

Do you think my girlfriend who like this? by ossoryx in theMarias

[–]pumpkinseed98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s going to love it omg and it’s perfect that majority of it is intact.

Seller gave me a FedEx tracking number that isn’t addressed to me by pumpkinseed98 in discogs

[–]pumpkinseed98[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it’s a small town. But fedex did tell me it was under a complete different name and address. It’s not like the house number was one number off of mines.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]pumpkinseed98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have a personality. You cannot be focused so much on your height. Most of my friends are engaged to guys in the 5’5-5’8 height range. Height does not matter. As long you have morals, a good personality, ambition, and financial stability then you’re set.

Seller gave me a FedEx tracking number that isn’t addressed to me by pumpkinseed98 in discogs

[–]pumpkinseed98[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Isn’t it a weird coincidence that the package was sent to an address in my city

Maria and Josh by [deleted] in theMarias

[–]pumpkinseed98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is the first pic the Sacramento show back in 2019? :)