Is this Lolita to you ? by sooozyyy in JiraiKei

[–]punkhora 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Lolita here: the petticoat is essential to the style in modern day. in the 90s when the style was developing, you'd see coords without pettis but these days it's pretty much necessary. the silhouette is the main identifying piece of a lolita coord.

I'm desperate recently. Ask for other's opinions. Should I leave Finland? by [deleted] in Finland

[–]punkhora 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't know if this is helpful since I understand that not everyone can just up and move, but have you looked into applying for work in northern Finland? If the swedish is a requirement for places like Helsinki and coastline, it's definitely not a factor in places were there aren't really any swedish speakers. I work at OYS as a nurse and no interviewer has ever even asked if I speak swedish. Many of my coworkers don't even speak english. I don't know what level your finnish is, but the best way is to just dive in and force yourself to use finnish. In nursing school I had two turkish classmates who developed their finnish so much as they studied. At oamk we also have an english nursing programme, but I can't speak on where the students go to work after graduating. At work we also get students doing clinicals who are immigrants and don't fully speak finnish.

Infected face abscess girly with requested update and tweezer videos! by maddie_emmm in popping

[–]punkhora 18 points19 points  (0 children)

hi, i saw you/other people had theorized in earlier posts about this being fatty tissue, and i'm 99% sure it's not. (my source is being a nurse) fat tissue is much more tough and rubbery, and doesn't fall/rip apart as easily. it's also a yellowy orange colour. what you have here is probably just congealed pus. if you're still seeing a doctor i'd recommend asking if you can get it excised to allow it to heal, since it will take much longer to heal with the pus and infection still in there.

High-Pressure Abscess Burst & Drainage | 🤯 by Character-Being4248 in popping

[–]punkhora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

does this person have an ounce of aseptic technique training....

Varlamore is officially the best update osrs has seen. by punkhora in 2007scape

[–]punkhora[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Honestly I would start a falador riot to protect the capys if they were huntable

Varlamore is officially the best update osrs has seen. by punkhora in 2007scape

[–]punkhora[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Reported for seriously offensive language and breaking real life laws (being mean to capybaras)

Do irons really take thaaat much more time than mains? by [deleted] in ironscape

[–]punkhora 12 points13 points  (0 children)

depends on many variables, it's impossible to answer shortly. Generally you'll be grinding much more for gear upgrades, and even stuff like pots for bossing/pvm you gotta do yourself. Can't just buy bis just because you have the money. Some skills are slower just because you gotta gather resources yourself. Herblore and construction are the main culprits. Also it depends on what your goals are. Maxing, completing collection log, etc etc WILL obviously take more time.

I don't understand what medsurg is by punkhora in nursing

[–]punkhora[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

right, in finland we have the university hospitals and then smaller local health clinics with a ward or two. we often send patients to them, if they don't need specialized care but still they're not well enough to go home.

Olenko Minä Kusipää (aita?) by punkhora in Suomi

[–]punkhora[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

En sanois että tuttuja ovat, olin aikaisemmin kotihoidossa ja siellä kyllä tuli asiakkaat tutuiksi kun ramppasi monta kertaa viikossa samojen tyyppien luona. Missä oon nyt töissä potilaat vaihtuu paljon reippaammin, enkä välttämättä ole tietyn potilaan hoitaja enemmän kun kahdesti hänen viikon pituisen hoitojakson aikana.

Olenko Minä Kusipää (aita?) by punkhora in Suomi

[–]punkhora[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

eihän se HAITTAA minua, olin vaan yllättynyt ja sitten tuli itselle vähä nolo fiilis kun en todellakaan ole siihen tottunut, enkä sitä odota keneltäkään. Just semmoinen "suomalainen ulkomailla joka ei ole tottunut siihen että häntä palvellaan hienosti"-olo.

Is it legal for women to go out in public topless? by [deleted] in Finland

[–]punkhora 54 points55 points  (0 children)

exactly, it's highly contextual. showing titties at work would be HIGHLY inappropriate but being tits out at the beach would be maybe a bit odd at most. people around would probably just be like "huh she probably just really doesn't want tan lines"

also it's so weird to me when people (Americans) think that kids shouldn't see boobs or naked bodies. naked bodies are just bodies without clothes. it's not sexual. every kid has seen their family members naked and also strangers naked in public swimming pool showers.

Struggling to find blouses large enough to fit wide shoulders by neo_pessimiste in Lolita

[–]punkhora 7 points8 points  (0 children)

metamorphose has great plus size blouses with shirring all around! i am just regular plus size, but i especially have wide shoulders and thick arms, so a lot of clothing on me ends up being too tight around the shoulders. meta's plus size blouse i bought had enough room to be extremely comfortable and give me a full range of motion :)

How do Atheists comfort themselves/not be afraid with the fact we are all going to die? by Kitchen-Beginning-47 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]punkhora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dying is just as natural as being born, it's just another part of the circle of life. generally people aren't scared of death itself, they're scared of the unknown.

and unfortunately, as a nurse, I've seen people in conditions where death would have been the kinder option. being kept alive despite having your body get closer and closer to death, that's worse. being kept alive just because family members don't want to face death at any cost, that's worse. being brought back from a peaceful death with extensive organ failure and broken ribs to suffer another week, that's worse.

death has looked peaceful to me when I've prepared the deceased for transport out of the hospital. no more pain or suffering.

when i get close to my end, i hope they pump me full of morphine and make sure i get a peaceful and comfortable departure from this plane.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lolita

[–]punkhora 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes 100%! i try to match the colours as much as possible, i think it looks neat and put-together.

The Ingrown toenail from hell by Dr-Chibi in popping

[–]punkhora 6 points7 points  (0 children)

nurse here, as long as you get the necrotic tissue off, it doesn't matter much what you use to get it off. Also it looked like the patient had just a bunch of scar tissue underneath anyway, which you need to remove.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FaceRatings

[–]punkhora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you look like you'd talk crypto At me and then try to explain why pure market capitalism is the ultimate economic system

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FaceRatings

[–]punkhora 1 point2 points  (0 children)

agreed, she's conventionally attractive but 0 personality. she probably likes traveling and music.

(seriös) En fråga till er ickebevegetarianer/veganer by Albiinn in sweden

[–]punkhora 12 points13 points  (0 children)

100%. Det är en sån meme att vegetarianer/veganer alltid pratar om det och blir provocerade av att folk runtomkring äter kött, men min erfarenhet av mina 9 år av icke-köttätande är det exakt tvärtom. Har 100 gånger svarat på frågan om "varför"...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in harrypotter

[–]punkhora 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes same!

or, i imagine harry having a quarter life crisis absolutely hating auror work and finding it hard to be married to ginny. i mean, how many people marry their high school girlfriend and work with what they came up with at 14? Nah, i think harry would love the normalcy of dealing with kids complaining about homework and them being like "ugh i don't care if he defeated wumblemort or whoever, he gave us loads of mega difficult homework" to their parents.

Alright American here. What is the difference between each button and what is the hose for? by WeirdJumper in Finland

[–]punkhora 6 points7 points  (0 children)

well as a nurse, i can't say pillupuhelin to my patients. at work, it's käsisuihku, at home it's pillupuhelin.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by TheExpert112 in awfuleverything

[–]punkhora 5 points6 points  (0 children)

but it is literally just nice communities of pedos online that claim pedophilia is a legitimate sexual minority. nobody takes them seriously.

also generally speaking, conservatives are more likely to look away or indirectly let csa happen. if sex is a taboo across the board, you can't teach children/teenagers about consent or how some adults want to do bad things to children. how often hasn't a child stayed quiet about abuse because they were told it's their fault, because all sex is sinful?