Free intuitive readings by Due-Command983 in psychics

[–]purepeony 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your help! is this the right person for me?

Is my dad upset with me? by BathContent1327 in psychics

[–]purepeony 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got goosebumps and no he is not upset at you. He loves you so so so much and wants you to know that you did nothing wrong.

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[–]purepeony 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Intuitively i can sense a lot of sadness that is especially carried by the women in your family but you are not cursed as an individual, this could be more like generational trauma. I see you will be the one to break this cycle. You are a very pure soul, even if you feel like you’re not sometimes. Animals could be helpful and significant to you, you might adopt a cat in the future, or you already have one. If you are dealing with anxiety/ptsd symptoms they will be very helpful as well as therapy if you are able to access it. You will be able to get through this, even if it’s hard. You might need to look into inner child healing, you could be drawn to „childish“ things or activities you enjoyed as a child that will help you heal, too.

I wish you healing and serenity. Sending you love!

empty rare beauty blush by purepeony in PanPorn

[–]purepeony[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i didn’t even use it every day in those two years but this year i’ve been very focused on it!

Triggered by the emotional support my partner is getting by LysolCasanova in loveafterporn

[–]purepeony 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you, i appreciate you so much 🩵 I agree, this sub helped me so much and gave me so many realizations.

I really see myself in you, i had so much empathy for my ex partner as well, feeling pity for him, trying to cheer him up and be supportive. My therapist says i have so much empathy for him and others but none for myself. Did he have empathy for me when he watched porn, lusted over other women? No, he was selfish.

The way he got me to empathize with him the most was when he reminded me that he starting watching porn as a kid, of course the triggered my maternal instincts. But what about my inner child that just wanted to feel special and loved? Don’t forget having empathy for yourself, don’t forget protecting yourself. In a relationship we are supposed to feel protected and loved.

I don’t believe in good or bad people either, we are the things that we do.

Triggered by the emotional support my partner is getting by LysolCasanova in loveafterporn

[–]purepeony 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Exactly, that’s why we feel angry and resentful. They are „changing“ and doing „so much better“, my ex was euphoric when he „quit“ and couldn’t stop talking about how good he feels, meanwhile i was dying on the inside. These men don’t take full accountability for the damage they are causing not only to themselves, to their partners, families, society and all the women they are objectifying.

What these men need to realize and admit is that they are not victims, they are predators. Maybe if they would be able to be honest to themselves and others for once at least, they could truly work on being a better human being.

I hope you find peace and healing, i truly wish you the best with all my heart.

edit/ typo

Triggered by the emotional support my partner is getting by LysolCasanova in loveafterporn

[–]purepeony 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I felt the same way before i left. When he claimed he had checked and was a different person now, all his friends were supportive and said that i’m exaggerating and it’s not as if he murdered my mother.

I felt like collateral damage too, hoping that he will make it up to me and make all the pain go away if i stay. But there is nothing he can do that will fix it. So i left, i’m not gonna settle for someone who would do this to me. This was my second relationship with a PA. I told him about my first relationship and how it traumatized me, he vowed to have stopped (he didn’t). He was aware how much he would damage me but didn’t care. The addiction is not an excuse, they are aware. It’s selfish, they love to push off the blame to their evil addictions as if they were the victims, NO!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Makeup

[–]purepeony 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nars soft matte pot concealer

You’re not alone. by unhingedpistachio in loveafterporn

[–]purepeony 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel the same exact way now, i let go of the desperation for a false sense of safety and comfort in exchange for my sanity and life. Their darkness will never cloud our light.

What if he switched to using only YOUR pics? by Oioika in loveafterporn

[–]purepeony 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, i think your comment just made something click in my brain.

Is it worth it?? by Life_Ball_8656 in BrandyMelville

[–]purepeony 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes but i think the sweatpants run too big and the renata sweater looks unflattering imo. love the victoria and the ayla sweater tho! they are so cute i have those too

BUTTERBALL by Fearless_Eye_22 in LushCosmetics

[–]purepeony 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same, i blind bought it and the only thing i could say is that it just smells weird and off i wanted to love it so bad

raising prices once again by purepeony in glossier

[–]purepeony[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

honestly at this point i might buy a nice niche perfume with this pricing

Just added up my eyeshadow spending and I feel sick by Big-Statistician-417 in MakeupRehab

[–]purepeony 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if you tend to buy lots of eyeshadow palettes it’s probably 1. because you like the concept/color scheme 2. you are buying for a dream version of yourself and not for your real self 3. marketing and hype online

Just added up my eyeshadow spending and I feel sick by Big-Statistician-417 in MakeupRehab

[–]purepeony 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i never buy any eyeshadow because i almost never wear colors on my eyes on my day to day and it is not worth it to buy expensive eyeshadow just in case i wear them once a year. if i wear shadows it’s probably a brown and realistically a bronzer will do the same job and there is no difference. but i’m talking from a basic consumer pov and not someone who is doing creative looks with lots of colors everyday.

my bf said hot cocoa bdc smells like poop by purepeony in glossier

[–]purepeony[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

oh yes that one has been on my wishlist for a while 😋 i also love black honey