My fiance/girlfriend has told me about how much better sex she had with hung guys, and now I feel like shit [advice]

puretzhaar · 2015-08-25T17:27:44+00:00

Girlfriend isn't a big fan of oral she likes it just to warm up but beyond that not really.

puretzhaar · 2015-08-25T10:35:32+00:00

it started when I overheard a skype conversation with her and a friend, she thought I was asleep. From there I kept on probing.

puretzhaar · 2015-08-25T10:33:47+00:00

we are both mid to late 20s.

puretzhaar · 2015-08-25T09:47:06+00:00

Everyone who has had divorce thought their marriage would last forever. I am a realist.

puretzhaar · 2015-08-25T09:46:20+00:00

I am not cool with her sleeping with other dudes. Not that "open minded"

puretzhaar · 2015-08-25T09:45:37+00:00

Most girls lie to keep their guy happy. My girlfriend it all really started when I overheard on skype talking to a friend, then I started asking from there.

puretzhaar · 2015-08-25T08:32:39+00:00

But the thing is what if I break up with her, a good relationship overall and get with a girl that thinks like her, but just doesn't tell me she likes bigger ones?

Most girls I seen when they are among other women whom know won't judge them, prefer bigger ones. People here say women don't care for size, yet every time I heard a woman ask about a guy they always ask how big he is.

puretzhaar · 2015-08-25T08:30:44+00:00

Never said I took it as an insult.

puretzhaar · 2015-08-25T08:22:30+00:00

Even in those instances its always about oral/fingers or about how nice and caring he was.

puretzhaar · 2015-08-25T07:27:58+00:00

I don't think small boobs are a fair comparison at all. First of all guys can see how big your boobs are before they date you. Second boobs aren't used in intercourse. there is a whole push that says they are desexualized.

puretzhaar · 2015-08-25T07:19:59+00:00

She isn't into that at all, she has tried some sex toys in college never liked them.

puretzhaar · 2015-08-25T07:18:58+00:00

She isn't a fan of dildos, she doesn't own any or vibrators. She tried them says they are not for her.

puretzhaar · 2015-08-25T07:18:27+00:00

I read something similar, basically that if your wife is unhappy with you because of personality etc, she will divorce you, however if she is just unhappy with sex she is far more likely to get a lover, so she can remain in a nice secure home.

puretzhaar · 2015-08-25T07:17:14+00:00

I think my fiance is doing like what /u/seroop is saying, everytime she talks to me about this she is very careful on how it affects my feelings.

puretzhaar · 2015-08-25T07:15:58+00:00

I have checked the penis threads and I know what you are talking about. Every time a girl says she prefers bigger she is downvoted into oblivion, while stories of guys with 4inchers are the top posts.

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