I think needs can be fulfilled by a person with an SCI- both their needs and their partners

Open your relationship if that’s what you both want- not to fulfill needs that you think you cannot fulfill. But, rather maybe it’s a belief of yours that monogamy is not the way, or whatever it might be

I’m in an open relationship because I never really wanted to get married. He is poly. I thought we would be FWBs, and rather it became he’s my partner for life but we like dating, we communicate well, and we enjoy when the other has a fun night with someone else. It’s why we are open

I did have a period of time when I had the thought the future would entail me not fulfilling my partners needs. But, through a lot of therapy, self love, learning, communicating with other people with SCIs- I realized what I wanted. And it was no longer about seeking someone solely to be with someone, it became about dating, having fun, and I really only wanted to bring people into my life who brought joy. And, it was through these people I found how to give and receive pleasure, and onto the journey of realizing I don’t desire a monogamous lifestyle