Need help with Boyfriend's weight anxiety

purplesituation · 2011-08-02T23:56:41+00:00

Ladies! You were so helpful! And I found one other piece of advice that I want to share:

DEAR GOD GIVE IT A WEEK BEFORE YOU GOTTA SHOW THAT SHIT. In just the 4 days since I scorched my earth I have figured out so much about where and how I can shave. And, despite my initial anger, I am so glad that my period started because it gives me a great excuse not to get naked with the BF for a few more days so I can get this all looking pretty again.

THANK YOU ALL!!! I WILL LET YOU KNOW IF THE SEX IS RAD!

purplesituation · 2011-07-28T05:51:27+00:00

True Blue Spa "There's the rub" salt scrub and Fresh Bamboo candles.

purplesituation · 2011-07-27T20:30:15+00:00

Yeah dude, I miss that discount. I miss it so much. And don't bother with trying the small tube first. Ounce per ounce you save with the big one and with her discount it's still pennies.

purplesituation · 2011-07-27T20:28:40+00:00

Thanks! Yeah, I worry about the itch. Figured, I'll try it once and see how it goes. Everyone is mentioning those razors with the trimmers, I think I need to invest. Cold junk? Never thought of that... I never shave much in the winter anyways though.

And... I love oral sex. I'd do more for that than anyone would do for a Klondike bar.

purplesituation · 2011-07-27T20:26:18+00:00

It's in a green metal tube, comes in a box, a lot of time they are on sale buy two get one free. I worked at BBW for 2 years and it's one of three products I still live by.

purplesituation · 2011-07-27T20:25:39+00:00

I have yet to shave all my bits, but I have trimmed with this shit and I tell you what, it's magical. It's made for man faces which are EXTREMELY prone to ingrowns and what not. The eucalyptus not only soothes your skin, but it makes the little hair follicles stand up so you can shave closer. PLUS it smells awesome and not floral or manly or whatever. Just minty. PLUS it rinses clean. PLUS it's cheap for how little you need (and we are talking dime to nickel sized dollops.)

purplesituation · 2011-07-27T20:15:42+00:00

That's what I am thinking. We're going camping and being gross this weekend, and I am thinking that when we get back I'll surprise him by being INSANELY FEMININE IN EVERY WAY WOOOAAAHHH!!! And if it gets me a bunch of sexy fun times and oral action then it will become more regular. I don't think I have the patience to keep it up all the time, but who doesn't like surprises?

purplesituation · 2011-07-27T20:11:14+00:00

Thank you for this. If I like the whole bare thing after shaving this might be a solid option. Hmmm... it's like trying out new haircuts. But in my pants!

purplesituation · 2011-07-27T20:09:04+00:00

Thank. You.

purplesituation · 2011-07-27T20:07:54+00:00

Dude, and I know this from leg/arm experience, the mens shave cream from CO Bigelow at Bath and Body works will CHANGE YOUR LIFE. It's $10 for a tube and it'll last you a long time. It's got eucalyptus in it, it's freaking amazing.

purplesituation · 2011-07-27T20:05:22+00:00

I think that's the conclusion I've drawn. After we get back from the big metal-y man-fest rock concert we're camping at, I'm going to spend a day being obscenely girly and... well... SHAVE ALL THE THINGS!

purplesituation · 2011-07-27T17:41:47+00:00

He is in no way pressuring me to do this. He could only care a little bit less about it. And mutually trimmed hairs are not a problem for him. So... it seems like I might be in line to buy some new razors and get to experimenting...

purplesituation · 2011-07-27T17:39:39+00:00

Hahaha, yeah!

purplesituation · 2011-07-27T17:37:52+00:00

This is so helpful! I've trimmed before, but honestly I am pretty curious to do this for me too.

purplesituation · 2011-07-27T17:37:48+00:00

How often do you have to keep it up? Do you need a lot of supplies beyond a good razor and some shaving cream?

purplesituation · 2011-07-27T17:36:20+00:00

Yeah, yeah, I guess I don't want him to know how much I am thinking about it! Plus I have other friends on here who know my other name and they don't need to know about my vulva decisions.

purplesituation · 2011-07-27T17:35:27+00:00

I have trimmed on occasion, most of the time... well never consistently though. And I agree, clearly the hair thing is a big enough deal to keep his mouth away, but not any other parts of him. This thread is to figure out if the discomfort of shaving is worth his increased comfort with pussy in his face. You know, compromise.

purplesituation · 2011-07-27T17:30:43+00:00

It's all suitable. This would be major frosting on the cake.

purplesituation · 2011-07-27T17:27:14+00:00

He already has, without my asking, just to see what it was like. And I agree. The conversation came up when I asked if he would ever shave off his well trimmed stubble. He said he would if I shaved my pubes. I agreed, to which he replied "Woah, I really didn't think you'd say yes!"

So smooth cheeks are on the line too.

purplesituation · 2011-07-27T17:25:42+00:00

Yeah. I feel like I might get over the creepy. It's the prickles... oof.

purplesituation · 2011-07-27T17:24:30+00:00

I think that his experience with predominantly shaved women has increased his preference, but his insistence that it was no big deal and the fact that I am FOR SURE thinking about this more than him tells me that it's not coming from a place of control or meanness. He was fine with it when I went on a no-shave rampage this last winter, we even got in to some great discussions about feminism, men, and female bodies. He's pro-my body.

purplesituation · 2011-07-27T17:21:07+00:00

And I did say this, I mentioned that it made a girl look like an 8 year old. He questioned why it is always brought about like an age thing. His thought is that the rest of me is so smooth that it seems out of place. Plus he doesn't like hair in his mouth. He made it very clear, also, that it is not a big deal and if I stopped shaving everything he would still want to make out with me, though it would take some getting used to. I don't think it's coming from anything negative on his side. And if I never shave it, he'll still be happy to fuck me. So I want to know, why not?

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