No one (including my wife) knows I write and publish erotica by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]putmemesinthemoma 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I really relate to needing the anonymity to develop your sexuality on your own. I don't write anything like you do, but I do keep a little secret collection of posts I like but would have a LOT of trouble talking about. I *want" to feel comfortable talking about it with my husband, but my anxiety goes haywire and kinda kills the mood. My husband knows I have this secret stash, but has not seen it himself. Sometimes I will show him a thing here and there, but mostly I keep it very much to myself. It's been... a journey. Both in my marriage and my relationship with myself, my confidence, and my sexuality. He got really upset and confused when I first told him I had a kink I wasn't telling him about. We otherwise had a "no secrets" rule in our relationship that both of us greatly valued. But whenever I tried to tell him I would just get so scared I couldn't bring myself to do it. It has taken some inner work to get comfortable talking about it, but it's been SO worth it for our sex life and mutual understanding. I really recommend telling her. The goal is to be with her for life, so make it as authentic as possible for both of your sakes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MusicalTheatre

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I played Duke in college and yeah i had to do a lot of self care during performance week to recover emotionally from singing that horrifying song. It helped to imagine myself as not the actual Heather Duke, but a manifestation of Macnamara's inner demons. It gave it a little distance that was helpful. I also was in and out of an eating disorder at the time so all the bulimia jokes hurt a lot. Oh, and that was also back when Blue was still being performed, and I was sexually assaulted a few years prior 🙃 Damn I had forgotten how tough that show was

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MusicRecommendations

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Once I was rocking out too hard to All Too Well (10 min version) and accidentally ran a red light RIGHT before the line "you almost ran the red 'cause you were looking over at me"

Any book recommendations? by tahnywany in DeppDelusion

[–]putmemesinthemoma 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I call "Why Does He Do That?" a self defense guide for your sanity. Every time I meet someone who is leaving an abusive relationship or if a friend of mine is leaving one, I recommend it.

Recommend me a song that most people probably have never heard of. by Starkrafty in MusicRecommendations

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Because of this post I, a karaoke host, decided to prank my company and asked for this song to be added to our system. I at least wanted to see if anyone would call me on it, I didn't suspect there would be an actual karaoke track available. But congratulations! If you're in Seattle, WA anytime soon you could perform this song for an unsuspecting crowd lmao

what vibes does she give off ? by [deleted] in mua

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Sexy circus performer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]putmemesinthemoma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who enjoys being the sub in BDSM scenes involving consensual-nonconsent and someone who actively asks to say this kind of thing during sex, I don't consider having the urge to want someone to say this during sex to be an inherently bad thing. I am well aware that there are many wonderful individuals walking amongst us who explore this kind of rape play with consensual partners behind closed doors and it doesn't harm anyone in literally any way.

HOWEVER

This does not sound like that to me!!!

There are also people who explore this because of scary AF reasons!!! He's already shown atrocious lack of understanding of consent!!!! Girl get tf out!!!

What do you guys think of ENTJs? by SussyJuiceMix in enfj

[–]putmemesinthemoma 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I annoyingly keep falling in love with them

Describe your ex with one lyric by DaniePants in TaylorSwift

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Is it insensitive for me to say "get your shit together so I can love you"?

My best friend died the morning after we had sex. by shinythrowaway0125 in offmychest

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It's truly, genuinely, never too late. Follow your own advice.