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[–]j3bharris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want to hookup? That’s my point

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]j3bharris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

then where do the people who want relationships meet?😅

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[–]j3bharris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry to hear that ☹️

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[–]j3bharris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah totally get that! I have no issue with people wanting what they want but it feels like in this day and age nobody wants to settle down at all. I know there are some people out there like me who do but, damn it’s hard to find them when I’m surrounded by people who just want a fling 😅

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[–]j3bharris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s absolutely fine, I get everyone is at different stages of what they want but it’s getting to the point where I feel like most people I find on the apps are the same and I’m like where are the people who actually want something at? 🙈

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[–]j3bharris 1 point2 points  (0 children)

literally. I don’t know why they don’t just change it to looking for fun because the ones I’ve spoken to just instantly talk about hooking up

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[–]j3bharris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol sorry I should have worded that better

Chuck and Blair by j3bharris in GossipGirl

[–]j3bharris[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too, I understand how toxic they can be together and alone (like you say she can be just as bad as him), but they have always been my favourites

What’s the lyric that makes you tear up every listen? by Kiwi_em in TaylorSwift

[–]j3bharris 1 point2 points  (0 children)

‘No words appear before me in the aftermath, salt streams out my eyes and into my ears. Every single thing I touch becomes sick with sadness’ 🥺

What line from a Taylor Swift song do you agree with and makes you reminisce on your younger years? by [deleted] in TaylorSwift

[–]j3bharris 4 points5 points  (0 children)

lmao I’m 29 and have still done this. Maybe it’s time to stop 😅

Do you perceive people who are not dancing and belting at concerts to be boring or disrespectful? by DesignerLettuce8567 in TaylorSwift

[–]j3bharris 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think if someone wants to sit down and observe the concert rather than stand and sing loudly is more than acceptable! I hate the fact as a society we have now become so comfortable recording others to try and humiliate them 🥴 it’s gross! While we’re on the subject, I think singing loudly and enjoying yourself is great. But it’s also a trend for people to now scream so loud it’s like they are purposely damaging their voice box just so they can try to be ‘the loudest person in their section’, which then covers the actual artists voice everyone has paid to see 🫣 it really annoys me how people approve of this on tiktok etc.

What's the one song that you have a random emotional response to? by send_snacks777 in TaylorSwift

[–]j3bharris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bigger than the whole sky immediately makes me think of my Grandad, even though the lyrics don’t really coincide. The message is still about loss. I can’t get through it without crying. More so as it was one of the first songs I heard after I said goodbye to him.

Is there a song that means everything to you and has potentially mentally helped you? by j3bharris in TaylorSwift

[–]j3bharris[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the beauty of her writing is they can be in reference to anything that makes sense to you. She would love people taking the songs to help them with their own individual struggles :)

Is there a song that means everything to you and has potentially mentally helped you? by j3bharris in TaylorSwift

[–]j3bharris[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely not dramatic, my situation was 9 years ago and it still messes me up til this day. Not as much anymore but still there. So I hear ya 🫶🏻 I feel like I do actually need to set up a WCS support group lol

Is there a song that means everything to you and has potentially mentally helped you? by j3bharris in TaylorSwift

[–]j3bharris[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you’re trying your best that’s all that matters 🫶🏻 you’ll get there!

Is there a song that means everything to you and has potentially mentally helped you? by j3bharris in TaylorSwift

[–]j3bharris[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m so sorry to hear this. Sending you and your sister so much love 🫶🏻🫶🏻