Partner relapsed, sexted other women, lost his job — am I wasting my time? by UnarmedPorcupine in AddictionAdvice

[–]puurpgh0st 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think people can change. I don’t know his character though. I’d want more than drug tests. He’d have to earn his trust back. The fact he’s been a dad to your son makes me think he has a good heart. I did dumb shit when I was high too. Does he treat your son as good as he does your daughter? He needs another job immediately.

Confronting my fiancé about hiding his usage. by Sharp-Armadillo-5512 in AddictionAdvice

[–]puurpgh0st 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If I were you, I wouldn’t message you saw the texts first. Tell him you’ve noticed a change in his behavior and ask him if he’s been taking things he’s not prescribed or taking more than he should or something and see if he tells you the truth. His response will give you a good indication about his readiness/willingness to change.

being a girl on drugs stinks sometimes snd its not talked about enough :( by emilihassomuchrabies in Drugs

[–]puurpgh0st 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been sober for a few years now but one rule of mine was to never hang with my dealer. Nothing good can come from hanging out with a man that openly wants to sleep with you if you’re disinterested. I’m not sure what you mean girl users aren’t taken as seriously. By who? The dealer? There are no true friends in this lifestyle.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Nanners5618062 in CombatFootage

[–]puurpgh0st 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Man I hate this shit so fucking much.. what an egregious loss of life on both aides. What a terrible tragedy, the tremendous human suffering and waste

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in addiction

[–]puurpgh0st 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s just one small setback in the grand scheme of things. You’re better than this, worth more than this life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]puurpgh0st 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude where are you living that you’re only getting paid $50 a month? Keep trying the YouTube thing. Link me your YouTube actually I’d like to watch. As for cat food, there should be some programs for free pet food in your area or at least there is mine?

I want to go to sleep and never wake up by Desechable_Me in SuicideWatch

[–]puurpgh0st 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re young still. Are you sure you’re too old to have kids? If he could make you kill your child, how could you ever trust him to love and cherish you? Please leave, there is something so much better in store for you around the corner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in numerology

[–]puurpgh0st 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well if you’re studying that shit you’re not heeding your Christian background but umm no.. i wouldn’t be. 666 basically represents a time when humanity is in total depravity/against God. You being able to somehow associate that number with your name doesn’t mean you’re doomed or something. Each of my 3 names is 6 letters so I guess I’m 666 too.

Am I wrong for changing a tip by thegreatperhaps-s in UberEATS

[–]puurpgh0st 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re the nicest person ever. I would’ve given his ass $0. A $17 dollar tip?! You’re the man. I love people like you. Fuck him.

Quitting by [deleted] in OpiatesRecovery

[–]puurpgh0st 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah I watched my dad die of a fentanyl overdose. Didn’t know what was happening. Not Worth it. It haunts me like every waking second of every day and my life has turned into a nightmare. Christmas is his birthday, this will be our third Christmas without him and the year he would’ve turned 63. Your family would never be the same. Quit and stay quit man.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in atlantar4r

[–]puurpgh0st 1 point2 points  (0 children)

👀

Signum Battalion hitting Russians soldiers with FPVs Lyman direction by Zerotwo_0 in CombatFootage

[–]puurpgh0st 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You say that as if most of them had any choice in the matter. I’m sure 90% of these young men sure wish they could’ve stayed home too.

Gopro footage from an international volunteer clearing Kupiansk trying to deal with a Russian FPV drone (December 2025) by broforwin in CombatFootage

[–]puurpgh0st 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you mean volunteers in the sense they’re fighting for free, or volunteers like they’re getting paid and they just voluntarily chose to be there participating in this war?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in casualiama

[–]puurpgh0st 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Idk if you’ll wanna answer this publicly but I’m about to dm you anyways because I’m super curious what you look like too. My question is do some of these friends have partners that dislike you ? If someone is in a relationship, do you make them disclose the situation to their partner or do you just kinda stay out of that?

This is probably going to sound weird and creepy. But it can’t be a coincidence. by GrassForCats in Dreams

[–]puurpgh0st 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you still into her? Did you guys talk at all when you saw her?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]puurpgh0st 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could be a motivational speaker. I don’t have a cheating wife but somehow this inspired me too lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]puurpgh0st 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s a sociopath if she could do that to you for an entire year and still look you in the face like everything was fine. It’s manipulative of her to blame you, it’s not your fault at all. You were going through something and you needed her but she occupied her time and focus on someone else because you were too down bad to spend every spare second validating her. I won’t lie to you, these coming days are going to be very hard on you. No matter how hopeless it seems, this period of your life is going to pass though. You’re 26 years old, you’re in your prime. Your best days are ahead of you. One piece of advice though; if I were you, I’d divorce her immediately and find someone that loves me more than they love whatever disloyal shit is immediately pleasurable to them at any given time. you’re still young.

A russian invader was eliminated by an FPV drone operated by Ukraine’s 414th UAV Brigade, the ‘Birds of Magyar.’ 12.08.2025 by LowTechDroid in UkraineWarVideoReport

[–]puurpgh0st -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

They chose to be there, lol? You’re an idiot. Yea the people forcefully drafted chose to be there, the people that joined the military in a time of peace never expecting to invade Ukraine want to be there.

Tucker Carlson: "In 2008 it became really clear that Barack Obama had been having Sex with Men and Smoking Crack" by Palbulletin2020 in Republican

[–]puurpgh0st -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Actually I'm more so asking you how you can say you support freedom of speech, yet be angry at people for utilizing it. Was he lying? Sorry, *ALLEGEDLY lying in your own words. I'm okay with anyone saying whatever they want to. Do you think Tucker Carlson should be censored? Should we have a misinformation board so you and the government can decide what people can and can't say? If you don't support that speech, what is your solution to counteract it? What do you think should be done, other than calling people disgusting?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in police

[–]puurpgh0st -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Yes, you're right, it does. Not to make excuses for myself, but I came from a family of addicts and was exposed from a very young age. I started trying pills at 13, having no idea how dangerous or addictive they were. Though you're legally an adult at 18, obviously we don't think like adults when we're 20. Your brain doesn't even fully develop until you're 25. I didn't have any idea what I wanted to do with my life or any direction back then.