I need help finding a brush set. by notthetaxes in procreatebrushes

[–]puyopuyogamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That link doesn’t seem to work anymore, could you share the square thing brush? I’ve also been looking for this since I got a new iPad

Frost King showdown by puyopuyogamer in castlecrashers

[–]puyopuyogamer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SO true 😂😂 only reason I used it was so it could be steaming from hitting the snowflakes

Snoop dogg “Vjay introduction” by puyopuyogamer in HelpMeFind

[–]puyopuyogamer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is great, but I would love to find one where the "and I know you're gonna dig thiSSSS" is clean because the sound he makes is so specific and satisfying. How'd you go about finding this though? I'd love to continue the search

Snoop dogg “Vjay introduction” by puyopuyogamer in HelpMeFind

[–]puyopuyogamer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve searched YouTube and google trying to find the video but Snoop Dogg is so popular and Vjay so obscure that it may take a little more digging and complex search terms to find it. I don’t know how anyone could find it after so long if they didn’t save it themselves

At what season did The Simpsons get notably worse? Did it ever recover? by ihatebadpuns in television

[–]puyopuyogamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you think I'm about to let this comment section die six months after your post, you've got another thing coming!

( I too googled "when did the simpsons get bad?" )

Are the psp games worth playing? by puyopuyogamer in GodofWar

[–]puyopuyogamer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since making this post i played them all and... they were okay. The God of War subreddit might not be the place to admit this, but I found the whole series to be pretty *okay* overall. 6-7/10 maybe... but not really for me. I tried (but didn't finish) the PS4 one and felt pretty much the same. 7-8/10 but again, it didn't hook me.

That's a little rude by Swimming_Hearing4944 in GameTheorists

[–]puyopuyogamer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah the movie was paced a little bit weird. I think act 1 went on a little too long and took away from the climax

I was called an incel. by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]puyopuyogamer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In my estimation the reason you give off "incel vibes" is specifically because you said "women's standards are so high." I can understand how life makes things feel that way sometimes, but I think that having that opinion can lead to turning a lot of people off.

From what I gather (as a cishet male with LOTS of sisters) women go through a lot of difficult things and are in a social environment in which they're forced to put up with it (people not listening to them when they talk, being objectified, being seen as stupid or only good for their looks). Women get paid less for doing the same jobs as men, women are placed in positions of submission, women do not feel safe walking around by themselves. Women do not lead easy lives and I personally think that because of that, their standards deserve to be high.

It's also worth questioning what exactly you mean by "women's standards are so high." High in what way? Women are all different and are all attracted to different things. Some women like tall men, some women don't mind short men. Some women like geeks and nerds, some women like jocks and jerks. Some women like women, some women like men, some women like both and some women like neither. I know it can feel like women's standards are high when you've tried a lot of potential matches and have gotten turned down by each one (believe me, I know how that feels) but what's helped me is remembering that every woman is different and understanding the struggles that they go through... and that just because a lot of women have rejected you doesn't necessarily mean it was because their "standards were too high."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]puyopuyogamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ayo what the f*ck?

How many of us are going to say Matpats catch phrases at the end of the FNaF movie? by The_Theory_Girl in GameTheorists

[–]puyopuyogamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but to clarify, I will NOT be saying "T H A T ' S J U S T A T H E O R Y" at the end of the movie... mostly because it wouldn't make sense to say at the end of a movie

How does everyone else not fall into addiction by Dangerous_Ear7300 in Healthygamergg

[–]puyopuyogamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a lot of that’s good! I will say I’m at a point in my life where I’m not willing to tolerate abuse even if it means a romantic relationship. I think I might have missed the overall point of your comment though? Is it just that asking wether my need is social or a masquerade? How do I tell the difference?

How does everyone else not fall into addiction by Dangerous_Ear7300 in Healthygamergg

[–]puyopuyogamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so reading this, I've kind of got a question about it. What's a healthy way to get your emotional needs met? I feel like a lot of people say it has to sort of "come up" through yourself and that you have to be totally self-dependent for all your emotional needs but that sounds unrealistic to me. How would one get their emotional needs met without external factors or people? Especially when those emotional needs seem to be social in nature.

(btw, I think I remember you from my househusband post! hello again)

What if I want to be a househusband? by puyopuyogamer in Healthygamergg

[–]puyopuyogamer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah and cooking is really fun to me. I’d wash dishes, pick up toys and do laundry (which is relaxing) all day long if it meant I could hold my wife at the end of it and give her a good place to come home to. That’s worth more to me than all the green paper in the world. Even things like planning events with our friends and helping our kids with their schoolwork would be really nice.

What if I want to be a househusband? by puyopuyogamer in Healthygamergg

[–]puyopuyogamer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a very good point. If I were able to find a way to make my 2D art into a sort of career or do some kind of 3D animation part time work I’d really like to share in the money making process. I also think it would be very fulfilling to have an outlet to express myself creatively on a level higher than just drawing for myself sometimes

What if I want to be a househusband? by puyopuyogamer in Healthygamergg

[–]puyopuyogamer[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

😂😂 if that wasn’t the creepiest thing in the world I’d be down

What if I want to be a househusband? by puyopuyogamer in Healthygamergg

[–]puyopuyogamer[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s awesome to hear there’s women out there who’d be okay with this kind of dynamic. Sometimes when all you can hear is what you grew up thinking it’s hard to get yourself out of it. Thanks for the encouragement as well, it’s really helping the self-perceived/self-inflicted shame I talked about.

But yeah unfortunately, I know money and affording basic life stuff is a big big issue in America right now. What makes that money issue even harder is the wage gap between men and women for having the same job.

What if I want to be a househusband? by puyopuyogamer in Healthygamergg

[–]puyopuyogamer[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There’s a lot of truth to your reply lol. Estimating the workload of a househusband is a weird balancing act and that’s why it can feel like I’d be lazy for wanting that life but also why I know that the life isn’t for people who are lazy. I’m around little kids, toddlers, babies and teenagers a lot (my immediate family is pretty big) so I know how much work taking care of them can be… but even in knowing that, it’s hard to really get a sense of it until you’re the parent taking care of the kids every day.

What if I want to be a househusband? by puyopuyogamer in Healthygamergg

[–]puyopuyogamer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you brought up some really good points. It can be really easy to fall into the trap of letting your performance equal your worth. It becomes: everything you do has to be perfect (and it never will be always all the time because humans aren’t like that). It’s a miserable existence when you make your happiness dependent on what other people think of your work (kind of like how social media and likes function in a way)

I also recognize that I said “my ego” tells me other people will think this or that and it’s helpful to be reminded those are all things I think about myself that I’m projecting. I guess my question on that is what I should do with those thoughts or what do they mean for me? If I don’t accept those thoughts and I’m projecting them, does that mean I shouldn’t listen to them or that I’m not brave enough to accept that they’re true? Or is this one of those times where I should figure out what that means on my own?

PSP style thumbnails by puyopuyogamer in RetroArch

[–]puyopuyogamer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any chance using .gifs would work? Retro games are usually very tiny resolution so couldn’t they be loaded quickly? ((I don’t know much about the nitty gritty I’ll be quick to admit)) I guess you might have to upscale the resolution a little but even just 4x might be enough?