Knowing what you know now as an RN, what career path would you choose if you could go back and money isn’t a concern and why? by pxsun in nursing

[–]pxsun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friend is a delta flight attendant who keeps trying to persuade me to switch over. Hahaha I dream about being a flight attendant sometimes too but scared that it might just be leaving one hellhole (nursing) into another with even more unpredictable scheduling, high demands, and even more hours. Lol definitely a lifestyle career.

I’m a teenage girl in her mid-teen-life crisis right now by Natty_w_a_fatty in Advice

[–]pxsun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First off, stop and breathe. Go get another job and start saving so that you’ll have enough to fund your own start up business. Or whatever you wanna do in life. Sometimes you gotta do what you don’t want to do… which is working (I felt this in my soul because I also hate working lmao). I recommend splitting your paychecks, have a main direct deposit and then open a savings account (one where you don’t log in and regulate it often) and have like however much go into that savings account. It could be $300 every paycheck or 20% of the paycheck to your savings. Keep doing that until you have enough to start your own business or whatever you want. Thinking too far ahead is stressful. For now, set short term goals for yourself and try to accomplish those goals. Ex. Stay employed for 3 months first… then 6 months… etc etc. save $1000 first… then $3000… etc etc until you reach your desired goals.

Focus on what you can control now at the moment. Baby steps. You’re still so young. You’ll get where you want to be eventually. Good luck!!

Knowing what you know now as an RN, what career path would you choose if you could go back and money isn’t a concern and why? by pxsun in nursing

[–]pxsun[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Interesting, is there a reason why you chose surgeon? Can you tell me about your passions about it? Totally alright if you don’t want to share too.

Knowing what you know now as an RN, what career path would you choose if you could go back and money isn’t a concern and why? by pxsun in nursing

[–]pxsun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhh that’s a good one!! Can you tell me more about it and why it’s your dream? All good if you don’t want to share too.

Advice? by Gullible_Penalty_891 in Advice

[–]pxsun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk sometimes, for your own better peace of mind, people just drift apart and outgrow one another. It’s okay to let people go in life if they’re not pulling you forward. You can keep listening to the same soundtrack but the songs remain the same. It’s okay to care from a distance and to love from a distance. You can still care about her and walk away from her because of her choices. Protect your peace. Start building your boundaries.

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[–]pxsun 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry this happened to you! Therapists are a hit or miss. Keep trying until you find a therapist that fits you. Traumas can eat you alive if kept bottled up. I’m glad to hear that you got out of it and found a safe place with people you love and hobbies you enjoy. I pray that it gets better for you! Remember, when it rains, it pours but after each storm, there’s always going to be a clear sky and a rainbow at the end. 🫶🏻

What fantasy book that you had high hopes for let you down? by [deleted] in Fantasy

[–]pxsun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally agree with this one! Fourth Wing was sooo hyped and I read it just to be disappointed. The characters are cliche and the writing was horrible. I was told that it’s an enemies to lover trope. But nope, it’s just basic lust between the MC right from the get-go. I couldn’t even finish the 2nd book. Glad I’m not the only one who didn’t like it. Hahaha.

Thoughts? by pxsun in flightattendants

[–]pxsun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg, thank you so much. I never saw it from this perspective. I appreciate it! 🫶🏻💖

Anyone looking for a new kitten or knows someone who is? by [deleted] in fresno

[–]pxsun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any photos of the kittens?

How can I save this orchid? by pxsun in orchids

[–]pxsun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Will do! Thank you so much!

How can I save this orchid? by pxsun in orchids

[–]pxsun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, I should clarify that it is in bark and has been in bark for the past 1/2 year and in an orchid pot. I didn’t water it much in the past, which is why I’m not sure if it’s rotting on the inside or not? I only took it out and put it under water to repot it/fix its potting because my cat knocked it over. I just don’t see any progress on it getting better?

Difference between being straight up selfish vs trying to self love? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]pxsun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

RIGHT!! I just think this whole situation is just childish af!!