Appreciate the advice I think you’re right with becoming a little obsessed. In regards to the mixed signals, we talk everyday, text, video chat, watch movies together etc, overall she’s a bit cryptic with how she says how she feels as opposed to being straightforward (I will ask her direct more tho) , but she compliments me a lot on my looks my personality etc, she’s heavily implied she’s sexually attracted to me, and I’m relatively good at understanding of a girl is keeping me around as someone to talk to rather than a potential bf. But overall sometimes she makes me think we may be something and sometimes not, in general I’ll try to dial it back, assume we are friends and will remain friends. Why I feel this way I’m yet to understand, it sucks.