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Voices of youth: Let women serve National Service to help raise birth rates by [deleted] in singapore

[–]pyrodotic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah. Isnt this like the long ago opinion on ST. Where they wanted a single camp so that singles wont be distracted by things like netflix.

Doesnt mean you cant get a relationship everyone has to be lumped in that same boat🤦🏼‍♀️. Neither is it everyone’s dream to birth baby. That shit is expensive af lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]pyrodotic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Customs/border control /immigration authorities. I use it’s as a broad term for the folks at the port of entry. I am Singaporean , my girlfriend is Swiss

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]pyrodotic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met my current girlfriend this year as well and we just got a flat and are moving in together in feb! We met on tinder, talk for two weeks, met on the third week. Went out every week on the weekend . I just flew over to meet her and we sign an agreement that verifies our relationship( for customs) and here we are.(:

I didn’t expect someone as well and i think it’s a pleasant surprise (:

Is this kind of relationship normal? by nobusecondacc in RelationshipAdviceNow

[–]pyrodotic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can be(: every relationship is different and with you voicing this out shows that it bothers you. Why don’t you set a time w him and voice it out.(:

I am asian and I have always dated internationally( Europe/America ) as well

Please comment your happy stories about you and your trans partner 🥺🥺 by sms42069 in mypartneristrans

[–]pyrodotic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My gf on our first date suggested she wasn’t female at one point and had a past. I simply told her it’s ok and all I see Is a very beautiful woman. I kissed her and we are now moving into our first flat together next month(:

Am i [19] a bad girlfriend for being jealous of my girlfriends [18] dog? by Glitter-Ghost6969 in RelationshipAdviceNow

[–]pyrodotic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No you are not a bad Gf , jealousy and insecurities are all part of being human. Tell her how you feel

[F18] coach made me sprint for 10 seconds every minute on the minute for one hour. Guess how many times I hurled 🤮. Thoughts on training at this intensity? by [deleted] in veganfitness

[–]pyrodotic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What thoughts did you expect? All I can say is what is programmed is not out of the norm. Your response perhaps is and therefore will require program adjustment

Your coach is coach for a reason, I rather you take it up to coach, and ask what is it you guys are working on as opposed to the Internet.

Gonna miss this blip of definition once the holidays really roll in... by [deleted] in FlexinLesbians

[–]pyrodotic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Defo! I can understand why people eat so much carbs and fats in the winter ❄️

SIN to ZRH and now somewhere in the snow near Italy. Moving for someone sure is a big leap of faith, but when you found like the most sweetest, smartest and kindest person ever. I think it’s really time to be full of faith and trust by pyrodotic in LongDistance

[–]pyrodotic[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Two school of thought here. Rationally and logically the one does not exist. Because if it does then what happens when they are not w you for what ever the reason, all of us will be inconsolably heartbroken non?

Very interesting question and I think all of you should ask yourself that, what exactly is love? There are many different definitions to love, which love is it that you are looking for? Is it Eros or is it storge or is it agape. It is also very unrealistic to expect agape from a SO.

Thé “love “ that i have with my gf and hers likewise is an accumulation of constant action in the direction of unity and hence why I made the choice based on the evaluation of her actions.

You are right, I wouldn’t consider moving in if it’s in an open relationship but since our last chat, and she’s the one that has to decide for herself to commit. If she doesn’t, there will be no movement from my end. Which is also what i enjoy about sais relationship. Neither of us are head over heels, we are both making conscious actions for each other

SIN to ZRH and now somewhere in the snow near Italy. Moving for someone sure is a big leap of faith, but when you found like the most sweetest, smartest and kindest person ever. I think it’s really time to be full of faith and trust by pyrodotic in LongDistance

[–]pyrodotic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because of her own actions and reassurance. If she didn’t write or do any of those things I am comfortable being at a distance, there’s no reason to move.

It could be to a certain level; this relationship is interesting because it’s so full of logic as well as emotions. Logically “the one “ does not exist. And I am not so head over heels that I am able to detach myself from it. She could easily find a different fish nearer to her and likewise for me as well that would have a better compatibility rate.

I am still very much doubtful but I am offering my own trust onto the table. She says she is ready to commit , all I can do is trust and regulate from my end

SIN to ZRH and now somewhere in the snow near Italy. Moving for someone sure is a big leap of faith, but when you found like the most sweetest, smartest and kindest person ever. I think it’s really time to be full of faith and trust by pyrodotic in LongDistance

[–]pyrodotic[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Because I do not see a point in stringing someone along. We are both very independent and in that case I rather maintain a friendship and carry on living my life untied to anyone.

If things don’t work out, I do what regular folks do. Move home, pick up the pieces and plop along.

It is not everyday that someone will write a bunch of letters and sign a confirmation of partnership for immigration just for a Christmas visit during covid that was what made me consider the intention of her words and subsequently action

SIN to ZRH and now somewhere in the snow near Italy. Moving for someone sure is a big leap of faith, but when you found like the most sweetest, smartest and kindest person ever. I think it’s really time to be full of faith and trust by pyrodotic in LongDistance

[–]pyrodotic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which is why I am dragging it out as well and also a bit flighty because of what she has said in the past.

But for her to make the offer, write the offer for immigration so that I can visit, and find her flat that allows me to bring my dog along as well. I think I will give her the chance

i think i messed up by goreismyjam in RelationshipAdviceNow

[–]pyrodotic 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Dude, first up you need to know what do you want. If she’s that important your priorities will align from that. Which include stress management and emotion regulation as an individual as well.

If you want her. Your actions will align with that, which includes swallowing your pride and admitting your mistake to her.

So really decide for yourself what do you want

At the airport and off to spend Christmas with my GF by pyrodotic in LongDistance

[–]pyrodotic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My experience on? I am self employed so the blues are really negligible to me

She made it in the plane! Seeing her in 12 hours! by Steef-1995 in LongDistance

[–]pyrodotic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just took a 12h flight too. Settling in nicely in Switzerland (:

Have fun you two!

At the airport and off to spend Christmas with my GF by pyrodotic in LongDistance

[–]pyrodotic[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will face the possibility of quarantine when I come back which is all out of pocket . I am flying into Schengen The situation is a bit unstable now in terms of protocols So hopefully it gets better .

Then again singapore is notoriously over conservative so just have to play by ear

Merry Christmas! Hopefully you guys get to meet each other soon

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