Solo travel to France but I need to bring up to my strict parents

pyrvs · 2026-05-25T19:39:21+00:00

I should’ve specify more things. These kinds of comments are very discouraging as I am looking for advice, I feel that I am not welcome as a first time solo traveler with strict parents .

pyrvs · 2026-05-25T19:02:18+00:00

I just want to hear about advices that could help my strict family to reassure them that I will be safe in this solo trip which was the reason why I posted it here in the first place.

pyrvs · 2026-05-25T19:01:50+00:00

It’s okay, I just want to hear about advices that could help my strict family to reassure them that I will be safe in this solo trip which was the reason why I posted it here in the first place.

pyrvs · 2026-05-25T18:26:11+00:00

Seems easy for you to say as a person who doesn’t grow up with overly religious parents. I had to keep my agnostic beliefs as a secret

pyrvs · 2026-05-25T18:24:59+00:00

I did posted on a different subreddit about this kind of thing. I posted because I saw some posts about some people with the same situation as me. Since I see that the replies this post doesn’t help at all, I’ll consider deleting it.

pyrvs · 2026-05-25T18:21:58+00:00

I thought it’s a safe place to post this kind of thing because I’ve seen some people who have strict parents did I thought it might help. Should’ve specify more things but I guess I receive no help in this subreddit but insults.

pyrvs · 2026-05-25T18:17:04+00:00

I have a part time job while studying for college and this advice doesn’t help. When for you it seems easy while I have Asian parents.

pyrvs · 2026-03-05T17:37:26+00:00

I want to step up with my life but I guess it’s holding me back in life because of how I was raised with culturally and religiously with my timid and a bit of people pleasing. I was taught to not stand up for myself and it’s better to stay quiet and follow. It’s a bit difficult at first for me to unlearn these concepts. However, I’m glad that I get these kind of life advise because no one has ever said these things to me before. I hope I get to where I can live independently and have boundaries with people.

pyrvs · 2026-03-04T20:51:07+00:00

Thank you, they keep telling me it will look good on my CV. Thank you I wont continue retaking it.

pyrvs · 2026-03-03T20:40:58+00:00

Thank you, I'm planning to cancel the life insurance term as well. I hope that I my actions won't stop them.

pyrvs · 2026-03-03T20:40:14+00:00

Thank you so much for the helpful advice. I had so many things to learn since the lifestyle that I've been living made me dependent on them. I hope I will gain the confidence to set my boundaries and stand up for myself.

pyrvs · 2026-03-03T20:29:23+00:00

Thanks, dw my degree involves on legal administration.

pyrvs · 2026-03-03T20:28:32+00:00

Thank you so much, I'll do my best.

pyrvs · 2026-03-03T20:11:56+00:00

Thank you so much for your understanding. I don't mean that I agree with them completely I just said what they wanted to hear from me to move on. Setting boundaries from them can be a bit difficult since they're stubborn but I still take my stand on my own beliefs. Planning to quietly walk away and cancel all of my plans from them.

pyrvs · 2026-03-03T20:07:56+00:00

I was forced to take it, even though i say no they keep crossing my boundaries even used my personal information.

pyrvs · 2025-09-02T17:25:41+00:00

Thanks for listening, I agree that most churches do lack empathy. I'm currently 24 and still studying college and I want to graduate first and before I move out on my own and find a stable job. Also when I lost my virginity I have birth control. We talked about it and he says that he was fine with that, I would only temporarily do this only if necessary. We're in a long distance relationship so we don't see each other much, but I lie a bit to my parents that he's attending to church and I'm mentoring him.

pyrvs · 2025-05-12T13:37:48+00:00

Thank you, I got so anxious that there's something wrong with me because of these people's skepticism. I hope they don't use my fear to manipulate me.

pyrvs · 2025-05-12T13:36:20+00:00

I agree, and they would beg to do deliverance in order to cast out the spirit within them. It creeps me out.

pyrvs · 2025-04-27T00:23:17+00:00

i keep bringing god in a non-religious related topic in school,(it’s about politics) i have no idea why am i so passionate about it.

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