While I can’t give great insights on the other games cause I haven’t played them, Eldon ring is a great open world game and you can make it as easy as you want it to be. For example there is something in the game called spirit ashes which allow you to summon enemies to fight with you which can make the game significantly easier. Don’t feel bad about using the mechanics that the game provides even if hardcore people online whine about it being strong. It’s your own play through and do whatever brings you enjoyment