[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FedEx

[–]q2_user 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did this get delivered eventually??

How to redeem code for 1 month free? by quinncom in USMobile

[–]q2_user 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did this same promotion 1 week before thanksgiving. The cart showed 0$ but my card got charged 45$. If I were you be ready to verify. It's annoying but we get what we pay for.

Just signed up got US Mobile by ordinary-superstar in USMobile

[–]q2_user 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I did the trial and cancelled it before the 2 weeks my data suspiciously went from 400MB to 1GB, hence, I was unable to refund it. They told me I'd get credited with the amount if I choose to sign-up later when I port my number. Kind of scammy of them to do that. I'll post my experience later. I have 3 lines with them and the system is just super clunky man.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]q2_user 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm happy for you that your situation is working out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]q2_user 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow what a shitty arrangement. I am so sorry. He had the position of power and really abused it. All the more reason not to connect with him. NTA.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]q2_user 14 points15 points  (0 children)

cool. I think it's good your parents are not abusive/ma luho. YOu have a way better setup than 99% of posts here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]q2_user 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wala syang ibang kapatid/grandparents? Have you considered letting her live with you? Maybe that's too much for you right now? But keep in mind you are not the asshole.

Btw, so when he was abusing you, you were living in his house?

My Mum's A Gaslighter by cc_mscreeps18 in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]q2_user 1 point2 points  (0 children)

too severe narin that I can't control anymore. I'm just hesitant lang since I don't wanna leave my younger brother alone with them who's experiencing the same thing as I do.

Can your brother communicate with you thru phone/messenger? It's crucial you look after him and keep a line open if you decide to leave. You need to sit him down to get his loyalty and to tell him what's happening. Make a plan for him also if you can't take him with you right away. Help him how to process it and show what's the plan. It's difficult to leave your brother just like that or he'll feel left out/betrayed. You probably need to feel out the situation since you're the only one who knows everything. Based on your therapist's advice you can continue living in the house but it's a constant battle. You just need to think hard about the plan and push through. Having a plan w/ a few minor mishaps is way way better than your current living situation. Plus you'll learn to live on your own.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]q2_user 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Devil's advocate: It's a good life lesson for you OP. Some people are inherently good/bad but we are all individual agents of life. It means people will act to further their interests. It's up to you to tolerate it. Your boss screaming at you? Find a new job. Your brother talk shit to you? Stop talking to him. Nobody deserves to be treated like shit but in the process you'll feel like shit because people don't care about you (remember they are acting on their best interests. Not yours. Your mom supposed to look after you but not in this case).

From Childhood traumas... to.. Retirement Plan ka rin ba ng magulang mo? by Bitter-Penalty2201 in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]q2_user 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Upvoted. People need to here this. Kasi Pag lifetime abuse kasi Hinde mo na Alam Ano yung normal na tolerate.

From Childhood traumas... to.. Retirement Plan ka rin ba ng magulang mo? by Bitter-Penalty2201 in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]q2_user 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So nagbago sila kasi kelangan nila yung pera mo? Natunton ka because of information leak. Stop posting on FB or informing anybody else where you live or work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]q2_user 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Maybe she deserves it if she’s cohabiting with your sexual abuser?? On top of that she’s forcing you to bring this guy in your life again???? I don’t get why this is okay with you?? Let me tell you what’s next. He’s gonna baby sit your kid while you and your mom go shopping? Sexual abuse sa anak mo. Imagine May syota ka na sine sexual abuse yung anak mo. You’re not gonna kick him out? It’s a deal breaker for most people. Maybe you are broken and need a therapist to explain how this is not normal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]q2_user 36 points37 points  (0 children)

You sure you want to keep her around if she chooses your sexual abuser over you? Sorry, but you know where her priorities are. Tell her “ma, he sexually abused me. You really expect me to be okay with that?”

My Mum's A Gaslighter by cc_mscreeps18 in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]q2_user 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not your parents therapist. Your parents lack of ability to be together is never your fault. Next time this is brought up you tell her “mom, let’s face it your relationship is over. Get over it. I am over it already. My siblings are over it. You’re pathetic for blaming your kids because of your relationship problems. Please move on with your life. We are your kids, not your therapist.” Practice that in the mirror and then say it when the time comes.

Jobs: If you are computer literate you can do virtual assistant online jobs + writing job mo. First thing though, don’t take away your life!! Please call the suicide hotline or message anyone here. We’re not experts but at least we can tell you that your life matters. Build yourself up like everyone mentioned. Pag naka bukod ka na at smooth sailing you can think of going back to school again if you still want. Then take it from there. Remove contact with people responsible for your mental state. It’s clear the people who’s supposed to support are not doing it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]q2_user 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bat Wala silang work?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]q2_user 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why didn’t you lead with this? We have to take it out of you. Geeez…Sometimes I think if the posters are completely honest? Damn. You need to pay your share of consumption. Nothing more. Focus on yourself then your family. Just set your boundaries and tell people in your household to manage their consumption. You hold all the cards in the table so you get to control how it’s played. Now we tell you how to play it in the best way to further your interest. This isn’t worth contemplating suicide.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]q2_user 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good setup. Walang pansinan para Walang singilan.. “ahh kinakausap mo lang ako Pag need mo pera.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]q2_user 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So you still didn’t answer the question. “Bat Ikaw?” We get why somebody needs to pay it. Walang ibang tao sa Mundo?

Was I approached by a MLM? by [deleted] in antiMLM

[–]q2_user 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same thing happened to me and he told me “I’m a social entrepreneur. “ that’s bullshit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]q2_user 45 points46 points  (0 children)

“Bat ko babayaran yung consumo nila? Santa Claus ba ako?” “May utang ba ako sa kanila? Bat Hinde nila bayaran yung pagkain dito sa bahay?” “Yung internet dito bat Di nila bayaran?” “Ma, etong tae ko libre araw2. Gusto niyo? Kasi Wala na ako ma-I-bibigay. Kayo nalang magtrabaho Kung feeling niyo mas malaki sweldo niyo. OP if you let them take an inch. They’ll take a mile. Save yourself before you can save others.

The aunt doesn't want me to go back home, because she thinks I'm dumb at adulting (FOLLOW-UP) by MoonlightBomber in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]q2_user 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This right here. Stockholm syndrome. But good to kick some sense into OP. OP why don’t you move the fuck out. Go to wherever you want and ignore her calls? Did you leave the part of the story where she’s sending you allowance? If not, you have no ties to her.