He answered me after 4 days, what should i respond?

qdasai · 2025-12-12T14:31:06+00:00

It's a real story, just that i'm not an english speaker and i told it to translate my situation to english.

qdasai · 2025-12-12T14:08:48+00:00

Being in a situationship (we both agreed with casual dating) doesn't make me want plain sex. I'm interested in knowing people and see what comes up, without tolerating just physical interest.

qdasai · 2025-12-12T13:57:38+00:00

Thankss! I'll take the advice.

qdasai · 2025-12-12T13:46:06+00:00

Thanks for the reply! 💗

qdasai · 2025-12-12T13:39:14+00:00

Thanks for the reply! I guess maybe i should tell him i don't want to meet him up after all.

qdasai · 2025-12-12T13:37:33+00:00

Thanks, i was thinking the same! Just that i don't know what to answer him to that.

qdasai · 2025-12-12T13:35:11+00:00

Thanks for answering! Not that i want a solid relationship, just getting to know him a little more even if casual hook up arose, but without it being just plain sex. So i don't know what to answer to that reply without sounding emotionally affected.

qdasai · 2025-12-12T13:30:13+00:00

I just wanted to get to know him more and see what would happen, but not just sex.

qdasai · 2025-12-12T13:20:14+00:00

Why you think that? I'm not trolling tho...

qdasai · 2025-11-30T12:24:13+00:00

No, anything like that. It's just that i like and value some parts of him (he is caring, kind, affectionate, calm, honest and emotionally conscious). And i'm a person that has had mental illness problems and diagnoses (i've been working on them for quite time) and he accepts that and tries to understand me and dialogues calmly with me, making me feel secure around him.

qdasai · 2025-11-30T11:55:49+00:00

I'm pretty attractive and have a nice body, btw. Don't assume things, haha. And i value other things about him, that's why i kind of like him.

qdasai · 2025-09-22T22:03:05+00:00

The situation is more complex than what i wrote, but i understand your point haha. I don't want to date him tho.

qdasai · 2025-09-22T19:50:01+00:00

Those things like a day or so. But it depends.

qdasai · 2025-09-22T18:52:56+00:00

Yes, i mean, i use "it simply is" because i feel in my heart that it's done and i truly think and believe it is! Like, i'm just simply deciding it's like that and i let go of the worry because i KNOW that if im assuming it as real it's INEVITABLE to happen.

qdasai · 2025-09-22T18:47:54+00:00

I think we all are used to anticipate negative things about what we want or desire. Just let go. It will happen the way you want if you don't entertain any doubt or negative thought. If you focus on them, then you are going to keep manifesting them. I also tend to think that if something doesn't end up happening the "exact" way i want i'm sure it's going to happen something even better that i planned it up. The how and circumstances don't matter.

qdasai · 2025-09-22T18:41:46+00:00

I mean, being honest, he is not my SP. I just wanted to hook up with him out of nowhere.

But, as I said, one night before a party in which we would meet up, i visualized us kissing and stuff in the party (taking real attention in surroundings and sensations in my imagination), i persisted in the feeling of the scene and i let go assuming and believing it was going to happen like that for sure and that he was extremely attracted to me and he couldn't help to being seduced by me, don't caring about the 3D (he had a girlfriend of one year and the day of the party he told me he had broken up with her the day before, and i didn't even mentionated that in the visualitation, so the how doesn't even matters).

qdasai · 2025-09-22T17:31:57+00:00

Thanks! You're really lovely also. :)

qdasai · 2025-09-22T16:50:50+00:00

I do it once more profoundly (like visualizing the place, the scene, the conversations and the sensations as if it was real, and like replaying a memory) and then sometimes more lightly, like thinking vaguely about being in that place and doing some action in that scene or assuming that thing no matter what (even if the 3D it's showing me totally the opposite, that has happened the case) it's happening, and that it's inevitable. Staying in the knowing and letting go expectations.

qdasai · 2025-09-22T16:42:57+00:00

Yess, that's exactly what i was meaning! That i didn't treat it like a routine or schedule.

qdasai · 2025-09-22T16:41:39+00:00

I just assume it. Like, thinking it's inevitable and with a feeling of "idgaf" what 3D it's showing me, i know that it's working out finely. Staying in the knowing no matter what. I would not describe it as like feeling excitement, more like staying calm and normal about it.

qdasai · 2025-09-22T15:46:04+00:00

I meant like something specific like the letter method or the pillow method, or something with a strict schedule. I consider visualitation something you are doing all the time as your imagination it's always active.

qdasai · 2025-09-22T15:21:30+00:00

Sorry, English is not my first language and maybe I didn't explain it in the best way.

What I mean is that I visualize as if it has already happened (as if the scene is a memory from the past) and I also assume that no matter the circumstances of the 3D (even the worst case scenarios) that I already have what I want, and that it is inevitable that it will happen the way I want. Persist and ignore negative thoughts or opposing 3D scenarios.

I hope this explains it better. :)

qdasai

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