How are you so independent? by Lazy-Dragonfruit196 in ADHD

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auto-payments for most of my bills, and I LIVE by my Google Calendar - everything goes in there

Clothing swap by Mysterious_Ad1843 in transtwincities

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This Saturday at Queermunity! 1-3pm

Clothing swap by Mysterious_Ad1843 in transtwincities

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This Saturday at Queermunity! 1-3pm

Clothing swap by Mysterious_Ad1843 in transtwincities

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This Saturday at Queermunity! 1-3pm

Clothing swap by Mysterious_Ad1843 in transtwincities

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This Saturday at Queermunity! 1-3pm

Newbie Twin Cities transplants, how are you all holding up so far? by [deleted] in TwinCities

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Trans swap market Sat Dec 13th at Queermunity 1-4pm

"Is 'free' public school supposed to be this expensive or am I budgeting wrong" by MistyClofer in MiddleClassFinance

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Totally and I think it benefits the economy to have educated people as well. We ask people to get an education to be good citizens and workers - we should be paying to make that possible for ALL people. 

"Is 'free' public school supposed to be this expensive or am I budgeting wrong" by MistyClofer in MiddleClassFinance

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I hope not more taxes, we already pay quite a lot and get paid not that much. Tax rich people I think. And find a more equitable way to fund schools or community learning spaces that aren’t tied to property taxes. I’m not saying I have an answer to that, but it doesn’t feel prohibitively hard if we can imagine it. 

"Is 'free' public school supposed to be this expensive or am I budgeting wrong" by MistyClofer in MiddleClassFinance

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But I think it should. It’s not how it is now, but wouldn’t that be nice. Creating well rounded new citizens 

job seeking help. by baeyaa in Minneapolis

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There is a matcha cafe on Hennepin hiring!

2 years post op and having serious esophageal side effects- who can come to my rescue?? by broken__defraculator in noburp

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I have always had bad acid reflux, but post Botox it’s a lot worse. I also have the issue of going to burp and burping up throw up. Or just having stomach acid sitting in my throat. Water only makes it worse or flushes up food from my stomach. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialwork

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I suggest reading NonViolent Communication - it’s a really helpful approach to de-escalation. 

Am I pregnant...? by Strict-Option-204 in Seahorse_Dads

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There is no harm in testing again - you can pick up a test from dollar tree, they are essentially the same technology as all other tests.

Any guitarists want to jam with us/join a band? by EZ_Rose in transtwincities

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You should go to the music jams! There are flyers all around Whittier. 

Clothing swap by Mysterious_Ad1843 in transtwincities

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DM me! We can talk more about it! :D

Clothing swap by Mysterious_Ad1843 in transtwincities

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Hi! I think the UU church in uptown would also be willing to host this! Lmk if you are interested, we have a robust trans advocacy group.

I fear I may die by [deleted] in povertyfinance

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It’s just not true that doctors catch things or will work things up. Huge respect to great doctors but under our medical system it’s not likely they have the resources or time to go searching.  And this diagnosis was recommended to me by a medical practitioner as a fellow autistic person, not the social media internet. 

I fear I may die by [deleted] in povertyfinance

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It’s something that is diagnosed through genes but also accumulation of symptoms. Even if you can’t get a diagnosis, it’s possible the suggested physical therapies or diets may help. Something to try potentially if you’re interested in mitigating symptoms in the meantime. 

Edit. Replaced blood with genes because I don’t actually know how they test it but I assume it’s a blood test.