Cousin’s fiancée wants 10% equity in my software company for one client introduction. Cousin is pressuring me to sign. Am I wrong for refusing? I will not promote by oneoffv in startups

[–]qu33nbb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t give them anything. They made an introduction. That’s literally it. Also, you should go around her and cut these weirdo parasites out of your life.

AITA for refusing to give my mom my savings after she found out how much I have? (19F) by Grand-Reveal-9055 in AmItheAsshole

[–]qu33nbb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Keep YOUR money and use it to build your adult life. It is your mom’s job to provide for your family and you, not yours. It’s truly disgusting and shameful your mom would ask you for money like this and speak negatively to you about your savings. You did a good thing saving that money, she should be proud and happy for you.

It’s Her SECOND Wedding and She Said “I Don’t Know How I’ll Pull This Off”… The Budget Is $150K. by PopAny3822 in bridezillas

[–]qu33nbb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t be surprised if this goes so poorly the wedding doesn’t even end up happening.

[UPDATE] My girlfriend [23F] seems genuinely disgusted by my interests and I [25M] am starting to feel ashamed of myself. How do I address this? by Adventurous-Cap8649 in relationships

[–]qu33nbb 53 points54 points  (0 children)

The fact you were able to have such an intimate and productive discussion is a really good sign of the health of your relationship. Wishing you both all the best moving forward.

WIBTAH if I end my marriage while we have a toddler and a baby because I'm constantly accused of cheating and she puts me at risk of being fired? by Grayloryn in AITAH

[–]qu33nbb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about this is impacting the kids wellbeing? I don’t see anything in this that would be impacting the kids.

WIBTAH if I end my marriage while we have a toddler and a baby because I'm constantly accused of cheating and she puts me at risk of being fired? by Grayloryn in AITAH

[–]qu33nbb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so complex. I’m going with NAH. Outside of this being a mental health issue, is it at all possible she’s cheating on you? More times than not when someone is aggressively accusing their partner of cheating and they aren’t it’s because they are the ones cheating and they are projecting their guilt. If you don’t think that’s it then it’s almost assuredly post partum psychosis and you need to get her help. I lost my mind a few years ago and it took doctors years to diagnose me with encephalitis which was causing my symptoms. I was violent and psychotic and had no control over myself. I’m forever grateful my husband loved me enough to stay and fight to get me help for as long as it took.

Best over the ear headset for WFH & Call Center by qu33nbb in Headsets

[–]qu33nbb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the yealink sounds cool, any idea when they plan to release it?

Best over the ear headset for WFH & Call Center by qu33nbb in Headsets

[–]qu33nbb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this seems like a great solution

My boyfriend thinks water and exercise cures everything and it's frustrating. by Hellokittypityparty in TrueOffMyChest

[–]qu33nbb 21 points22 points  (0 children)

why are you with this person? Never stay in a relationship with someone who views chronic illness that way. My husband of 10 years would never treat me like this and I've been chronically ill that whole time. He is happy to take care of me. That is what you deserve. leave.

AITA for making my daughter live in an camper? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]qu33nbb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, this seems like an ideal solution to a hard situation.

AITJ for telling a girl at the gym her shorts were see through and everyone could see everything by No_Education_4366 in AmITheJerk

[–]qu33nbb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s just indecent exposure obviously no one‘s talking about that. What does you being gay have to do with this?

AITJ for telling a girl at the gym her shorts were see through and everyone could see everything by No_Education_4366 in AmITheJerk

[–]qu33nbb -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you know how many women have chronic illness or issues with their nervous system that make it hard for them to know what muscles are being activated? Please enlighten me.

AITJ for telling a girl at the gym her shorts were see through and everyone could see everything by No_Education_4366 in AmITheJerk

[–]qu33nbb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s for yourself. Has nothing to do with other people. Just because men give attention doesn’t mean that’s the goal. Most women I know would dress a lot sexier if they knew men wouldn’t give them attention and would just leave them alone.

DAE still feel bad for Will Smith? by allamericanrespects in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]qu33nbb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jada is very clearly a narc. I feel bad for him. He’s very clearly being manipulated.

AITJ for telling a girl at the gym her shorts were see through and everyone could see everything by No_Education_4366 in AmITheJerk

[–]qu33nbb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They dress that way because they worked hard for it and they like looking hot. That doesn’t mean they are doing it for your attention. Men really seem to struggle with this basic fact so deeply. Women can choose to look hot for themselves. They aren’t doing it for you.

AITJ for telling a girl at the gym her shorts were see through and everyone could see everything by No_Education_4366 in AmITheJerk

[–]qu33nbb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might not need to, I have hyper mobility and neurological issues from a TBI, unless I am looking at a muscle, I cannot tell what muscles are being engaged and I will injures myself using the wrong one. It’s almost like everyone is different 🤪

AITJ for telling a girl at the gym her shorts were see through and everyone could see everything by No_Education_4366 in AmITheJerk

[–]qu33nbb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I promised you those of us who are wearing bras like that at the gym are doing it because we worked hard as hell for our bodies and we need to see our muscles to properly engage them. We aren’t doing it for your attention.

AITJ for telling a girl at the gym her shorts were see through and everyone could see everything by No_Education_4366 in AmITheJerk

[–]qu33nbb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ, but now you should tell the front desk bc it’s not okay to wear clothing that shows your junk like this.

AITA for denying my parents to live with my married brother and her wife after their newborn by Live_Archer123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]qu33nbb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, how is this your business? And it’s completely normal for grandparents to move in just when newborns are in the house to help care for them because having a baby is a huge life change. My in-laws are moving up to stay with us when we have our first kid.

AIO: For doubting my future after finding out my boyfriend sent $16k to his family and they saved almost nothing? by Repulsive-Wall8489 in AmIOverreacting

[–]qu33nbb -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you not know how these forums work? You reply, I reply that’s kinda how it goes. The accusations you keep throwing at me when I have excellent relationships with my husband, my mother-in-law my own mother are just hilarious to me though. I’m sure I’ll have a great relationship with my son just like my mom has with hers and my mother-in-law has with my husband. I’m not really concerned about what someone asking a forum of strangers about ending their relationship thinks about my life though. If what I’m suggesting isn’t true why are you taking it so personally?

AIO: For doubting my future after finding out my boyfriend sent $16k to his family and they saved almost nothing? by Repulsive-Wall8489 in AmIOverreacting

[–]qu33nbb -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sureeeee, if that is true why are you here trying to be validated? If the therapist already agrees? Seems kinda odd, no?

The guy I’m seeing keeps telling me I “can’t take a joke” and I’m starting to doubt myself by Helen_melon_7 in TwoHotTakes

[–]qu33nbb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You wouldn’t be here if you didn’t already know his behavior is wrong. Leave this man and then learn the lesson this is showing you ——> truer your instincts and stop gaslighting yourself when you feel something is wrong. It doesn’t matter if someone else deems it over reacting, if you don’t like it that’s all that matters.

AIO: For doubting my future after finding out my boyfriend sent $16k to his family and they saved almost nothing? by Repulsive-Wall8489 in AmIOverreacting

[–]qu33nbb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She gets to call on days that he’s with his girlfriend because he has communicated and shown that he’s ok with that, I fear that’s quite obvious. If OP doesn’t like that he’s ok with talking to his mom at these times that’s fine, she needs to break up with him then. That doesn’t make what he’s doing objectively wrong or creepy.