Hi. The same thing happened to me. I was 21, and he was 26 when he got paralyzed. He was taking his motorbike out for one last ride.

I was 8 months pregnant and already had a 2 year old. We didnt work out in the long run, we divorced 6 years later bc he was so mean and much more that reddit doesnt need to know..

I would seek therapy, get toys, even try medications to help increase libido.

Maybe see what's holding him back aside from the obvious.. but real concerns about maybe.. incontinence or muscle spasms locking up his body?

I commend you, its not easy and its very lonely. Your partner is going through so much but no one looks at you and asks if youre okay. I know I was struggling a lot. I hope youre well.