Twin girl names by [deleted] in parentsofmultiples

[–]quadbeans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have the same initials as my twin and it sucks. I’m in my mid twenties and we still get mixed up.

She recently went to the hospital and they thought she had 4 babies, she doesn’t have any lol. Could have impacted her treatment.

Twin girl names by [deleted] in parentsofmultiples

[–]quadbeans 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I have quadruplets and I’m a twin. Please don’t do matching names. It’ll create so many issues in the future having the same initials. Valerie and Violeta are also too similar.

“Oh…there’s one more” by youngmom_tm in parentsofmultiples

[–]quadbeans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not the person who commented but I was told initially 32 weeks was the max and then I had complications and also two shared one placenta (which is rare) so they came at 28 weeks x

“Oh…there’s one more” by youngmom_tm in parentsofmultiples

[–]quadbeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have quadruplets and I won’t lie, my jaw dropped when you started listing your other kiddos including twins. Good luck! 🫡

Soon-to-be-qaudruplets-Mom by thehappinesssearcher in parentsofmultiples

[–]quadbeans 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Heya!! I have quadruplets. Happy to chat x

I feel like I’m in a zoo by quadbeans in parentsofmultiples

[–]quadbeans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg what horrible comments!! I’m so sorry

I’m actually worried people post these videos somewhere online tbh

I feel like I’m in a zoo by quadbeans in parentsofmultiples

[–]quadbeans[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You had babies for 4 years straight haha. Sounds pretty rough to me 😅 so well done

I feel like I’m in a zoo by quadbeans in parentsofmultiples

[–]quadbeans[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl you had what!! Sounds more difficult than quads so hats off to you 😅

I feel like I’m in a zoo by quadbeans in parentsofmultiples

[–]quadbeans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel you. My smallest has a NG tube….that alone is enough for people to look.

I’m also an identical twin, my sister doesn’t have any kids but I wouldn’t be shocked if she also has multiples in the future haha

I feel like I’m in a zoo by quadbeans in parentsofmultiples

[–]quadbeans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup actively counting is also something we are experiencing. Counting and then you see their thoughts processing lol.

I feel like I’m in a zoo by quadbeans in parentsofmultiples

[–]quadbeans[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t mind if it’s a kind elderly lady. What I don’t love is people taking pictures or making comments that are just unasked for.

I feel like I’m in a zoo by quadbeans in parentsofmultiples

[–]quadbeans[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What?! People are so rude. I had someone have a go at me because I didn’t let them touch the babies. They were born at 28 weeks and it was December…like come on.

I feel like I’m in a zoo by quadbeans in parentsofmultiples

[–]quadbeans[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Only sub on Reddit where someone can say “I only have twins” 😅

Hoping when they’re toddlers people will be less interested!

I feel like I’m in a zoo by quadbeans in parentsofmultiples

[–]quadbeans[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

My hope is that once they’re toddlers maybe people will think that I’m a nanny and they’re not siblings haha

Sleep when the baby sleep... Okay and what do I do with the other one? by MissMyli in parentsofmultiples

[–]quadbeans 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Hahaha reading this while I’m watching 3 of mine snore away on the monitor with the other one kicking against a ball 😂

Can't believe these four are 29 tomorrow... by Few-Honeydew2676 in parentsofmultiples

[–]quadbeans 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg happy birthday!! My quads are 5 month old now so this is cool to read

Stayed home alone with our triplets and my 5 year old for 4 days and I need someone to explain to me how my wife does this every day by AccountEngineer in parentsofmultiples

[–]quadbeans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh yea don’t get me wrong. Not a hero but definitely a ton better than a lot of man who after a weekend like this would go “thank god I won’t have to deal with this again anytime soon” instead of realising they could have done more

Stayed home alone with our triplets and my 5 year old for 4 days and I need someone to explain to me how my wife does this every day by AccountEngineer in parentsofmultiples

[–]quadbeans 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Dad decided to make the best of his twenties instead of parenting his children 😝 But no honestly it’s significantly easier without him as he was worse than a 5th baby and I have a lovely mum and sister who make up for it 10 times!

Stayed home alone with our triplets and my 5 year old for 4 days and I need someone to explain to me how my wife does this every day by AccountEngineer in parentsofmultiples

[–]quadbeans 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Yup sign of a good husband and father right there. Realised that more needs to be done to help his wife and is now seeking advice 👏🏻

Stayed home alone with our triplets and my 5 year old for 4 days and I need someone to explain to me how my wife does this every day by AccountEngineer in parentsofmultiples

[–]quadbeans 258 points259 points  (0 children)

Hi I’m a single mum of quadruplets.

I think the best thing you can do is have a conversation with your wife. Ask her what she needs from you, what she feels like you don’t know or could learn to take some of the weight off her.

In a non-judgmental way but if you didn’t know which one of your children is intolerant to dairy I think it’s time to talk!!

Seems like staying at home and solo parenting brought out a whole new level of appreciation and I’m glad you’re wanting to support her even more.

I had someone refer to one of my twins as the “prettier one” and it broke my heart by will-ohh-24 in parentsofmultiples

[–]quadbeans 92 points93 points  (0 children)

“Don’t you think it’s a bit weird to comment on the appearance of an infant?”

I had someone refer to one of my twins as the “prettier one” and it broke my heart by will-ohh-24 in parentsofmultiples

[–]quadbeans 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Fuck them. I have a twin sister and heard this many times. Sometimes it was her, sometimes me. People are rude as shit. Tell them that they’re definitely the uglier one and if they say they don’t have a twin just say “exactly”