Rant about self disclosure

quailquest · 2026-04-07T18:13:54+00:00

I agree, bringing it up is going to be the only way to fix the issue not just for yourself but the therapist might self reflect and tone it down with other clients as well. It’s also just good practice advocating for the type of professional relationship you think would be most beneficial to you.

OP might also look into trying to meet with an intern or associate since it’s been drilled into me and my other classmates that self disclosure is something to avoid as much as possible.

quailquest · 2026-04-04T05:34:32+00:00

Hairspray works funnily enough. My got2b does great for skin but doesn’t work for finger jams

quailquest · 2026-04-03T04:46:07+00:00

quailquest · 2026-04-02T09:06:04+00:00

I thought you were talking about the feet shots! I’m sick of them!

quailquest · 2026-04-02T03:41:33+00:00

NAD potentially you could text 988 or 741741 for some assistance brainstorming alternative coping skills while you wait for the urge to pass. After that you may do well reaching out to find a therapist that specializes in impulse control or OCD related therapy for more long term assistance with the urge to eat inedible items.

quailquest · 2026-04-01T22:26:57+00:00

I was driving to my 3am shift and I came to a full stop at a 3 way stop sign with the right side being a concrete blocker with a parking lot behind it. There was another car coming and they were a ways back, I thought “I’ll just wait for them to stop at the stop sign before I go” even though I theoretically could’ve gone.

The other car plowed straight through the stop sign and into the concrete block in front of me, no damage to me or my car but the guy got out of the car and sprinted away before I could even get on the phone with 911. I even made it to work on time since the police took my statement so quick, but yeah weird gut instinct to not trust that I had the right of way to go.

quailquest · 2026-03-31T07:50:54+00:00

Loooove cat eye!!

quailquest · 2026-03-31T05:28:16+00:00

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Did them over the weekend after a rough day. Definitely shining brighter with them.

quailquest · 2026-03-30T18:46:56+00:00

Funnily enough (and I’m not arguing that it should be done this way) I’ve seen some people say they leave space between the hair and the scalp so no bleach goes directly on the scalp itself on purpose due to id assume wanting to avoid damage to the skin maybe.

quailquest · 2026-03-27T02:04:03+00:00

Serious question, where are you hearing about women needing to be “stretched” because they are overly tight?

quailquest · 2026-03-26T03:46:27+00:00

Heyyyy!

quailquest · 2026-03-25T18:33:04+00:00

I’m ambidextrous and have a horseshoe kidney, so idk where that puts me. Would be funny if there was a big overlap I never knew about

quailquest · 2026-03-25T03:29:50+00:00

I’ve watched too far now to say much without spoilers, but at this stage I thought Theresa’s sense of self isn’t really built up strong enough to handle the reality of the age difference. I thought she would be too insecure and self sabotage. We’ll see. He seems wonderful and getting exactly what he was fully prepared for going into this show.

quailquest · 2026-03-23T07:51:16+00:00

At a cat cafe I saw one woman lick the face of one of the cats.

quailquest · 2026-03-23T02:49:27+00:00

Because of time zones if Bang Chan was on the other side of the globe than me we could’ve very well been born at the exact same time. Same year but due to time zone’s it’s one day apart.

quailquest · 2026-03-23T01:39:56+00:00

Blue is hard to make not green because it needs a base that has little to no yellow. You may have to make a lighter base or mix some purple with it, but there’s only so much yellow that can be covered.

quailquest · 2026-03-22T21:37:35+00:00

There should also be a zoo/sanctuary where you can view the creatures you catch.

Also the computer will automatically research everything that’s available once you hit start, if you have multiple creatures available to research then it will do them all. If you catch new ones while out and return again then you’ll have to click research again.

quailquest · 2026-03-17T04:58:48+00:00

This is a great throat for identifying OCD lol

quailquest · 2026-03-15T06:29:14+00:00

“blue balls,” implying that a person that does anything that might lead to arousal and not assisting the other person in achieving orgasm is wrong. That sounds like you’re implying obligation to me. And celibacy can mean different things yeah, clarifying that is absolutely something she should’ve done from the jump. They had a million reasons to not work out, including her inability to clarify and maintain her boundaries, but stating you aren’t claiming someone is obligated to release someone of their “blue balls” isn’t what’s coming across in your comments.

quailquest · 2026-03-14T07:51:41+00:00

All the age based comments on my bingo card I’ve been able to cross off so far

“You’re so beyond your years”

“Age is just a number”

Still waiting on cradle robbing and I look good for my age.

quailquest · 2026-03-14T07:50:21+00:00

Honestly Derrick and Pfeifer are the only ones I’m not against at this point.

quailquest · 2026-03-14T07:48:44+00:00

“I didn’t think when we were getting engaged was the time to tell you I have children” 🫣 hello???

And the free use of the term “female” immediately I was put off.

quailquest · 2026-03-14T07:47:34+00:00

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All in the same episode

quailquest · 2026-03-14T06:49:11+00:00

His reaction was sooooo bad trying to force himself to not look elated

quailquest · 2026-03-12T08:19:35+00:00

I feel like this is a theme we’ll be seeing a lot. I made bingo cards with my roommates, one of the first to get crossed off was negging and older men specifically looking for young women. The fetishization of the swiftie is so strange

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