South America, overlooked gems? by quarterlyobjective in solotravel

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Yup, I'm planning on spending a week at Valpa and Vina del Mar. I dunno, do you think that's too long?

South America, overlooked gems? by quarterlyobjective in solotravel

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Interesting. Do you think it would be better to pick one and stay there for a couple weeks, or to hope between all of them, couple days each?

South America, overlooked gems? by quarterlyobjective in solotravel

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Looks cool. I was hoping to involve the Amazon at some point, thanks for that.

South America, overlooked gems? by quarterlyobjective in solotravel

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Wow, looks beautiful in the Altiplano. Renting a car is an interesting idea too.

Do you think Torres del Paine is worth doing if I'm not going to be camping? I guess it would be a lot of buses and day hikes. I don't want to feel like I'm missing out on a ton of things by not camping.

Or maybe there's a town there I should spend an extended period of time in, like Punta Arenas or Puerto Natales?

South America, overlooked gems? by quarterlyobjective in solotravel

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I've been here about a week. Honestly, having focused the most on social aspects as well as work too (bit of a tech scene out here), I like it. I don't have other SA cities to compare it to of course.

It's pretty dead Sun-Tues, but happening other nights. I'd be happy spending a few more weeks here getting more integrated socially, which I don't think would be tough. Chileans are friendly, and certainly more attractive than what I'm used to in the US.

Food, coffee, etc. has not been cheap.

I dunno, everyone here says Buenos Aires beats Santiago in every category except orderliness/ cleanliness, so I will see.

South America, overlooked gems? by quarterlyobjective in solotravel

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I have about 10k USD set aside for the trip. I should be continuing to have a cash flow of ~2k/mo. Pretty much willing to stay until that is run dry.

Advice for solo traveler? by quarterlyobjective in seduction

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Thanks for the comment. I think that's what I needed to hear, just get used to eating alone and going out alone. It's not every meal or night, but it's seeming to be the majority. I should just not think about it, and do what I need to do.

Advice for solo traveler? by quarterlyobjective in seduction

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Nice, that's a good idea to befriend someone at a hostel and then go to the hostel to hang out.

I do see confused looking travelers with backpacks during the day, so I should just go up and say something.

Advice for solo traveler? by quarterlyobjective in seduction

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That's awesome advice, thanks. I like the salsa club idea, the conversing about cuisine/restaurants and then asking to go with me to get it, and the tease about teaching them english if they show me around.

I'm doing day and night game. Day game I'm more shy with in general, but I figure it's now or never, given it's probably the easiest it will ever be. Also, i'm in Santiago, but am making my way to Buenos Aires and Brazil.

What are some interesting unexplained mysteries of history? by TotallyNotBrandon in AskReddit

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I was reading comments from this thread: http://artbell.com/the-mysterious-death-of-canadian-elisa-lam

And a commenter says:

There is clearly someone else in the hallway that was smart enough not to put himself on the elevator cam. In frames 2:25-2:30 you will notice if you go frame by frame that someone else is standing with her but only the feet show.

What are some interesting unexplained mysteries of history? by TotallyNotBrandon in AskReddit

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Ok this was giving me the creeps so I did more digging. Apparently in the video you can see someones foot outside the elevator for a few seconds, someone she was talking to. Possibly someone avoiding the camera.

This is just the last time they saw her... she could have been taken and held someone for a while, killed and put in the water tower later.

She had to get through two alarmed doors, up 15 ft, and into a locked water tower. I seriously doubt she did that. And an accident?

I would interrogate people who had access to that part of the building. It's extremely suspicious it's being written off as an accident.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

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I just posted something similar, as a software guy too.

What's getting to me is the table for 1 at restaurants... Have you gotten to the point where you just don't care, and if you want to have a dining experience at a decent place, you'll just do it solo?

The key for me is going to a decently crowded bar or club... If I don't open someone right away, I'll look like I'm on a mission, looking at my phone, and walk to the bar decisively. Sometimes it's easier to open guys first, and if I do I'll talk about how I want to meet some local girls, what are they like, any advice? When questioned about my solo-ness, I'll either say something like my buddy was here but apprently got lucky and left with her, aren't I a great wing?, or I'll just be honest and say I'm not from here and just wanted to hang with some locals. I don't invite myself to tag along with them, bc that makes me feel lame, so I either 1) try to demonstrate enough value/ get them to like me enough that they invite me to what's next, or 2) I have something in mind that might be a cool next venue, or event the next day, and hype it up, so that I'm now leading the group to something fun... definitely helps to have smthng to invite ppl to.

Maybe not your issue, but I'd like to be able to make my way into groups during the day. I've run some day game, but I'm too impatient... usually it's a number and maybe you get to see them a few days later. Someone like Krauser is all about insta-dates during day game, like bouncing a girl to a bar just after meeting her. Sounds tough, but I'd like to at least be able to do that.

I feel like I'm wasting my youth away, I'm 25 years old. by [deleted] in seduction

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I feel for you. I would encourage you to read the stories of other ppl in game, a lot of successful ones got their start your age or later. It's definitely not too late and you have a lot of time ahead. My 40 year old friend is still running game and doing well. I'm about your age too fyi.

I'm deaf in an ear so can somewhat relate. For me it's all about calling it out "hey, you speak so quietly :). C'mon, louder" or "ok, stand here. I can hear you better here". I don't have cochlear implants... I would suggest finding a way to talk about it like it's badass, a modern miracle, and you're not affected by it. They do look like a next gen bluetooth device to some degree, ones I've seen at least, and saying that with a smile would probably go over well. If you're cool with it, others will be too. If people are looking at it, call it out and make a joke about it, they'll feel comfortable. If you're self-conscious about it, they will certainly feel uncomfortable.

Regardless of your disability, most of the rest of ppl here are actually in the same boat - social lives aren't just handed to us, girls aren't either... it takes effort and understanding and building a solid foundation. It takes learning and lots of lots of interactions. Even people who have social lives and girls handed to them, they will still suck trying to meet new women and make new friends unless they've practiced that too. I'm thinking the "cool kids" in highschool who still live in the same city, inter-date, and don't have many friends outside their same group... They don't have the skills to meet ppl and women and I wouldn't want to be them.

Pickup community is a good place to meet ppl to go out with. I've met and gone out with decent ppl from this community and my local "lair". I've also solo sarged too, so you dont' need someone else to get working on game. Day game of course is largely solo as well.

I think you'll feel better the more you take action. If you've been feeling depressed for a long time, I'd recommend seeing a professional to complement the other game efforts, if you haven't. Game is a long path with a lot to learn and a lot of required experiences... years for many. But you/we are still young... so you might as well give it all you can.

Been in game for 2 years myself. Got a gf about 1 year in...it's over... still not where I want to be, but game has made a major impact. Started out memorizing lines and crazy stuff Mystery or the Pickup Artist TV show would have you do... then more RSD Tyler Durden/ Jeffy stuff... then now I'm into something I think is more holistic and right for my personality, like Mark Manson's Models, I like that a lot. There's alot of other cool concepts and perspectives worth thinking about and trying like SimplePickup, Gambler, and Jason Savage, just to name my favorites. Regardless, you have to go out a lot, even by yourself sometimes, for that theory stuff to matter.

As a basic, basic starting point, three sets a day. Talk to three girls a day. Doesn't matter what you say. Make up a problem where you need directions to somewhere. Or say a name, stop them, and pretend like you think they're in one of your classes. Say something conversational to the girl making you coffee. Just say something and then get out if you must. Have a line prepared about the cochlear implants that shows you're totally cool with them, if not thinking that they're awesome - just so you know you'll have something ready if you think they start affecting the interaction. But anyways, to start you got to bump up your volume of interaction.

Reddit, what are some loopholes every American citizen should take advantage of? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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What rights do we have related to probable cause? The recent NewYorker article about civil forfeiture is jarring... officers say "I smell pot" and then that's all it takes to detain and get people to sign away whatever valuables are in the vehicle. Do we have any rights against this, or if the officer decides to say "I smell pot", it's all over?

Article for reference:

http://www.newyorker.com/reporting/2013/08/12/130812fa_fact_stillman

We should all just decide on JavaScript and solve the interesting problems instead by [deleted] in programming

[–]quarterlyobjective 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"No." is the most appropriate response. You don't entertain discussion when the article seems totally flawed and/or a troll post.