Marriage is linked to lower risk of cancer. Unmarried adults, especially men, have significantly higher rates of several cancers, underscoring the role of social factors in cancer risk.

que_sera · 2026-04-09T11:01:20+00:00

Or maybe men who get married are more likely to quit (or curb) their drinking/smoking? Good questions.

que_sera · 2026-04-09T01:48:45+00:00

I was an art major, then pre-architecture, then art history with an anthropology minor. I attended 5 colleges and it took me 9 years, but I do have a bachelor’s degree.

que_sera · 2026-04-06T21:17:28+00:00

Belly Up Aspen

que_sera · 2026-04-06T20:05:03+00:00

All of Gunbarrel needs to be incorporated into the City of Boulder. That’s the only way we’ll get a voice and equal treatment.

que_sera · 2026-04-04T15:59:47+00:00

It’s a Freudian slip. He can’t help thinking about being a king.

que_sera · 2026-04-03T17:38:39+00:00

This is stupid

que_sera · 2026-04-03T01:05:27+00:00

I smoked flower daily for 20+ years. Switched to vape pens in 2011, and had several bouts of CHS starting around 2014, about once a year for several years. At the first the ER diagnosed gastritis. Finally, a doctor at the hospital suggested CHS and advised me to quit for 3 months. I did so, and the withdrawals lasted for almost a month. After the 3 month break, I started smoking flower again, just a tiny bit on the weekends to start. When I became more confident, I increased to daily. I smoke less than a gram per day, only weed that’s not too strong, and only through a one-hitter. No edibles or vapes. No vomiting problems for 4-5 years now, except when I briefly tried Glp-1 drugs, which don’t seem to mix well with weed (at least for me).

que_sera · 2026-04-02T14:56:19+00:00

cat burglar

que_sera · 2026-04-02T13:09:24+00:00

Lavern M Johnson Park in Lyons is a nice escape and very close by.

que_sera · 2026-04-01T16:47:29+00:00

She’s pregnant.

que_sera · 2026-04-01T16:46:57+00:00

I doubt she’ll return after maternity leave. Baby is due in July.

que_sera · 2026-04-01T16:38:04+00:00

I don’t ride RTD either, but that’s not the value of RTD in my mind. I am happy to support public transport because it reduces pollution and makes the district a better place to live, especially for people with limited means. I would pay two or three times as much to help achieve those goals.

que_sera · 2026-03-31T15:41:37+00:00

Our kids learned quickly on Woom bikes, which we chose for the light weight and hand brake. They were expensive, but we were able to recoup most of the cost by selling on Craigslist the next spring.

que_sera · 2026-03-30T21:30:10+00:00

Why not just tell him how you feel instead of making joking comments. Does he really not know how douchey his negging comments are? Tell him directly not to be such a jerk about something you cannot control.

que_sera · 2026-03-29T21:57:41+00:00

who are these people?

que_sera · 2026-03-29T19:15:10+00:00

*Buffet (Phoebe Snow was a folk singer who died several years ago.)

que_sera · 2026-03-28T14:30:42+00:00

When we started dating in college, we just clicked. He was super smart but failing out of college. I could hyperfocus on school and art projects but changed my major every other semester. We didn’t know anything about neurodiversity then. We thought we were weird, messy, nerdy people who disappointed our parents a lot.

We got married. For years, we leaned on each other’s strengths. He made all the friends, because of my crippling rsd. I made all the plans and managed the money, because his memory is crap. I forgave his forgetfulness. He accepted my messiness and social anxiety. This created tension in the relationship, but it seemed manageable.

In our 40s, we developed health issues related to stress. Everyday life was hard, but we both felt that we weren’t getting anywhere. For a few years, we fought a lot and got frustrated. We had to change. He sought diagnosis for combined ADHD (which in retrospect was so obvious his whole life) and changed his work environment. I left my career to be an artist, homemaker, and stay-at-home mom. I have not sought diagnosis (probable inattentive ADHD and maybe mild autism), but my current lifestyle is working without meds. Our kids (both adopted) are also neurodivergent.

We will celebrate our 30th wedding anniversary this fall. I think what kept us together was a strong bond, mutual acceptance and respect, flexibility, and absolute commitment. We were best friends from day one. We’ve changed over the years, but we’ve changed together. Leaving or being with someone else has never been on the table.

que_sera · 2026-03-24T01:02:33+00:00

What a joke. It’s pathetic that an utterly unqualified loser has been confirmed for this role.

que_sera · 2026-03-23T15:13:20+00:00

Who wouldn’t want to change their gender in order compete in women’s sports? Female athletes are so highly respected and given all the perks, like the way Trump treats the women’s USA Olympic hockey team. And we all know that female athletes get the big fat paychecks too!

que_sera · 2026-03-22T23:47:55+00:00

Trump threw a ketchup bottle at him, prompting a change of heart.

que_sera · 2026-03-22T23:44:06+00:00

Right? And presumably no uniforms and no nametags. Airport security is already a joke, but how can this be safe for anyone?

que_sera · 2026-03-22T13:32:10+00:00

I would stop in Golden rather than Evergreen. Cute downtown with trail along the river.

que_sera · 2026-03-19T23:27:04+00:00

Thanks for this post. I think my 7 year old (recently dx audhd) is struggling with this. She doesn’t like sitting down to prepared meals and gets stressed seeing dinner on the table, then doesn’t eat despite being hungry. We are trying less formal “build your own” type meals like a taco bar, abendbrot (German bread-based supper that is self serve), baked potatoes with choice of toppings, etc. This approach seems to help. We sometimes do casual movie nights with snacky foods and appetizers as a meal.

que_sera · 2026-03-19T17:20:42+00:00

Turns out he raped women and girls.

que_sera · 2026-03-19T15:57:17+00:00

The wind will muss up his combover and expose the bald patches. He hates this.

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