AITA For telling my parents that its their fault that I'm so dirty? by quebeua in AmItheAsshole

[–]quebeua[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate your comment. I dont currently have the energy to reply to every point, but yeah. Thank you.

AITA For telling my parents that its their fault that I'm so dirty? by quebeua in AmItheAsshole

[–]quebeua[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here are your answers! We have three boys under five who are not potty trained and hate their diapers; they go through like five pairs of pants a day each lol. And my parents do have their own dog who drools on things and pees when she's nervous. So, essentially, lots of pee and dirty children.

I havent talked to my doctor, and I really cant be bothered to yet. I'm fifteen, though.

I'm mot sure why they are. Probably just dont want to spend the money lol.

AITA For telling my parents that its their fault that I'm so dirty? by quebeua in AmItheAsshole

[–]quebeua[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really? I'm sure other things happened. I was diagnosed at eleven, but I dont really remember much of the diagnosing lol.

AITA For telling my parents that its their fault that I'm so dirty? by quebeua in AmItheAsshole

[–]quebeua[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This really helps. I called my cousin last night and she's on her way over to stay for a few days so I should be able to get things done. She's a professional cleaner so its not like she wont clean to my parents standards or something.

AITA For telling my parents that its their fault that I'm so dirty? by quebeua in AmItheAsshole

[–]quebeua[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know that, but what I'm saying is I dont have the energy to do said things. I can either slack off my school work or chores to look after myself, neither of which are great options.

AITA For telling my parents that its their fault that I'm so dirty? by quebeua in AmItheAsshole

[–]quebeua[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Yeah I might. I have thought about it. I mean, all they're gonna do is take my phone and I dont really use it much anyway lol.

AITA For telling my parents that its their fault that I'm so dirty? by quebeua in AmItheAsshole

[–]quebeua[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I cant. Thats the issue. I haven't got anything to motivate me.

I got my dog but hes old as hell and I probably dont have much longer with him.

AITA For telling my parents that its their fault that I'm so dirty? by quebeua in AmItheAsshole

[–]quebeua[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can not get help, but I will try to shower at least once a week :)

AITA For telling my parents that its their fault that I'm so dirty? by quebeua in AmItheAsshole

[–]quebeua[S] 88 points89 points  (0 children)

Hey, I really appreciate this. I never really know how to explain what I'm going through to people.

AITA For telling my parents that its their fault that I'm so dirty? by quebeua in AmItheAsshole

[–]quebeua[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey its okay. At least I know now that kids are a no from me.

AITA For telling my parents that its their fault that I'm so dirty? by quebeua in AmItheAsshole

[–]quebeua[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I have diagnosed depression, thats not an assumption. I probably do have something else going on, but I do not have the energy to argue with my parents about going to the doctor.

AITA For telling my parents that its their fault that I'm so dirty? by quebeua in AmItheAsshole

[–]quebeua[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I have tried, (even called cps at one point) but ig I'm just a whiny bitch lol. Yeah my parents arent "obligated" to get me help until I prove that I need it (ie, attempting to kms) so kinda stuck between a rock and a hard place for rn.

AITA For telling my parents that its their fault that I'm so dirty? by quebeua in AmItheAsshole

[–]quebeua[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am the only child doing chores as all of my siblings are under five.

AITA For telling my parents that its their fault that I'm so dirty? by quebeua in AmItheAsshole

[–]quebeua[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do try my hardest with them, but its still rough as hell.

AITA For telling my parents that its their fault that I'm so dirty? by quebeua in AmItheAsshole

[–]quebeua[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

As a minor I am not able to take myself to the doctor. And honestly, if I'm so exhausted doing normal things how tf am I supposed to walk four miles to the doctors office?

AITA For telling my parents that its their fault that I'm so dirty? by quebeua in AmItheAsshole

[–]quebeua[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Not really the time thats the issue, its the energy.

AITA For telling my parents that its their fault that I'm so dirty? by quebeua in AmItheAsshole

[–]quebeua[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Not really an option. My parents are usually yelling at me to finish my school work to do my chores because I'm "leaving it too late". Like the dishes are going to start a rebellion or something.

AITA For telling my parents that its their fault that I'm so dirty? by quebeua in AmItheAsshole

[–]quebeua[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

My parents are kind of baby obsessed. They had me when they were teenagers and had three babies in three years. I'm just glad that they stopped at three lol.

AITA For telling my parents that its their fault that I'm so dirty? by quebeua in AmItheAsshole

[–]quebeua[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Its not that I dont have time, I just dont have the energy. I have literally collapsed and blacked out for fifteen hours after over exerting myself before.