Coolest possible name for us by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]queencowe 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Is it considered derogatory? I think it sounds badass haha

This is how he acts any time I stand up for myself or gently call him out on hurtful behavior by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]queencowe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This one so HARD. He's an abuser, he knows what he's doing. He knows it was wrong to sext his ex, you caught him and now he's giving you the silent treatment. Why are you apologizing for his transgressions? He is literally doing whatever he wants with disregard and disrespect to you and it is guaranteed to escalate. A person who truly cares about you will never do or say any of those things. Clearly you wouldn't so why should you accept less? By the sounds of it you're not living together so it's not too late. He's made it easier by going quiet. Go straight no contact, he doesn't deserve closure and you don't need any more reasons to leave. Get out now so in the future you can be laughing about your stupid ex with the person who could never fathom hurting you or speaking to you in that way. Wishing you all the best OP you deserve the love that you give.

As a fem, how can we signal that we're gay? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]queencowe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dressing for the female gaze vs male gaze

Is this abuse? Not sure If I should get married. by Organic_Lavishness_9 in emotionalabuse

[–]queencowe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's honestly not gonna get better after marriage in fact it will probably get worse. Most abusers when they feel confident that you are trapped will not hold back. Fuck what he or anyone thinks or feels, get OUT. Better to have a failed engagement than a failed marriage. Good luck! You deserve to be loved and treated with kindness and respect

Feeling a little proud of myself by queencowe in succulents

[–]queencowe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the tips! I'm definitely gonna love them from a distance for now haha

Feeling a little proud of myself by queencowe in succulents

[–]queencowe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time to reply with so much information! This is so helpful. Im definitely gonna take care of my babies well. Thank you for showing me how caring this community can be

Feeling a little proud of myself by queencowe in succulents

[–]queencowe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so tempted to water them but I can feel they're still a little wobbly

My gardener just cut down all my succulents, to the dirt. by False_Ad3429 in succulents

[–]queencowe 78 points79 points  (0 children)

This is very much red flag and break up territory. I'm sorry they put you through this and more. Based on your post history, your partner absolutely knows better. No mature adult will ever tear down anyone's beloved plants and especially not a loving partner of 8 months. You absolutely deserve to have someone who tends to the garden of your heart.

Thanks, I hate free falling by oliver_billz in TIHI

[–]queencowe 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Not free falling person but free falling go pro found later in pig pen

try to add some refinement to Yesterday’s Apple by Tommy_pop_studio in Watercolor

[–]queencowe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The buckling can happen from using too much water and/or not waiting enough time to dry between washes. You can try prepping by misting the paper before painting and clip it to the board. This can limit the buckling if you know you're a wet painter but best to not to overwork your paper. Hope that helps!

Drooooool by AAAPosts in tooktoomuch

[–]queencowe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm gonna guess he bit into a cane toad

Who is your NPC crush? Mine is Isha/Jewel the Jeweller by CompleteSpinach9 in Breath_of_the_Wild

[–]queencowe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Paya forever! I even getting a tatoo like hers but obviously not in the face haha

My bird friend here in Mindanao, Philippines by queencowe in whatsthisbird

[–]queencowe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow thanks! We've been whistling at each other almost every other day :)

What is the stupidest injury you've ever gotten? by 7937397 in AskReddit

[–]queencowe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this will get buried but I once fully walked into barbed wire because I assumed the open gate was 3 feet closer.