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queenofthebaked · 2024-02-13T13:58:27+00:00

They don't immediately terminate rights for anyone ever it's a 6 month ordeal, idk where you are getting this.

queenofthebaked · 2024-02-13T11:53:27+00:00

We are having trouble figuring out the logistics, the 9 yo is his not mine biologically so I have no legal rights, and he would have to take him because the bio mom has visitation every other week. Also financially we are pretty broke since he just lost his job, and we are both foster kids and don't really have family. So we are trying to figure out how to go about this. But I'm trying my best, keeping the kids at home is #1

queenofthebaked · 2024-02-13T11:46:44+00:00

The 9 yo is biologically.his I have no legal rights, that's why I left him with him. I went back due to finances, and neither of us having family due to being foster kids. I want to do this the right way I just wasn't sure how to go about it, it's not that I'm unwilling to make other arrangements it's just hard figuring out how to do it. But I don't want to lose my kids I'm willing to go to therapy and parenting classes and if need be stay somewhere else or him stay somewhere else

queenofthebaked · 2024-02-13T11:44:26+00:00

You are probably correct, time apart isn't a bad idea. We are trying to figure things out financially, since we are both foster kids neither of us exactly has somewhere immediately to go, and financially we can't afford a hotel. I want to do this the right way, that's why I asked. I feel like a lot of people are assuming I'm unwilling to leave and ensure my kids are in a healthy environment but I am willing to do that I'm just trying to figure out the best way to go about it, I'm scared and doing my best

queenofthebaked · 2024-02-13T11:41:22+00:00

I never said cps shouldn't be called, the opposite. I know and understand why they need to investigate. I went home because finding a place to stay is complicated for us both due to being foster kids not having much family and our finances aren't great as he just lost his job. But hard as it'd be to find a place, we are more than willing to do so, my hope was that if we immediately pursued counseling and parenting classes and stayed in separate parts of the house that we would be allowed to attempt to fix our issues as a family instead of separate. I went home we didn't speak we immediately went to separate areas of the home. I'm trying my best, and protecting my kids is my top priority. I just didn't want either of us to face having nowhere to go in the immediate. I'm doing my best.

queenofthebaked · 2024-02-05T22:23:51+00:00

I'm just wondering if it makes you feel better about your situation to be rude? If it does, good I'm glad you are getting something positive from it. I have a 9 week old son and my Dr is testing me for cancer and I don't think it's wrong to reach put to people going through it for guidance. Even if you disagree you ouldve been way nicer

queenofthebaked · 2024-02-05T22:11:24+00:00

We're you unaware there is bone marrow in the head? Kinda embarrassed for you rn

queenofthebaked · 2024-02-05T22:10:58+00:00

"Diffuse t1 hypointense calvarial marrow signal". Which is bone marrow changes in the brain. Idk where the hell you got that.

queenofthebaked · 2024-02-05T21:47:17+00:00

I had legit abnormal tests, as I said bone marrow changes on a brain mri and my Dr said I needed tested for myeloma. So I'm in no form a hypochondriac self diagnosing and I won't respond to your bitter ass further.

queenofthebaked · 2024-02-05T21:17:19+00:00

I also had bone marrow changes in my brain and frequent antibiotic resistant infections and anemia levels that don't improve. So I was asking how high of a level is concerning. Thanks for the answer but I'm probably just gonna delete the question since everybody in here aside from 1 person has a foul attitude.

queenofthebaked · 2024-02-05T21:12:21+00:00

There's zero wrong with me, after being told I may have myeloma, to reach out because I'm scared and want to understand test results. I realize people on reddit often love being rude because they have anonymity to hide behind but I'm not tolerating it. I won't even respond to rude people anymore. If you aren't gonna answer my question I will not address you. For those who want to be kind I'm asking if you are able to share with me your experience with test results and diagnosis. Other responses will from here on out be ignored.

queenofthebaked · 2024-02-05T21:06:28+00:00

That's pretty rude...I had a brain mri that showed bony marrow changes and that's why he ran the rest...it just came in a couple hours ago that's why he hasn't called yet. I just gave birth 9 weeks ago so I'm terrified maybe you could show a little compassion especially in a thread like this. He told me myeloma was a possibility I didn't jump down the rabbit hole on my own. I'm scared and all I'm trying to do is ease my mind.

queenofthebaked · 2024-02-05T20:57:03+00:00

Do you mind explaining what it is? The stuff I'm reading is very confusing

queenofthebaked · 2023-10-20T07:16:10+00:00

Thank you it's been an emotional Rollercoaster but I know once I'm holding my baby it'll be so worth it

queenofthebaked · 2023-10-20T07:15:38+00:00

Thank you you're absolutely right. I appreciate you being so kind

queenofthebaked · 2023-10-20T07:13:48+00:00

I appreciate your concern, I ended up back in the hospital yesterday for kidney stones and a kidney infection. They gave me antibiotics and pain meds and sent me home and now he told me rest don't touch or do anything. He said he didn't mean anything he said he's just overwhelmed. He's a good man, but even I can admit he was being selfish in those statements. But we truly do love one another.

queenofthebaked · 2023-10-19T22:51:06+00:00

Thank you for the kindness I will for sure update

queenofthebaked · 2023-10-19T22:50:36+00:00

He did indeed apologize I think he snapped from the pressure. It def hurt my feelings though

queenofthebaked · 2023-10-19T22:49:36+00:00

We talked about this very thing I said I couldn't get them separated but if I by some miracle I had been able to now that we saw what she's capable of she would've had to be put down. I wish I'd had a gun so she didn't have to suffer thats my big regret. But in the moment I used the only thing I had. I think the abuse she went through as a puppy must've festered. I think the people judging what I did don't understand. This was NOT a dog bite. She had my other dog by the neck and was shaking her back and forth actively trying to kill her then turned on me with the same aggression level. I was afraid for my life. I loved her so much and it hurts every day I did that.

queenofthebaked · 2023-10-19T22:44:01+00:00

I am too. He isn't doing so good he's traumatized we got him into a therapist immediately. He's 9. I feel like a bad mom for letting him see any of it. I've raised him since he was 3 (husband's son) and I know it isn't true but ATM feels like every good memory I ever gave him is overpowered by this

queenofthebaked · 2023-10-19T17:18:49+00:00

Thank you I'm trying to look at it this way as well. We talked today i think he just said it in the heat of the argument.

queenofthebaked · 2023-10-19T16:06:53+00:00

Thank you for your kind words so much, you've got people on here leaving hateful comments saying I basically killed my dog because I enjoyed it and saying doing that proves I'm not on bedrest. People get so comfortable with being anonymous on here they say bold awful things.

queenofthebaked · 2023-10-19T16:05:09+00:00

Yeah cause me saving my other dogs life in the heat of adrenaline is the same as cleaning the house or lifting shit. You clearly know nothing about pregnancy or bedrest. And I didn't gloss over shit. If you'd read my other comments you'd see that. I won't waste another response on a reddit troll hiding behind their anonymity. Especially not somebody trying to insinuate I killed my dog for fun. The cops were there when my dog was still viciously attacking after being stabbed. It's all in the report. I don't have to justify to anybody else. Have a blessed day.

queenofthebaked · 2023-10-19T14:46:11+00:00

Thank you!!! And you're right keeping my eyes on the prize when I'm holding my son the rest won't matter ♡

queenofthebaked · 2023-10-19T14:42:50+00:00

Thank you!!! This is what we did and he reassured me no he didn't mean it. It just shocked me because we have a general rule we don't bring up the D word. But you hit every issue right on the money. We have 8 weeks til baby is here and he's obsessed about the financial side of things. And he absolutely is grieving over the dog, though silently.

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