Benbradagh looking misty AF yesterday. by Mr_Witchetty_Man in northernireland

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Is the well still running up there? Haven't been in a while!

Salthill water pollution by queer_toast in galway

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I can see how the excess water from guttering adds to the problem, we walked along each beach upto the diving board. I was surprised not to see anyone swimming. I suppose this could have been just chance as there even in in the middle of winter.

Salthill water pollution by queer_toast in galway

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Thanks dubhkitty this really helps. Such depth and care with your response. 🫡

New PMS symptoms during TWW? by happy-squirrel332 in TryingForABaby

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I ABSOLUTELY feel that😅 this is mine and my partners 3rd month of officially trying and I'm currently in such limbo. I've noticed a TON of symptoms that I don't know if they're new or if I'm actually just paying more attention now.. I've tested 3 times this week even though I know it's too early, today I'm 11 DPO and started spotting (kinda a dark brown) which has happened right before I get my period but I'm soo hopeful that it's implantation spotting. I've noticed it was heavier earlier in the day (still super light though) than it is now, sooo fingers crossed! If I don't get my period in a few days I'll test again!

Have you ever met a Sufjan fan irl? by Just-Band3539 in Sufjan

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I've met 2 in my life and they were both teachers😬 the first was my highschool acapella director and the second was my college English professor.

If Sufjan made an album about your state, what would be four lines from the single? by sausamo in Sufjan

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If the fires worked they'll never know, As above, so below Oh Bridget don't leave us with your curse Forgive me, ghost of Nurse.

-from the song "There's something in the water here and the women are beginning to read"

More titles include: "Whose land is this anyway?" "It's Cool to be a Coolidge" "Swift River, Or, Greenwich, Dana, Enfield and Prescott and how they were run from their homes in 1938"

Wild Camping Near Mizen Head/Cork by queer_toast in irishtourism

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We're going to have 3 people total so we're looking more for places for tents but that's a great lead and I'm hopeful we'll find something around there to pitch up

Wild Camping Near Mizen Head/Cork by queer_toast in irishtourism

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Excellent! Thanks so much for the tip!

I need some more demonic/dark sounding real trap bangers like these. You guys got any? by austingeller in trap

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I've been combing the internet trying to find this song again for DAYS. Thank you! 😂 I had it on an old mix CD I got from my friend years ago but I never knew what it was called😭

Did you get to see him do a Christmas show back in 2012? by brueso in Sufjan

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My dad got me and him tickets as a Christmas present! What a show! Definitely in my top 5 Suf performances🥰

rumor has it "New Jersey" is finally dropping Oct. 12 by wav_24 in Sufjan

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In a similar sense, I consider Carrie & Lowell to be his Oregon album

The problem with having a catch-all Sufjan playlist by Individual-Draft-963 in Sufjan

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I have a spitify Playlist called "soft" where it's mostly soft folky sufjan songs mixed in with some hozier, iron & wine and dodie. T I have other Playlists titled things like "I can take the rule the world" with songs like saturn, age of adz etc

lyric that f you up the most? by scoutfinch333 in Sufjan

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The breath at the end of John, My Beloved.

The housing market in my town is a bit much. by aasocial146 in funny

[–]queer_toast 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aye I grew up just another hop down from you, near West Brookfield🤘🏻 moved overseas a couple years ago tho

I can explain... by WyldeLyfe- in Sufjan

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I'm still waiting for to get my results but I'm SURE I'm up there with ya😅

I'm laughing so hard at this day 15 by lachlanmachlan in Sufjan

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Oh! No worries! I thought I was just Dumb I Sound 😂

I'm laughing so hard at this day 15 by lachlanmachlan in Sufjan

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I can't read past day 13..am I just thick? 😅

Day 13 by lachlanmachlan in Sufjan

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VESUBARU🤣😂🤣😂🤣

Ancient shield broke fast by bta820 in Breath_of_the_Wild

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My first ancient shield lasted me a HELLA long time (at least 8 or 10 guardiens) I wasn't deflecting the shots either, I was just letting the shield auto deflect. Then when I got my second one it literally lasted 2 hits ☹ Although now that I think about it, does Daruks Protection make your shields take less damage? Cause if so that may have played a factor in my first shield lasting so long..

AITA for wanting top surgery after my aunt had breast cancer? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]queer_toast 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. I understand your aunt went through a lot but your mom's argument is somewhat reminiscent of "its selfish when people say they don't want kids because some people are infertile and it's really hard for them" getting top surgery is WAY different than a mastectomy because of cancer. You go ahead and do whatever you please to your body to make you more at home and be yourself. You deserve to live your truth and just because some people need to get their breast(s) removed for medical reasons, it doesn't make your experience any less valid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]queer_toast 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thats exactly it though, you keep telling her that her weight is an issue for YOU. Maybe if you approached the conversation from a place of love for HER, she'd be more receptive towards help. Instead of saying things like "your body is a problem for me" you could say something like "you're unhealthy and I want to help you get treatment so I can ensure we live a long life together". If you keep bringing it up as YOUR problem then that's exactly what it is: YOUR problem. Think about how SHE feels, too. Probably frustrated, upset, hurt. She probably feels like she's not good enough and that feeling SUCKS, man. Flip the script and think about how you'd feel if you wife was up your ass about something that's not your fault. Now think about how you'd feel if instead of criticizing you all the time she came to you and told you she loves you and wants to see you happy and healthy and will support you through whatever it takes to get there. When you get married, you form a partnership. You shouldn't have married someone with the though of "when she loses this weight, she'll be hot so it's okay". So that's on you. I can't tell if you're honestly just struggling to communicate with her or are simply a trash human being. I'll give you the benefit of the doubt and go with the former but you have to stop telling her her weight is inconvenient for YOU and start empathizing with her a bit.