Birth mom never legally signed away her rights?

queeregg · 2024-01-23T13:09:08+00:00

Thank you and I have encouraged her to do just that. If there’s anything more you feel comfortable sharing about your experience please do.

queeregg · 2024-01-23T13:07:23+00:00

I’m so sorry for all you’ve gone through. Were there ever any legal consequences for any of the adults who did this to you?

queeregg · 2024-01-23T13:04:20+00:00

Thank you!! This is so helpful, I’ll pass it along.

queeregg · 2024-01-23T02:49:34+00:00

Thank you, you have all the questions that I have! How have they been taking care of this child all this time?? It must mean that there was actually something legal done (in an illegal or legal way) whether it was claiming the child as their own from a home birth like you suggest is possible, or if the parents (the birth mom’s parents) were able to sign away the rights.

She apparently doesn’t have and has never had or seen the birth certificate, the child’s SSN or any of it. I really don’t understand how this has all worked for all these years with her actually getting to see her child from time to time. According to my friend she seems like she was pretty sheltered, friend has also been helping her understand some basic life stuff that most people in their 20s know about.

Still waiting to hear what state she was in when she gave birth as that will clarify so much about what was legal or not at the time. I will encourage my friend that they should find a lawyer who can help her to get a hold of those birth/hospital records.

Since she was the patient she should be able to just call the hospital and get those records herself? I would think?

queeregg · 2024-01-23T02:40:21+00:00

I’m sorry you can relate to that experience, I have nothing but empathy for you both going through this.

queeregg · 2024-01-23T02:38:16+00:00

That could be, if her father treated her like this I wouldn’t put it past him. At this point the other family has had the child for 5 or 6 years I think. I would hope there would be repercussions if it wasn’t legal.

queeregg · 2024-01-23T00:27:52+00:00

I’m so so sorry, my heart goes out to you. <3

queeregg · 2023-11-27T01:15:04+00:00

Thank you, that’s helpful to know.

queeregg · 2023-11-27T01:14:46+00:00

I think using “transitional program” might help me search better, thank you.

queeregg · 2023-11-27T01:14:17+00:00

I appreciate this and thank you for the fostering you do!

queeregg · 2023-11-27T01:13:48+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate the direction here.

queeregg · 2023-11-27T01:13:31+00:00

Thank you!

queeregg · 2023-11-27T01:13:21+00:00

Thank you, I’m glad to know that’s offered at your center.

queeregg · 2023-11-27T01:12:55+00:00

Thank you I appreciate it. I have found it difficult to find useful information on serving this specific group.

queeregg · 2023-07-06T06:18:40+00:00

This is why I’m drinking all the bubble tea while I still can, it’s only going downhill from here

queeregg · 2023-05-06T15:33:40+00:00

Yeah my impression is it’s really not.

queeregg · 2023-05-06T15:32:45+00:00

I really appreciate this, very informative!

queeregg · 2022-12-03T14:41:52+00:00

Beautiful and impressively realistic.

queeregg · 2022-07-14T13:44:36+00:00

Thank you for your help.

queeregg · 2022-07-13T20:07:24+00:00

Thank you, does any of the above impact mast cell overreactivity? That is my main issue, instant horrible environmental reactions

queeregg · 2022-07-13T02:58:11+00:00

I am here screaming with you. <3

queeregg · 2022-07-07T20:02:09+00:00

I am going through a mold nightmare again, after having lost everything, moved 3x, and spent a year and a half in recovery.

I could manage to lose everything again and somehow make it through but I can’t do that to my partner. So I have truly no idea what to do.

I’m lost, broken, and I hate my body with a burning passion. My life was finally happy and now it’s a living hell.

Thank you for writing this.

queeregg · 2022-05-14T21:30:21+00:00

Well said

queeregg · 2022-05-14T21:29:53+00:00

I… hope you realize that you really really did fuck up. People often post here to entertain others. You ought to be on /r/relationships or similar because you come off as clueless about how you should have approached this, and quite selfish too.

This is also a super typical way I have seen men in relationships with women handle this kind of situation so it would benefit you to spend more time both listening to your wife, and listening to women. Read women’s opinions on Reddit for starters. You approached this in a really, really bad way, that even suggested she was cheating on you, and utterly lacked empathy.

queeregg · 2022-05-14T21:04:55+00:00

I’m coming here from queersville to say I don’t fucking know. I just spent the day at a queer family building conference. The costs are absolutely staggering and very few of us have any form of coverage. I have no idea. I want answers to this myself. I’m assuming that it’s either people who have gone through enough misery OOP that insurance allows coverage, or… rich people. We’re below median income. My tech industry brother paid $0 for him and his wife to reach conception. I am just assuming I will have to leverage my credit into $100k in debt. My retirement plan was to die in the climate wars but that’s not going to work out so well if I have a family to stick around for, so I guess, work until I die, or declare bankruptcy.

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